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Why to guys always go quite when you wanna arrange a meet lol.

Canilaris said:
Apart from the online meeting challenges in general it is still a very controversial topic. There are a lot of odd people out there, so yeah.
And, are they interested in me or just my dog, so meeting Id say not impossible but unlikely.
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Well me I would be interested in both but I can only speak for myself
 
Gere said:
I think many men say they have dogs when they have not, 99% of all DM is guys asking uss to share pic and experiens. But no one of them have dogs. Many "laides" to".
So many probably is just planing darikg and dont show upp to sound cool and experiens
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Well we must be in the 1% I suppose. . . .
 
Whittle09low said:
Female's get quiet too when meeting.
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Yes they do also. . . .very frustrating especially make changes to ones own schedule to accommodate their timing, and taking all reasonable considerations to validate that they are serious with their intentions. . . then they just don't communicate and disappear.
 
Well I never even try to make it that far with folks without years of correspondence.

There's a short list of people I'd take out to dinner and movie. Even shorter list of people I'd wanna get naked with.
 
CuriousK9er said:
Ya I dont think its that easy to prove unless caught in the act. And watching it isnt ilegal. If it was it wouldn't be all over google search engine... lol.

But im definitely against the abuse and forcing animals. Thats where even having sex with female dogs and horses would make me uncomfortable cuz I wouldn't know if they actually wanted it. Which they wouldn't in the same way we do anyways I don't think. Unlike dolphins lol

But ya you're right there are never warnings or horror stories posted here. I am curious about how many active users there actually are men to women kind of thing. Probably 20:1 men to women.
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I know from experience that animals only allow sex with humans when they want to and therefore when they have consented to it. From what you say here seems to me that you may not be very familiar with domestic and farm animal behaviour in everyday situations whether animals are being asked to do work such as pull a plough a sleigh, a kart, etc including dog sleighs as with huskies. When animals get trained to do all these things it is a specific job for the trainer to understand the animal's behaviour and temperament in order to trai it to do the job. Approaching an animaland asking it to do something that it might not want to do is always a dangerous situation and the person doing that job should always be aware that animals can easily harm humans if provoked to do something that they don't want to do. So, in the case of having sex with animals male or female it is always the animal that allows a human to have sex with the animal not the other way round. If you try to ever force an animal to have sex woth you and the animal does not want to at that precise moment then you will be hurt by the animal and that would be your fault and indeed what you deserve.
 
Just guessing. A whole laundry list of complications and risks are being added onto the maddeningly complex process of human interaction. I can see getting cold feet being common even if I think it rude to do so without letting someone know. Being stood up hurts and is embarrassing regardless of the context.
 
I find it even more odd that I can initiate contact. Speak like a semi intelligent human. Provide and prove that I indeed have animal partners... and more often than not, also provide a place to meet.
And still I am ghosted 90% of the time. The very few others... the people have been so weird and off putting that i distance myself from them.
 
Steve1982nl said:
Guessing most are acting out a fantasy online, but when it comes to things getting real, it gets scary. In a fantasy you are fully in control, when you meet with someone you loose at least part of that control.


Behind the keyboard in your house you are safe, practically no risk. When you go out to meet the risk increases. The sex may be disappointing, other person may not be who they claim to be, might get mugged, setup by police in case of zoo stuff, might get found out your cheating and so on
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yes i think you summed it up perfectly, at least for a majority of cases. Every time i've met a potential playdate for my boy irl i've been a bit nervous about it for those reasons. Also for every girl i've met irl it has only happened after about a month of discussions and building trust both ways, we always meet at a public park first and that first meeting remains 100% innocent. If we both feel the right vibes after meeting in person then we discuss going further at a later date. So for the total of 5 women i've actually met irl there would be at least another 5 that i have literally ghosted for various reasons, something in my gut didn't feel right, usually because they want to rush things which is a huge red flag to me. If a girl is legit about meeting to have sex with my dog she should be super carefull for her own security and privacy, if she isn't then we don't want to play with her, hard decission to make sometimes but i don't want my life to be completely ruined by someone elses recklessness or 1 stupid decission made in haste 😕

@yankusa sorry this has happened to you must be very frustrating, how many times? Maybe they are fake ,you could get them to verify they actualy own an intact male dog before discussions about meeting even start?
 
Some people get nervous meeting others. You never know who the other person your messaging might be like. Sometimes it takes years of messaging before trust can be built up. There might also be self esteem issues that keep people from wanting to meet others. There’s plenty of reasons why some people might get nervous about meeting.
 
yankusa said:
fter all the talk and promises why do guys always go quite when it’s time to sort a meet ?
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99/100 of them didn't actually have the dog, horse, bull, boar, or whatever they promised you. The /1 who did, wisened up and thought the better of risking it.

Speaking as someone who's arranged and hosted semi-successful public gatherings in the past, y'all are putting the cart before the horse. The early meetings can't be sex focused. Put the time in first. Lay the bricks. Being penpals, thence to being social in a normal, platonic human way. Friends first, before lovers. You'll only ever get a few dedicated core group folks to repeat the outings. Those are the ones worth keeping.
 
901k9 said:
As everyone has acknowledged nerves and caution will get the better of some people. It's always been a fervent wish of mine to watch a woman with a dog in real time but I also know being pragmatic I may never find it.
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I’d like to watch it too
 
Blacksoul said:
ok, that’s a point too, but then you should have the decency and talk about it and not just ghost somebody..
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A lot of these people are only chatting for their own enjoyment pleasure. They dont give a single care about you or your feelings, they only care about getting off. Once they're done... you're useless to them. They're just using you as a masturbatory tool.

I don't like that it's that way, but when it comes to sex stuff online... most people are entirely self-absorbed.

The other thing that comes into play is that sadly there are a lot of people in this "subculture" if you will, that are here because they have no social skills and see animals as their last option to experience sex. A person like that will probably not want to meet in real life because they have a history of failures becoming friends with other humans. Behind a keyboard where there's no risk they can get off on the fantasy, because they dont have to deal with real life rejection.
 
Some people get off on the conversation and the fantasy of meeting, not the actual meeting. And some only have courage when they’re aroused. Soon as they get off, they loose their motivation and disappear. I’ve had a number of people who did they to me to the point that I just deleted them and moved on. I don’t exist to get people off by raising my hopes.

But personally I’m a lot more concerned with the lack of interest in building a friendship rather than just “let me have sex with your animals”.
 
kyhorse said:
Some people get off on the conversation and the fantasy of meeting, not the actual meeting. And some only have courage when they’re aroused. Soon as they get off, they loose their motivation and disappear. I’ve had a number of people who did they to me to the point that I just deleted them and moved on. I don’t exist to get people off by raising my hopes.

But personally I’m a lot more concerned with the lack of interest in building a friendship rather than just “let me have sex with your animals”.
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Hook up culture will be the death of western civilization.
 
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