juan_doe_drei
Citizen of Zooville
tho it'd be nice to hear "i love you" back, just once....
this is true. :/
tho it'd be nice to hear "i love you" back, just once....
Oh boy I recognized myself a couple of times in your post... I made only half-hearted attempts with girls/women, I account that to just not having much sexual interest. I mean I do like getting attention and smiles but that's it.I wonder how many zoo exclusives didn't attempt to have a sexual human relationship at some point in their life..?
For me, I gave it a very sheepish attempt a handful times to be sexual with some people. Sex with humans has always caused me varying amounts of anxiety for various reasons including my interest in dogs, lack of drive for people, expectations of sex, etc. In time, I experimented with a handful of guys in the furry fandom over the years and each time I couldn't get into it & out of my head. No experience with women for the same reason. Later, I dated one guy for over a year and we both were trying to understand ourselves and our needs. It was a good relationship experience and experiment for us. We found that I was not actually drive to have sex with him and he really wants a partner who is sexually intimate. We ended the relationship and over time it was positive one.
I resisted for the longest time accepting myself as exclusive because I feared that means I would be alone. At this point, it's clear I just don't lust for humans and I continue to challenge my own headspace. It's really all in my own head and avoidance of being hurt that hold me back to some degree. Also, I have separated the entanglement in my head between zoo exclusive and alone. I understand that it's not a given and requires a significant amount of effort to find the special someone(s) in the limited pool where it might work out.
To be honest I think it's the human's part to work on that jealousy... if you love somenone, let them be free...* Dogs can 'cheat' in that they may want to be sexual with other dogs & people. I believe that's more of a human perception of jealousy and lower expectations since they aren't fully bound by society standards.
Yeah you can definitely be sure after such an experienceSo that evening and looking at my mostly totally instinctive raction I admited to myself that what i wanted sexually was not a Big hunky handsom man, but a Strong, heandsome, male with a great scent and nice paws and slender hips and shiny fur.