Ideal Relationship(s)

[Oasis]

I want to start by saying I'm not super sure where I fall on the zoo favourable to zoo exclusive specturm I fall, but I definitely don't get much out of human-human interaction. I don't hate the experience but it's not what I fantasise about.

In my ideal world I would love to have a social, romantic, and sexual connection with my non-human companion, and also enjoy the company of another zoo. I don't really imagine either of us being very interested in each other, but i worry that without some sort of... intellectual stimulation maybe? I worry about getting lonely in ways that I can't express to a non-human partner. Is that the sort of relationship that anyone is really interested in? I don't mind being a bit of a hermit, but I don't want to get too isolated.

 

[Rex01]

Sadly animals can't replace people, no matter how hard we try. I think I'm more Ace all around. Sure I'll jack off my partner and or dog, if I had any of the two, but I don't really desire sex... it's weird. Unless I'm like super horny anyway.

 

[Oasis]

Sadly animals can't replace people, no matter how hard we try. I think I'm more Ace all around. Sure I'll jack off my partner and or dog, if I had any of the two, but I don't really desire sex... it's weird. Unless I'm like super horny anyway.

I've called myself ace before regarding humans anyways. It makes the most sense without disclosing my interest in four leggers

 

[BrotatoChip]

I am in a very similar boat to yours as far as what you want. I want to write a whole big thing right now (As I tend to do) but I'm going to bed. If you want to chat though, feel free to DM. I'd love to pick your brain and maybe bounce some stuff back and forth.

 

[doglover200032]

Id say find some like minded people who r into what you are into and experiment with the idea

Don't just write it off okay? So be open minded about it

 

[pes]

I worry about getting lonely in ways that I can't express to a non-human partner. Is that the sort of relationship that anyone is really interested in?

I understand the practical usefulness for having a human partner, I just can not imagine loving a human.

Either because I am not capable of it or I have never met anyone who would have been able to start those thoughts in me.
I am not completely saying I am incapable of it because I do not know it for certain. I only know it has never happened and I generally do not find people sexually attractive. Which makes it rather difficult to look at someone in a lustful way which would surely help the love part.

Technically I can accept a partial partner, if this person would be the same as me. Not in love, but somewhat a close room mate.
I completely understand that the chance for something like this is astronomically negligible.
Since not only would that person have to be a zoophile, in my country, but also behaviorally compatible with me and vice versa.
Living with someone long term without the love part is incredibly hard because of how much of an intrusion it is into your so far established life.
The love usually makes this adjustment much easier.

 

[Shellfish]

Ideally I’d have a partner who's also interested in zoo. Best of both worlds y’know?

 

[Oasis]

I understand the practical usefulness for having a human partner, I just can not imagine loving a human.

Either because I am not capable of it or I have never met anyone who would have been able to start those thoughts in me.
I am not completely saying I am incapable of it because I do not know it for certain. I only know it has never happened and I generally do not find people sexually attractive. Which makes it rather difficult to look at someone in a lustful way which would surely help the love part.

Technically I can accept a partial partner, if this person would be the same as me. Not in love, but somewhat a close room mate.
I completely understand that the chance for something like this is astronomically negligible.
Since not only would that person have to be a zoophile, in my country, but also behaviorally compatible with me and vice versa.
Living with someone long term without the love part is incredibly hard because of how much of an intrusion it is into your so far established life.
The love usually makes this adjustment much easier.

On the one hand I understand the odds seem very slim for finding connection when you look at it that way, on the other I know that statistically zoos exist everywhere that people do. I've also found that sometimes connections aren't just about being immediately compatable so much as finding common ground. I couldn't live with someone who didn't know I was zoo attracted anymore, so I'm lucky I guess. I'm out to my partner as zoo, and a couple of very close people who accept me. It suits me OK even if I'm a bit lonely without more community.