Recently discovered I’m into cheating on my partner

[libim29689bulatox]

This topic was a wild read and has me chuckling for everyone's collective "what the fuck?" especially the Fallout "Everyone Dislikes That"

I was looking for stuff outside the horny posting and that this was what I found, it made me happy.

I've been on both sides, have felt horrific after in all cases. Wouldn't recommend it.

That you've gone so far to do it (assumedly without their consent) speaks volumes to a likely deep dysfunction in your relationship, and honestly hope it's that you're a shitty asshole vs. the alternative that you've found yourself in an abusive situation which is the only time I could ever imagine myself condoning it.

Hope that life allows better for your partner and yourself soon either way.


If you just found the idea hot, that's what sublimating your desires and communicating with your partner is for.

 

[valleyyote]

I have to admit, that topic is well prepared trolling. Of course lot of people are triggered but user peperohno haven't responded yet. Maybe he is waiting for more drama? Who knows..

Typical common troll topic

Sadly I am not do sure about this idea of trolling I have actually known some guys in the past who were genuine about how manly it was to be player and was to be expected to be considered a cool, "real" man no matter if your were married or in a serious relationship and promised to someone. These guys were sick, disgusting individuals and constantly bragged about their latest conquests, and how it really didn't matter what their significant others thought or felt about. The military has for a long time had what they call the wall of shame it is a place where a person or their spouses photo is displayed to show what an absolute piece of crap they were. When I was stationed in England in the air force the cheat rate was around 90% on base. It was the reason we instituted a two person policy if some had to go visit someone's spouse. We were a special ops base so folks were away quite often. Leaving the door open for all kinds of inappropriate behavior. It was even a mess at the Christian college I attended after I got out of the military. Folks were just as messed up there if not more so in some instances. It upset me to no end when I saw the number of lives it ruined. So yeah never underestimate the trash that is around us every day. Even the church I used to attend hd its share of proud cheaters.

As you can see I have my reasons for believing this may in fact be genuine bad behavior at its worst.

 

[Theunis323]

I would never cheat on a guy if we have met and got serious in a relationship. It's wrong.

 

[valleyyote]

I would never cheat on a guy if we have met and got serious in a relationship. It's wrong.

Awesome. Truly it is and I don't understand why so many people do not get this simple concept.

 

[carlosbraga00]

i like it as well

 

[FurrEverYours]

I prefer the companionship of a human male partner (im gay). So its hard to entertain my zoo side and have a partner without cheating sexually. I dont really consider it cheating though... its just sex.

 

[wanttowatchirl]

No human has the right to judge another for anything they like or dislike.

 

[gentledom]

Better to be in a poly relationship

 

[Valkiria]

No human has the right to judge another for anything they like or dislike.

Just as no one has taken away our right to be disgusted by dishonest and sneaky scumbags who have betrayed the people closest to them.

 

[wanttowatchirl]

Just as no one has taken away our right to be disgusted by dishonest and sneaky scumbags who have betrayed the people closest to them.

That's true but all of that is your opinion the disgusted and scumbag are emotional responses to something you see as wrong. Others may see them as a kink and if you sit there and judge then you open yourself up to judgement this site is a "taboo" site and most "normal" people will judge and belittle all of us for just being on this site. All I'm saying is we shouldn't be the pot calling the kettle black.

 

[Sumpup]

I like the roll play aspect of it. Straight guy asked me once what a gay pick up line was. I said , "I'm married " he was like oh that's true, nobody wants you until you're taken.

Those bad bitches just want to wreck some homes. Regardless of gender. If that's what you're into just use protection. Maybe someday you'll meet someone who's into being cheated on. Stranger things have happened. If I was married to a porn star I'd almost expect it. I don't think I would mind. But the second I said I was ok with it I guess it looses your interest huh... that's a catch 22 there bud.

 

[peebooparasite]

You should be ASHAMED of yourself. ):

 

[Valkiria]

That's true but all of that is your opinion the disgusted and scumbag are emotional responses to something you see as wrong. Others may see them as a kink and if you sit there and judge then you open yourself up to judgement this site is a "taboo" site and most "normal" people will judge and belittle all of us for just being on this site. All I'm saying is we shouldn't be the pot calling the kettle black.

This is not your fuckin' "taboo" or a kink, this is flat out dishonest, mean and rude cheating on someone, who trusts you.

 

[wanttowatchirl]

This is not your fuckin' "taboo" or a kink, this is flat out dishonest, mean and rude cheating on someone, who trusts you.

And again the way you look at things are not the same way that other people see them. And yes it is considered a kink. "Mean,rude,dishonest. Thoses are all again feelings your feelings at that and maybe other people's as well but its still not any other persons right to judge other people.

 

[Valkiria]

And again the way you look at things are not the same way that other people see them. And yes it is considered a kink. "Mean,rude,dishonest. Thoses are all again feelings your feelings at that and maybe other people's as well but its still not any other persons right to judge other people.

Judge you? Look the fuckin' up, scroll the thread and see with your own eyes if anyone supports your "kink". Clearly everyone is individual and not influenced by others, but any sane person will tell you that - yes - cheating is mean, rude and dishonest. I cannot understand your insistence on proving that you are a deceitful wretch, disrespectful of your partner and willing to betray the one who trusts you.

 

[wanttowatchirl]

Judge you? Look the fuckin' up, scroll the thread and see with your own eyes if anyone supports your "kink". Clearly everyone is individual and not influenced by others, but any sane person will tell you that - yes - cheating is mean, rude and dishonest. I cannot understand your insistence on proving that you are a deceitful wretch, disrespectful of your partner and willing to betray the one who trusts you.

Like I said YOUR opinion. I haven't ever cheated on any of my partners but I have known people on both sides of this and people who stand in the middle on this because it's not their place to say anything. There are whole religions that allow people to take way more then one partner and not chose who they get married to or who they are paired with are they wrong? Are they disrespectful? Who are you to chose what's right or wrong? Are you perfect? Do you not have flaws? Oh and I guarantee there are way more people that support a cheating kink (because thats what it is) then a zoo kink and that's just fucking statistics. Also before you go calling names you may want to scroll the feed and see who the OP is dumbass and clearly you have been influenced by others or you wouldn't get so heated over a discussion. Maybe you have been cheated on and you never got closure so you manifest those feeling towards others.

 

[Valkiria]

Like I said YOUR opinion. I haven't ever cheated on any of my partners but I have known people on both sides of this and people who stand in the middle on this because it's not their place to say anything. There are whole religions that allow people to take way more then one partner and not chose who they get married to or who they are paired with are they wrong? Are they disrespectful? Who are you to chose what's right or wrong? Are you perfect? Do you not have flaws? Oh and I guarantee there are way more people that support a cheating kink (because thats what it is) then a zoo kink and that's just fucking statistics. Also before you go calling names you may want to scroll the feed and see who the OP is dumbass and clearly you have been influenced by others or you wouldn't get so heated over a discussion. Maybe you have been cheated on and you never got closure so you manifest those feeling towards others.

What part of "cheating is not a kink" couldn't reach the two brain cells in your skull??? Kink is when both partners like it! Dishonest, mean and rude is when you betray your partner's trust! Do you even distinguish between cuckolding (which is kink) and cheating, which is betrayal!?

 

[wanttowatchirl]

What part of "cheating is not a kink" couldn't reach the two brain cells in your skull??? Kink is when both partners like it! Dishonest, mean and rude is when you betray your partner's trust! Do you even distinguish between cuckolding (which is kink) and cheating, which is betrayal!?

Wow you are dumb. you are basing everything you say OFF OF YOUR FUCKING OPINION. Cheating IS a fucking kink you dumbass. People call kinks things that most people don't like or consider normal. Everything you have stated is a fucking emotional response to how you feel about it. You want to say i have only 2 brain cells then you don't even have that many. At the very least put some shit out here that isn't based off of some main stream bs that made you feel some kinda way. "Oh he cheated on me what a betrayal" go fucking cry in the dark and keep you judgmental bs to yourself. I think I know why you were cheated on lmfao . I really hope that you don't ever have to be judged the way you are judging....cause if you ever find yourself in that position, your fucked.

 

[Valkiria]

Wow you are dumb. you are basing everything you say OFF OF YOUR FUCKING OPINION. Cheating IS a fucking kink you dumbass. People call kinks things that most people don't like or consider normal. Everything you have stated is a fucking emotional response to how you feel about it. You want to say i have only 2 brain cells then you don't even have that many. At the very least put some shit out here that isn't based off of some main stream bs that made you feel some kinda way. "Oh he cheated on me what a betrayal" go fucking cry in the dark and keep you judgmental bs to yourself. I think I know why you were cheated on lmfao . I really hope that you don't ever have to be judged the way you are judging....cause if you ever find yourself in that position, your fucked.

Is it possible that you are so stupid that you can't tell a kink from a betrayal?
Is it possible to be so clueless that you can't (or only out of stubbornness won't) understand the difference between cuckolding (a kink, where both partners agree) and cheating (where one partner betrays the trust and feelings of the other)?
Is it possible to be such a dumb, retarded and brainless subhuman fucktard that you can't (or won't) understand the difference even after it's been explained to you?
Is there a way for this simple information to reach your only, and severely damaged, brain cell????

 

[SxaBeast]

Is it possible that you are so stupid that you can't tell a kink from a betrayal?
Is it possible to be so clueless that you can't (or only out of stubbornness won't) understand the difference between cuckolding (a kink, where both partners agree) and cheating (where one partner betrays the trust and feelings of the other)?
Is it possible to be such a dumb, retarded and brainless subhuman fucktard that you can't (or won't) understand the difference even after it's been explained to you?
Is there a way for this simple information to reach your only, and severely damaged, brain cell????

On a lighter note- the earth, the earth, planet of my dreams, bulging at the seams, cheat cheat a cheat go ahead...

Zappa

 

[wanttowatchirl]

Is it possible that you are so stupid that you can't tell a kink from a betrayal?
Is it possible to be so clueless that you can't (or only out of stubbornness won't) understand the difference between cuckolding (a kink, where both partners agree) and cheating (where one partner betrays the trust and feelings of the other)?
Is it possible to be such a dumb, retarded and brainless subhuman fucktard that you can't (or won't) understand the difference even after it's been explained to you?
Is there a way for this simple information to reach your only, and severely damaged, brain cell????

Wow again you go to your fucking feelings as a way to try and explain how your right. Believe me when I say people like you are so fucking dumb your the reason they put warning lables on shit. A kink is ANYTHING that is NOT accepted by the mass majority of people. Kinks can be playful, intense, or scary, and can involve a variety of sensations and last i checked the feeling or thrill that a person get when they participate in something that is not outwardly acceptable is a kink.....so the one being a stubborn dumbass is you. So i say again "oh righteous one" who tf are you to judge.

 

[Valkiria]

Wow again you go to your fucking feelings as a way to try and explain how your right. Believe me when I say people like you are so fucking dumb your the reason they put warning lables on shit. A kink is ANYTHING that is NOT accepted by the mass majority of people. Kinks can be playful, intense, or scary, and can involve a variety of sensations and last i checked the feeling or thrill that a person get when they participate in something that is not outwardly acceptable is a kink.....so the one being a stubborn dumbass is you. So i say again "oh righteous one" who tf are you to judge.

Could you be more dumb and retarded?
Even a piece of dry wood knows there's a difference between kink and betrayal, but not you, with your one, and only, severely damaged brain cell.
Even a brainless fucktard would understand that hurting your partner is NOT kink, it's betrayal.
What exactly is stopping you from drilling into your empty skull that kink is when it gives pleasure to ALL involved?
Were you dropped off on your head on the floor when they gave birth to you?

 

[Cumdrunkk]

Ty for letting me know not to engage with you OP, because if you can't be trusted in such important regards, how can I trust you to keep secrets like this, etc.? I hope you come clean and know that you should be eternally grateful if you get even a shred of forgiveness

 

[Valkiria]

Ty for letting me know not to engage with you OP, because if you can't be trusted in such important regards, how can I trust you to keep secrets like this, etc.? I hope you come clean and know that you should be eternally grateful if you get even a shred of forgiveness

Trust is hard to gain and very easy to lose.
And for some "people" it's just a "kink".

 

[Cumdrunkk]

You're damn right and it's awful

 

[CarolinaWolfDog]

Wow again you go to your fucking feelings as a way to try and explain how your right. Believe me when I say people like you are so fucking dumb your the reason they put warning lables on shit. A kink is ANYTHING that is NOT accepted by the mass majority of people. Kinks can be playful, intense, or scary, and can involve a variety of sensations and last i checked the feeling or thrill that a person get when they participate in something that is not outwardly acceptable is a kink.....so the one being a stubborn dumbass is you. So i say again "oh righteous one" who tf are you to judge.

You’re the one who is incorrect here. We all see it

 

[Franny&Zooey]

Was curious if anyone else finds cheating to be so hot. I’ve experimented both with male dogs and human males and each time I’ve found it so incredibly hot.

Join the club. The act of cheating turns me on probably more than anything else. Especially when the person I'm cheating with is also cheating. LOL