DatewithNine
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Been with my wife 10-ish years. Decent enough relationship, relatively okay sex life. But as I'm sure a lot of you can relate: I want more. I want to explore the beast lifestyle with her. Now I accept that there's a chance she's not into it and it'll have to stay at that, but.... what if? I've previously gotten little hints of her maybe being curious.
first off she grew up with an intact male dog. so there could've been exploration there. Secondly, she (on a few rare occasions) has pointed out dog dicks in things like pictures/movies/at the park. But maybe it's all me being hopeful and everything is in my head.
We may be getting a dog in the future, which I suppose could lead to more of her pointing it out, especially if we were at home and the red cock emerged. Although when asked if she'd prefer a boy or girl she said "probably a girl."
So, backstory aside, does anyone have any good suggestions to find out if she's into the kink BEFORE we get into the process of adopting a pup? I'd like to adopt a male, which wouldn't be too hard to convince her to get- but if she's not going to play with it, I'd maybe prefer a female instead.
Obviously it's a touchy subject matter and she's an animal lover and I'd hate to ruin everything we've built together just because of a kinky interest. Any advice would be appreciated, sorry if the post is all over, and I rambled a bit.
first off she grew up with an intact male dog. so there could've been exploration there. Secondly, she (on a few rare occasions) has pointed out dog dicks in things like pictures/movies/at the park. But maybe it's all me being hopeful and everything is in my head.
We may be getting a dog in the future, which I suppose could lead to more of her pointing it out, especially if we were at home and the red cock emerged. Although when asked if she'd prefer a boy or girl she said "probably a girl."
So, backstory aside, does anyone have any good suggestions to find out if she's into the kink BEFORE we get into the process of adopting a pup? I'd like to adopt a male, which wouldn't be too hard to convince her to get- but if she's not going to play with it, I'd maybe prefer a female instead.
Obviously it's a touchy subject matter and she's an animal lover and I'd hate to ruin everything we've built together just because of a kinky interest. Any advice would be appreciated, sorry if the post is all over, and I rambled a bit.