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Just a general question and input.

Farsightdog

Farsightdog

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If you're an owner. Whats the one thing that stops you from helping someone achieve their first time? Be it with a male or female animal.

For me it's been those who only seek it to fulfill their desires. I'm not here to help you find out if this is what your into. Those who are truly zoo seek those who are willing to make an effort to build trust. Networking and creating safe spaces. Where friends can talk freely about this. Is such an amazing thing.

My biggest advice to people wanting their first time. Is build trust. Create a friendship. You'll get way further by doing so. Plus you open up the potential for other opportunities. Ive helped others in the past. Then never heard from them again. It grows tiresome. Our companions arent just sex toys. For some they're our loved ones. Whom we protect dearly.

Love to get other people's feedback on this. ❤️
 
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From the outside looking in, taking all other perhaps more fraught considerations that have been mentioned out of the equation it seems like a really bad risk/reward for an owner anyways. Like, a full stop why-would-you-do-this kind of thing.
 
Yup. Has to be a special case. I enjoy sharing but it’s gotta be the right situation where my animals and I aren’t at risk. Stallions love to breed. I’d be a lot less willing with female animals.
 
For me, there are two issues that prevent me from inviting people over to 'try' and 'explore.

The 1st is trust. it would take a long time a very special person for me to feel comfortable to meet in real, and then be able to invite to visit my Shepard.

The second, is i feel a bond with my German Shepard that is based on both the sexual connection and the even more important one of companionship. My shepard is not a vibrator that i let someone borrow or recommend. he is a living, breathing part of my life and i covet our bond and relationship. not something in good conscience i could just share.

Just my 2 cents. it would be a special person who really got to know me well that would be able to enter my world.
 
AriesAngyl said:
For me, there are two issues that prevent me from inviting people over to 'try' and 'explore.

The 1st is trust. it would take a long time a very special person for me to feel comfortable to meet in real, and then be able to invite to visit my Shepard.

The second, is i feel a bond with my German Shepard that is based on both the sexual connection and the even more important one of companionship. My shepard is not a vibrator that i let someone borrow or recommend. he is a living, breathing part of my life and i covet our bond and relationship. not something in good conscience i could just share.

Just my 2 cents. it would be a special person who really got to know me well that would be able to enter my world.
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Can I ask as someone who is not an owner and also someone I doubt that would ever want to be with an animal I don't live with full time or with another person involved, why WOULD you do this? I take it you haven't gone down this route? I just don't see the upside. Altruism? It doesn't sound like it but would you enjoy adding the extra person in some sense (Don't mean to be rude, just asking)? No judgement, genuine curiosity.

Feel free to DM if you don't want to answer here.
 
BrotatoChip said:
Can I ask as someone who is not an owner and also someone I doubt that would ever want to be with an animal I don't live with full time or with another person involved, why WOULD you do this? I take it you haven't gone down this route? I just don't see the upside. Altruism? It doesn't sound like it but would you enjoy adding the extra person in some sense (Don't mean to be rude, just asking)? No judgement, genuine curiosity.

Feel free to DM if you don't want to answer here.
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Not rude at all. i welcome the question and i always like a discussion here.

I re-read my answer and i might not have been as clear as i could have been. my starting position would be no to inviting or including anyone. I am very happy in my own little world.

That being said, for someone to be invited in, it would be a very special person and a very special situation. i could not imagine one off hand, but never say never, right? there is some set of circumstances with someone, somewhere that would check the boxes.
 
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