My Perspective on Ownership

[noasknotel]

First I want to make the disclaimer that this is all solely internal. i’m not projecting anything im talking about onto anyone else. i know that being a zoo owner is a unique dynamic and im just talking strictly about my own personal sort of feelings.
in the least narcissistic way this is about myself only and nobody else.

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The main advice people wanting to get fucked by a dog is to get and own a dog. to understand him as an individual not a sex machine and genuinely care for him.

The thing is for me that I grew up with dogs my entire life, and theyve always been family. My dad so much even refers to them like my siblings. I dont think that if I end up owning a dog of my own in the future- which is all but guaranteed, again just based on the life i was raised- that i would be able to engage with him sexually at all.

Firstly, i grew up almost strictly with female dogs (i had a myriad of animals growing up but dogs just happen to always be girls). I dont know if Im strictly gay for zoo, or if seeing dog dick just awoke something in me one day, but I was never attracted to any of my pets growing up. Maybe its because the family dynamic created but thats sort of a segue.

If I am the owner of an animal that animal is like my family. And personally, I would feel weird engaging sexually because of that. I would ideally want to meet an/other owner, hook up with them and develop a sort of friendship trust. meet the dog and like any dog lover, make him my new best friend. If there was a fwb situation with a dog- take him on walks, buy him treats, take his knot- and his owner that i feel might be the only way I could get a dog knot.

Almost like a hookup. Maybe the dog just happens to mount while im sucking dick. Maybe someones kinky and wants to let his buddy fuck first so to speak.

I know theres a lot of truly eploitative people open to abusive situations. Ion fuck with that. The dog, owner, and myself must be willing participants. I know people date and have relationships with their pets, and i get that. i could be open to a sort of k9bf situation. but to own my own dog, i could let him fuck other people but itd feel like a brother or a son to me

Idk if anyone has any similar sentiments or if im just a weirdo lol

 

[silentbob]

Thats definitely a valid point. I kind of worried the same thing but for me it didnt end up that way. It would be similar to saying every human = siblings.
I definitely see my dog as my partner, I love her just the same as I would a human partner. Now when other people call me her father, or daddy. that does make it a little weird feeling.
I would say don't worry about it too much just get one and see what happens.

 

[HowlingInAlpine]

I've had a few male dogs in my life. I shared deep, emotional bonds with them. I met them at various stages of my life, and we grew to love each other very very much.


Their health and well being was always my top priority. Hiking, camping, chilling at home and enjoying each other's company.
Their lives were fulfilling, and I believe they would feel the same way -- not just in a romantic way (all of us very eager, as I remember), but in all the everyday moments that we shared too.

It's the little things that made it a truly enriching experience.

I would do anything for them. They were my best friends, and our bond was built from mutual respect and care. I have tattoos and a photo album to remember them by.


Involving another person into my lifestyle, though? I'd strongly prefer dogs over people, but I do wonder what it's like sometimes. More often than that, if we're being honest with each other.

I've yet to find an owner that I can spend time with who feels similarly about their pets and is committed to their safety and happiness. We exist, we're out here, and that's the beauty of the open forum. But I mean... I'd like to think there's someone out there I can just go on a walk with, or shoot the shit and have a few beers with, or go fishing. Something real.