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I love being a slave

From my experience I can say that no matter how submissive and willing a woman is, submitting to someone is not a spontaneous process, even if the male is an alpha male by nature. He will have to work hard to break in a slave.
 
From my experience I can say that no matter how submissive and willing a woman is, submitting to someone is not a spontaneous process, even if the male is an alpha male by nature. He will have to work hard to break in a slave.
well said
 
Bondage allows a woman to experience and enjoy things she otherwise would not allow herself to do. Women who enjoy bondage - Tie me up and do whatever you want! - are women who have a strong sense of proper and improper, but also fantasize about doing lots of things they're not supposed to want.

Examples:
Tie my arms to the coffee table and bring in that big German Shepherd to fuck me.
Tie me to the bed blindfolded with my legs tied open, and bring in four or five strange men to fuck me one after the other.

She has no control over the situation, she's helpless, so she's not responsible for what happened. In that sense, bondage is freeing for her. It opens up experiences she otherwise could not have.

A self-identified slave is a completely different personality type. She is a submissive and has confronted and accepted that about herself. She enjoys obedience and service. It frees her from responsibility, she feels taken care of, she understands the rules she lives by and the expectations of her, and in many ways it makes her life easier, less stressful, and more fulfilling. Self-identified slaves are often (but not always) masochists and are sexually excited by punishment, and expect and enjoy being punished for not following rules or expectations exactly. They also generally get both psychological and physical pleasure from serving others. Like all personality types, there is a range from mildly slave-like (women who enjoy playing at slave once in a while) to women who want and enjoy being 24/7 collared slaves living in complete submission and obedience. They may spend quite a bit of time searching for the dom who makes them feel both taken care of yet dominated. Someone they want to obey and serve. It's not easy for either side of a dom-sub relationship to find the right person.
 
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