Is it a good idea to seek a (non-sexual) trainer here?

[AllosKisser]

I'm very frustrated trying to find a trainer who understand me and respects my boundaries. Like not suggesting I neuter my boy. That is the big one. I looked at male trainers, but in my area they drank the un-cool aid and talked about neutering him(not-fun fact; it was actually flavouraid. R.I.P. to all those poisined at jonestown.)
I dont care how long I have to repeat shit! I would say, "Just teach me!" but thats not what I wanr, to be resentful and reluctantly settle.

It would be easier to put out a sort of reverse application for what I am looking for and what Im having difficulty with? Inngeneral, I just dont think I understand doggy. I'm neurodivergent, ADHD confirmed, autism suspected because relatives have that confirmed, only one has ADHD confirmed.
So I think they assume I'm childish and thats not someone I want to give my money to, making assumptions and not communicating.
Results arent all there is to training, its a bond between humans and animals, and wirh the trainer. An experience to be appreciated, not to feel... resentful over?

(Is there a best section for this sort of inquiry if yes? I wont do it here, this is thread for everyone's thoughts not my inquiry.)

 

[AllosKisser]

Thought more about it, if what I'm thinking isn't such a tooth pooling experience to expect, I would prefer a mentorship to learn doggy.

My friend says to pay attention, but I second guess myself and miss oppurtunities.

If a mentorship were possible, I would put my all into it and use my success to help people, over profit.
I have my own separate path to stable income. I really love animals and nothing else in life, besides babying my vehicle when I get one, seems worth putting time into. So I guess this is my skill to attain.

 

[Sumpup]

Just search the forums if you don't get any responses. There's plenty of people that have asked the same questions previously.

Use the search in the top right and just play around with the key words. Leave the member area blank and you should be able to view several pages of precisely what you need.

 

[AllosKisser]

Just search the forums if you don't get any responses. There's plenty of people that have asked the same questions previously.

Use the search in the top right and just play around with the key words. Leave the member area blank and you should be able to view several pages of precisely what you need.

Okay! I'll try looking. I just don't want to bug anyone.