All true. As I said above about the other topic, that requires a persistent, concentrated and properly done effort. Doing it ENOUGH times, and doing it right, will work. Too many people look through the newspaper, don't see anything, then toss it aside, saying, "Well, that's it. There is nothing out there." That is senseless and lazy.
No. Being a loner does not make you a loser. Please remember that?
Amen!
Choice? Tell that to those of us whom have always had shitty hands of life dealt to us. Some of us don't choose to be loners, we just know we're god-awful at being human. I'm sure @saddlebum66 would gladly offer such testimony.
You only partially understood what I said. I said many people make the choice of being alone. They WANT it that way. They like it. It works best for them. They don't WANT to have to share their life with anyone. That makes them happy. For all these reasons, they made the choice. Not everyone would or should make that choice.
See my other reply to you.
pillar, old boy....do you ever know what youre talking about? It seem miraculous when anyone else does. If your life is problematic, Change it...or not....but give us all a break and quit whining.
How do you change something you do not control?
You can take your SUBMIT, grease it up, and sit on it.
What does internal control have to do with controlling the situation a person is in? That doesn't make any sense...
That refers to your heart and mind. That kind of control.
I fail to see how controlling your heart and mind would change anything externally.
Okay.
sometimes i wonder whatever his "i'm really stupid" is really just an elaborate act to get attention and/or responses or he really is just this stupid... we'll never know.
Regarding him, I'm torn between the two of those. Maybe a mixture of both.
If it doesnt make sense, then its in your alley, Pillar. Heres a comic book explanation for you. Superman does not freeze into permanent "Clark Kent" mode because the phone booth has disappeared. Alleys, Storerooms, Closets, rooftops all serve his purposes.
You're making even less sense now, no one here has the ability to control anything outside of themselves. And changing anything about yourself does not change the external world, so what does trying to control anything accomplish?
Call me stupid if you have to, but I don't comprehend what you're saying. It doesn't make sense to me...
* bro-hugs *Try following no path
Its not about absolute control.....its about controlling what you CAN control. Facing the world as an already-defeated wimp isnt going to help you one damn bit. Most people accept others at face value; if the value you place on yourself is low-to-none, no one else will plsce a higher value on you. Worthless is as Worthless does; valued members of society are exactly the same. You love your depression and you adore the attention you're getting here because of it. Find some help....you're wearing out your welcome.
Yes, doing that feels pretty rough, but often, it's what it takes.
