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Why to guys always go quite when you wanna arrange a meet lol.

Honestly, usually cause they probably don't have what they say 😂 Why I always wait till I'm good.
But never hurts to create scenarios over chat lmao
 
The guy I'm dating has told me he has met other women in the past in a public place such as outdoor cafe or park. He brings his dog along so that the woman knows he has a dog and she is who she claims to be. He has said some women have met guys who claim to have dogs but don't. Then try to still be in touch with them bc they say they can find a dog.

I never knew about this lifestyle before him. I'm glad I have experienced it with him. I trust him and I don't know if I would be seeking this with someone I never trusted.
Bringing a dog for a first meet can be problematic. If the guy doesn't bring a dog, the woman can't be sure if he's for real or a poser. But if the woman isn't real but police impersonating a woman, he's leaving himself open to being entrapped.

Entrapment isn't a problem everywhere, it depends on the local law enforcement. But anyone thinking about a first time meet needs to think about it.

Our local sheriff entrapped several women by having one of his deputies bring a dog to the meet. They'd get one from the animal shelter. That's why I recommend to never bring a dog the first time. Fortunately we have a new sheriff who's interested in fighting real crime.
 
After all the talk and promises why do guys always go quite when it’s time to sort a meet ?
Maybe because your willingness to meet makes them realize how much of their thinking is fantasy. Either that or they've been full of bull and can't deliver.
 
Guessing most are acting out a fantasy online, but when it comes to things getting real, it gets scary. In a fantasy you are fully in control, when you meet with someone you loose at least part of that control.


Behind the keyboard in your house you are safe, practically no risk. When you go out to meet the risk increases. The sex may be disappointing, other person may not be who they claim to be, might get mugged, setup by police in case of zoo stuff, might get found out your cheating and so on
Yeah. I think this is the right answer. My wife and I have met others a couple of times.
 
It gets scary. I got as far as face to face with half of a couple, but I got a bad vibe and cut it off. I feel bad about it if they were genuine.
 
Most people love the idea but meet someone new off the internet has to be pretty scary. I feel like I will have want to have known someone and spent alot of time in voice calls / cam with then before I could ever make that jump. They probably agreed in the moment then got cold feet.
 
I’ve have had this problem s few times with guys and girls. All exited for the meeting and possibly of a show or a sample for them selves but back out at last minute
 
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