Trajans_tofu
Tourist
Right so lately, I've been internally debating if will stay a closeted/repressed zoo forever or if I'll someday have an experience.
I'm in a LTR (basically married) with my girlfriend of 6+ years. I love her a ton but we have a fairly dead bedroom. Outside of sex, she's generally open-minded, but she thinks anything related to zoo is BEYOND disgusting. In fact, she thinks even the milder stuff that I'm into is disgusting, so... I keep it all secret. Like, 80% of my sexuality is secret. It's really fucking hard knowing she'd think of me as a disgusting pervert if she knew the truth. I think she'd absolutely leave me if she found out even half of what I enjoy.
So I've just been kinda living through fantasies. Every few hours, I imagine those "if I were single" fantasies. "I'd experiment so hard!" or "I'd meet people and finally have s great sex life!"...
But then I reality-check. I love my girlfriend and don't want to lose her. Even if I did, I the overlap of women who (a) find me attractive and I find attractive and (b) are into getting fucked / seeing me get fucked by animals....
Even though I'm fairly attractive, that overlap has got to be *so* tiny.
So I conclude that I'm probably better off just repressing this part of me. That is, until another fantasy creeps up.
I should really talk to a therapist.
I'm in a LTR (basically married) with my girlfriend of 6+ years. I love her a ton but we have a fairly dead bedroom. Outside of sex, she's generally open-minded, but she thinks anything related to zoo is BEYOND disgusting. In fact, she thinks even the milder stuff that I'm into is disgusting, so... I keep it all secret. Like, 80% of my sexuality is secret. It's really fucking hard knowing she'd think of me as a disgusting pervert if she knew the truth. I think she'd absolutely leave me if she found out even half of what I enjoy.
So I've just been kinda living through fantasies. Every few hours, I imagine those "if I were single" fantasies. "I'd experiment so hard!" or "I'd meet people and finally have s great sex life!"...
But then I reality-check. I love my girlfriend and don't want to lose her. Even if I did, I the overlap of women who (a) find me attractive and I find attractive and (b) are into getting fucked / seeing me get fucked by animals....
Even though I'm fairly attractive, that overlap has got to be *so* tiny.
So I conclude that I'm probably better off just repressing this part of me. That is, until another fantasy creeps up.
I should really talk to a therapist.