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How to "train" your wife (to fuck dogs for you) (HTTYW)

so I have been married for 23 years. About ten years ago I brought up my zoo porn videos. She acted indifferent. We’ve never brought it up. Last year we got a puppy. He’s now almost 2 and unaltered. His balls have grown to what you would expect. For the last 6 months my wife keeps making comments about the size of his balls. And that is all she can see when she looks at him. I am wondering if this is her trying to get a conversation going. What do you think?
 
She might be hinting at getting him fixed. But I don't know you or your wife so .... that's up to how you interpret it.
 
Tough one. Non-zoos will comment about animal genitalia in humor or fascination on how things are so different etc. They aren't thinking sexually like "oh i want those balls in my mouth" kind of way that may play in a zoo's head.
 
Trapperkeeper1971 said:
so I have been married for 23 years. About ten years ago I brought up my zoo porn videos. She acted indifferent. We’ve never brought it up. Last year we got a puppy. He’s now almost 2 and unaltered. His balls have grown to what you would expect. For the last 6 months my wife keeps making comments about the size of his balls. And that is all she can see when she looks at him. I am wois on your side of the court.
I think yes. G luck!ndering if this is her trying to get a conversation going. What do you think?
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Sounds like she’s opened the door. Now, the ball
 
We were high last night and she made a comment. So I answered that “she might be surprised at his stick if it pops up”. She didn’t say much, then the conversation changed. I’m guessing that’s a resounding forget it from her.
 
Trapperkeeper1971 said:
She didn’t say much, then the conversation changed.
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Dead silence or negative response? Just don't push if she has any interest she will eventually let you know. If she is not adverse to your zoo porn you are better off then others who might share this interest with significant others who might be abhorred by it.
 
First, I know I'm probably reading reading too far into this, and probably interjecting a bit of wishful thinking. But just not sure where to take the conversation to know one way or the other...

First, I still talk to a girl who I'm totally in love with but things didn't work out for reasons but we're still friends and very open with eachother. I was her first for many things but she moved away and since struggled to find "the one". She always talks to me.for support and advice.

Recently she adopted an adolescent GSD. She sent me a super cute Pic of him laying on top of her in bed and of course the zoo in me went "hmpf 🤔.." (to myself) as when we were dating I had sorta joked about it and she wasn't necessarily excited about the idea but didnt dismiss it either. If I recall it was one of those "I'll think about it" responses. Shes always been one to like to try new things. Anyway..She mentioned a few struggles she's had with behavior and training. I asked if he had been neutered. To which she said that he was intact and a few people including her vet suggested he be neutered but she wasn't sure she wanted to do that to him.

I showed genuine support for whatever she decides to do, after all its her dog, advised there may be some challenges and so on. In the end she admitted she probably wasn't going to have him neutered despite the behavioral challenges and pressure from others.

I guess this is where I feel like I'm starting to read too far into this. Sure, maybe she just doesn't like the idea of it, but maybe there's more.... how do I direct the conversation to find out. As much as I'd love to toss out the "He's frustrated" "maybe he wouldn't be such a hand full if..." but that's obviously not appropriate.

To be frank, I think it would be good for her to ease back her reliance on whatever unavailable man of the month that's not going to ever be what she needs. Im not suggesting anything unethical, simply that perhaps it would be mutually therapeutic, and perhaps the love of an animal may better heal some trauma and reintroduce some semblance of what it means to love again. Or maybe that is already happening or was the ultimate goal in the first place. I simply don't know. But as a nonjudgmental friend and former partner, I'd be more than willing to be a trusted outlet, or help in any way I can. She knows she can trust me with anything but often struggles to get things out that she wants to talk about. As you can imagine, this would be one of those topics and likewise not one I can simply bring up casually in conversation.
 
hebejebe said:
perhaps the love of an animal may better heal some trauma and reintroduce some semblance of what it means to love again.
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Or you could introduce even more trauma into her life if she does something she doesn't truly wants and then gets into a self destructive feedback loop thinking about it. Without knowing what all she really is dealing with... thinking that pushing her to do something this extreme is an absolutely horrible idea.


hebejebe said:
...help in any way I can.
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If you're really wanting to help her. Then stop thinking about what you want sexually. If you're really willing to help her in any way you can... stop trying to figure out ways to get her to fuck a dog. That's your desire. Until she tells you that's hers... DO NOT ASSUME that she feels the way you do about it.

If anyone wants to read my longer reply to this... https://www.zoovilleforum.net/threa...ry-updated-on-may-2nd-2025.23594/post-1737105
 
allyfitz said:
Or you could introduce even more trauma into her life if she does something she doesn't truly wants and then gets into a self destructive feedback loop thinking about it. Without knowing what all she really is dealing with... thinking that pushing her to do something this extreme is an absolutely horrible idea.



If you're really wanting to help her. Then stop thinking about what you want sexually. If you're really willing to help her in any way you can... stop trying to figure out ways to get her to fuck a dog. That's your desire. Until she tells you that's hers... DO NOT ASSUME that she feels the way you do about it.

If anyone wants to read my longer reply to this... https://www.zoovilleforum.net/threa...ry-updated-on-may-2nd-2025.23594/post-1737105
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First, don't assume for a fucking second you know what my desires are. I DID NOT post in this thread it was arbitrarily moved here by someone else who either didn't read what I wrote or completely missed my my point. Moving a post and discarding part of it's content without notation is editorially unethical.

if the mods don't like the topic delete it. Simple as that, no need to try to twist my words and discarding the subject line and adding another..
 
Hi.
So, I've been married for almost a year and a half now. My husband is a pretty vanilla guy although he has very high libido, and I know his preferences pretty well now.

I've noticed he's liked a bunch of feral zoo stuff, and that he has never said anything negative about it unlike other stuff.

I don't know how I could approach him. The last thing I want is my own preferences causing a rift in our relationship, but it'd be a dream if he was also interested in these things.

What is your opinion? Thanks for reading.
 
It isn’t an easy conversation to have but I’d wholeheartedly recommend open and honest communication. I was with my girlfriend for 5 years before I opened up about it, she unfortunately doesn’t share my interest, she is however okay with toys which is more than I expected at the time - but more than anything, it felt like a weight had been lifted off my shoulders.

Every situation is different though, so what feels right for you.

Best of luck 🐕
 
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