I did a stupid thing back in the 90's. Was on a Zoo Usenet group and was using my real E-mail account tied to my real name.
BIG MISTAKE!
Eventually all my posts were copied and ended up posted on the bulletin board at my workplace.
Can you say EMBARRASING!
Ive learned my lesson. Never use your real name online. even in your e-mail address. Never posts your picture.
Never give out your phone number or address to anyone. Alway's use a VPN. be careful that your camera or phone doesn't GPS stamp your location on your photos. and watch out for any identifying signs or give aways in your photos.
Basically Trust Nobody! and if you really have to meet anyone in real life, meet in a public space at first. park far enough away, that they can not get your license plate number. don't divulge your real name or any identifying information to them. until you actually become real friends and feel comfortable with one another. Use Common Sense.
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