I want to own or find an animal to satisfy my sexual fantasy. I know it is wrong to have these thoughts but I can't help it. I do want to own goats for more non-sexual reasons but I feel I am lying to myself about those reasons just to make myself feel better about the possible ownership of them. I would love find a way to satisfy my urges without violating animals. I have similar interests in furries. I want to go to a furry convention just to have sex with a furry but I know this is not what happens at conventions. These are thoughts I have daily and I know it is a fantasy but it doesn't make me feel better it makes me feel worse to know it will stay a fantasy. How can I talk to anyone about this if it illegal to be with animals? Does anyone know how to overcome these feelings?
Internal battle with zoophilia
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DaddyDomDog
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
If you don't want to do this then don't.
Tayonnaise
Tourist
My concern is your wording.. you keep referring to zoophilia as violating an animal, and that its wrong thoughts. I think you need to come to terms with and accept your interest before considering carrying out any desire. Its okay to have the fantasy. Even most therapists should say that fantasy is fine, reality is different. Once you know who you are you can look to fulfilling desire. Also your wording would send red flags to any owner that youre not genuine and put them and their animals at risk
Exactly. I know what I would do. I would be meeting owner for one thing and that is the problem. I would just want to be sexual with their animals. No friendship just sex and that I know is not what any owner wants. I have a male husky and I would never let random people come and play with him. As far as violating animals go I know owners don't see it like that but the law does. I feel like I have illegal wants that will never be.
I do want this but I'm having a crisis of morality. There is a stigma with zoophiles being sick. It is also illegal
mb11223
Tourist
Perfectly worded. If your mentality is wrong, then it IS wrong.
DaddyDomDog
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
Take some time to deal with it and think about whether you believe animals can consent. Some of the arguments about it are compelling.
saddlebum66
Supreme Citizen of ZV
Yes. Find a therapist, because you have some very wrongheaded ideas about all this. First, this isn't a place to find advice about Stopping. Forebearance is not a strong suit of any of the more confirmed denizens, and the advice you'll get from the others is worthless. Talk to someone uninvolved. As far as going off to a furry convention is concerned, try it. You wont have a clue what happens there until you actually attend one. Masked people tend to take risks...but do take condoms. Raising goats is fine, if you have a market for milk. Otherwise its a damned expensive, and restrictive, hobby.
The only one who can answer your questions is you. Do some thinking.
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Porky
Citizen of Zooville
Strange, that's not what I hear.
As far as the rest, depending on what country you're in, there are likely medical privacy laws and ethics rules that prohibit a therapist from disclosing what their clients talk about with them. (There are exceptions, such as imminent threat of harm.) Look up the laws and rules where you are, and talk to someone who is licensed and is required to comply with said laws and rules..
I don't know what you want to do with/to the animals, so I can't say whether your fantasies are "wrong". My own belief is that as long as the animal isn't being injured, and indeed enjoys the experience and keeps begging for more of it, I don't much care whether a bunch of politicians decided to engage in public virtue-signaling by banning something, especially when the politicians had to write specific carve-outs into the law to exempt veterinarians performing animal breeding work, just so the veterinarian won't get thrown into prison for doing something similar to what I'm doing and that would get me thrown into prison. . . .
Sturges
Tourist
Gay marriage was illegal for how long? And still unfortunately is in many countries. The legal age of consent in some places is as low as 11 years old. Law is not an effective indicator of ethics. Bestiality was exceedingly common throughout history and only became illegal out of religion and sodomy laws. Even in our current laws, there are SO many loopholes as there's a ton of sexual contact with animals in the agriculture and breeding industries. Animals are no strangers to initiating sex with humans and enjoying it. But it is IMPERATIVE that they're the one in charge, they start and stop as they please. Sex itself is a natural, pleasurable part of life that's enjoyable by design and there's no shame in indulging in such activities with a willing partner. It's your responsibility to learn all about the animal's body language before even considering attempting anything, so you know when to keep going or when to stop.
When having sex in general, but especially when engaging in bestiality, you MUST be an attentive partner and put your partner's needs before your own wants, always. You MUST recognize the autonomy, intelligence, desires, and anatomical limits of nonhumans before attempting any form of intimacy. Based on your wording and your perspective on zoophilia, you don't seem to recognize this. Zoophilia is about more than sexual fantasy. Toys exist for that reason, as does porn. Bestiality is not inherently immoral but it can be depending on the intentions behind it. It's not about your satisfaction, or at least it shouldn't be. It should be about the intimacy and quality time with your partner, the enjoyment of vulnerability and trust with your companion. Until you do some deep reflection on what your desires really are, and become properly educated on the needs of and communication with nonhumans, and form a healthier, nuanced view on zoophilia and bestiality, it would be in the animal's best interest if you stick to toys and roleplay for now.
As far as public opinion goes? There are people who earnestly think space is a hoax and the Earth is flat. Opinion doesn't take precedent over factual education and sound logic.
Thank you everyone for your responses.
I grew up in a traditional household. I was taught that non-human relations were bad and illegal but when I found out that I was attracted to animals more than humans it scared me. I feel like I am living a double life. I have only the best intentions for animals but my current living situation doesn't allow me to had livestock type animals. I have two options, I can move but the cost of that would be too high. Or I could befriend someone how has animals but I feel that it would lack the one on one intimacy. So to build up a friendship with an owner feels like I am trying to steal a buddies girlfriend.
I grew up in a traditional household. I was taught that non-human relations were bad and illegal but when I found out that I was attracted to animals more than humans it scared me. I feel like I am living a double life. I have only the best intentions for animals but my current living situation doesn't allow me to had livestock type animals. I have two options, I can move but the cost of that would be too high. Or I could befriend someone how has animals but I feel that it would lack the one on one intimacy. So to build up a friendship with an owner feels like I am trying to steal a buddies girlfriend.
Luci
Tourist
The illegality or legality of things have no reflection on their morality. There were times when it was illegal to be a Jew, to use a restaurant bathroom if you were black, or simply to be gay. On the other hand, owning slaves or letting 10 year olds work 12 hour shifts in coal mines was perfectly legal. The simple fact that morons have succeeded in demonizing zoophilia -as they did gay sex at one point- doesn't make it wrong. Deep inside, you know what's right and wrong. You will know when sex with animals becomes wrong. As long as there is mutual enjoyment and nobody gets hurt, it can't be wrong.