Need pointers with a dog.

[WikiTS]

So here is the thing - as someone, who would really love to be a bitch to a nice male doggy, I started thinking if I have some options available and, well, there is one. But I am not sure if it's attainable. Thus I am hoping to get some hints, suggestions and recommendations from people, who actually have some experience with the topic.

First of all, I want to underline, that the comfort and well-being of the dog in question are for me absolutely crucial - and that's the biggest issue, because I am pretty much backing out at pretty much any hint of him, not sure if it's his arousal, appreciation or he feels somehow uncomfortable. My biggest priority is to be sure that he would be at least interested in having me as his bitch.

Here is the situation:
The dog is a labrador (3 years old) and lives at allotment, alongside two other male dogs (both are older and much smaller). The allotment belongs to my very good friends (a couple) and I have my own key. All three dogs know me, and - while we never played much - they are always happy to see me. The dogs stay there alone for the nights (their owners drive to the allotment for a few hours every day, but they don't stay the nights with the dogs. That means that during evenings I can easily go there, and invite the labrador to the house and have comfortable time with him.

Now - where is the catch:
The dog never had sex, is extremaly timid (he is dominated by two other smaller dogs, and his owners constantly scold him for jumping at people when he is happy and wants to play) and acts basically like a big, a bit dumb, puppy that always wants to play... He gets so excited whenever he sees me (or probably most guests) that he even pees uncontrollably. I am not entirely sure if he is even able to take a dominant role over me...

I tried taking him to the house at the allotment, petting him, hugging - he obviously likes all that, but he instantly takes a very submissive position, lying down on the ground, I tried to calm him down with some caressing and such, I think he likes it. then I petted his belly. And soon I tried grabbing his sheath, which - didn;t make him run away or even try to escape when I caressed it softly and calmly, he just got a bit - I don;t know surprised? alerted? I obviously withdrew my hand right away. Tried it two more times, he didn;t run away even once. But I couldn't chase away the feeling that he just might be uncomfortable, and I definitely wouldn't want to force him into anything... In the end I gave up on trying anything more.

I am wondering if there is a way to approach him? That there is a possibility that he will like it? that he will be able to assert himself as a dominant male over me? Or maybe this kind of dog is better left alone? How should I read his cues? What signs given by him i should read as positive and what as negative? Any guidence could be useful.

I will add that about a decade ago I had some experiences with sucking off a German Shepherd - but with that dog back then we were like best friends - we both could read each other at 100% comfort level. He had absolutely no problem with me being his little cocksucker. But here, I am just afraid I could do something not the way he would like.

Really open for any helpful suggestions. be it in the topic or via PM.

 

[Goattobeloved]

Thing is... Your friends come back, dog jumps and tries to mount them obsesively.

That might upset them big time.

What do you think they might do about it in the worst possible scenario?

 

[WikiTS]

Thing is... Your friends come back, dog jumps and tries to mount them obsesively.

That might upset them big time.

What do you think they might about it in the worst case?

I actually thought about it... Well the dog - pretty much jumps at people absolutely every time they come - from happiness and playfulness. For him - jumping at people won't be very unusual. The idea is to let him know that he can jump at me and won;t be scolded, while my friends will keep scolding him for jumping at them... I believe there is an option the dog will see the difference. I am aware he won;t become dominant alpha male for everyone. I am just trying to see if it's possible to make him feel aplha and dominant for me - just one person.

As mentioned before - I am trying to see where my options are. Definitely not going to force anything.

 

[nekdoneco123]

try to actually get him to orgasm with your hand if he lets you. so he knows what that feels like. massage his sheath and give extra attention to the tip and just behind the knot.

also, get the fuck out with "alpha" and "dominant". dogs don't do greek letters and mounting (for sex) is not "dominant" behavior. timid/submissive dogs will try to have sex just as much as the naturally more dominant ones. my little boy is very submissive and will ask for sex, was all about him understanding that he can ask. he didn't became my "alpha" nor he "dominated me" or some other bullshit buzzword. my big boy presents himself as what you'd probably describe as "dominant" and he enjoys bottoming...

 

[SleepyDog]

There are quite a few good guides on this forum, including body language.

Your Labrador seems to be quite trusting of people, it doesn't matter how he treats dogs if he is healthy and does not suffer from insecurity and is afraid of every new noice and object.

At first, do it in a place where he feels safe and only when he really wants communication. The main thing is not to worry yourself and stop changing your mood suddenly. If you suspect that you did something unpleasant and painful, do not make sudden movements and try to end the attempt as something pleasant, for example, a game, a walk, a treat or whatever your pet wants at the moment.

But, of course, in the future he must understand that this process itself brings pleasure, and asks for sex when he wants it.