How did you or have you told your other half that you're into zoo?

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lickinjimmy

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How donyou even bring it up? We are together years now and where I am into quiet a few kinks to say the least she is not as adventurous and I don't think she would like the idea of me being interested in it, has anyone been in a similar situation ?
 
had a friend I didnt know how she would react to it - so I told her "you will never believe what I found on the web" she asked me what, I told her "a dog fucking a woman" , she told me to show her amd she found herself down for it
 
lickinjimmy said:
How donyou even bring it up? We are together years now and where I am into quiet a few kinks to say the least she is not as adventurous and I don't think she would like the idea of me being interested in it, has anyone been in a similar situation ?
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Well I'm currently my wife and I both have accounts on here after 3 months ago I fully opened up to her about this life still... but before that 6 years ago her and I went to the bar drank more then we should and when we got home we sat in the car and were sharing story's about past sexual experiences and I felt really comfortable with her so I had told her 2 things I did with dogs when I was younger and she didn't judge but move forward to 3 months ago she brought it up to me and I told her again but sober about what I felt and what it felt like and surprisingly she told me the details made her wet so we moved slowly had her see if it was the idea or if seeing it did the same and literally one night we watch a few videos and we'll 2 days later she tells me she ordered a dog didlo and we were hooked since then as a couple..... the biggest thing is trust !!!! Asked ur self deep deep inside can u trust her with your life literally cause I do my wife thats going to tell you if you want to open up to her about this. Is she very vanilla or does she have somewhat of a kind side. Slide small hints to see what she thinks about it or how she feels of the idea of other people doing it l.... just some ideas for you but every situation is different.
 
spiritlover8675 said:
Well I'm currently my wife and I both have accounts on here after 3 months ago I fully opened up to her about this life still... but before that 6 years ago her and I went to the bar drank more then we should and when we got home we sat in the car and were sharing story's about past sexual experiences and I felt really comfortable with her so I had told her 2 things I did with dogs when I was younger and she didn't judge but move forward to 3 months ago she brought it up to me and I told her again but sober about what I felt and what it felt like and surprisingly she told me the details made her wet so we moved slowly had her see if it was the idea or if seeing it did the same and literally one night we watch a few videos and we'll 2 days later she tells me she ordered a dog didlo and we were hooked since then as a couple..... the biggest thing is trust !!!! Asked ur self deep deep inside can u trust her with your life literally cause I do my wife thats going to tell you if you want to open up to her about this. Is she very vanilla or does she have somewhat of a kind side. Slide small hints to see what she thinks about it or how she feels of the idea of other people doing it l.... just some ideas for you but every situation is different.
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Solid advice 👌 I am definitely not quiet there yet to open up and talk about it but hopefully I will get there some day, thanks
 
i want to tell my other half about trying some stuff out but I don't know how to approach it. She got a dog dildo so I guess that's a start
 
I don't think I'd ever enter a relationship with someone if they didn't already know I was zoo. Too much room for hurt there on both sides.
 
I mentioned to my husband I had foolishly recorded a video of me being fucked by a German shepherd in the past. And that that video was on the internet due to me being hacked I'm assuming. Told him I still had a thing for it....but yesterday (like legitimately yesterday on Sunday if you are in the US) he caught me fooling around with one of our dogs... Needless to say I thought I was gonna be divorced right then and there. He told me he didnt care for it much and definitely wouldn't partake, but when I told him my deepest darkest fantasy of him being a Aggressive Dom/Owner who leads in 2 large breed dogs to fuck me the Slave/pup silly...with the option of him having me first of course...or after the dogs if he preferred. His exact response was..."maybe in the future".
 
Rocthorne said:
I mentioned to my husband I had foolishly recorded a video of me being fucked by a German shepherd in the past. And that that video was on the internet due to me being hacked I'm assuming. Told him I still had a thing for it....but yesterday (like legitimately yesterday on Sunday if you are in the US) he caught me fooling around with one of our dogs... Needless to say I thought I was gonna be divorced right then and there. He told me he didnt care for it much and definitely wouldn't partake, but when I told him my deepest darkest fantasy of him being a Aggressive Dom/Owner who leads in 2 large breed dogs to fuck me the Slave/pup silly...with the option of him having me first of course...or after the dogs if he preferred. His exact response was..."maybe in the future".
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Your husband is an amazingly lucky guy!
 
When I met my wife 18 years ago we both didn't know we were zoo's. She caught me here and there with zoo porn. She would get mad and angry, even threatened divorce. But 10 years in our relationship (almost when we divorced) she openes up she use to be active with dogs. Our marriage really did get better. So now we have a dog who is learning to mount. Got lucky we both just happen to be zoo's.
 
Luvdogs said:
Your husband is an amazingly lucky guy!
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Ehhh we will see, he just recently discovered I was a zoo and I can tell he's a lil uncomfortable with it, I'm pretty sure he won't partake in it at first if at all...but he said when he caught me it was pretty hot watching me feed my cock into one of our dogs. So who knows 🤷
 
Rocthorne said:
Ehhh we will see, he just recently discovered I was a zoo and I can tell he's a lil uncomfortable with it, I'm pretty sure he won't partake in it at first if at all...but he said when he caught me it was pretty hot watching me feed my cock into one of our dogs. So who knows 🤷
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That is such a great start. It sounds like he would be open to the idea. Just go slowly and carefully
 
btwiamazoophile said:
I don't think I'd ever enter a relationship with someone if they didn't already know I was zoo. Too much room for hurt there on both sides.
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Luvdogs said:
That is such a great start. It sounds like he would be open to the idea. Just go slowly and carefully
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Tbh if he is just willing to watch as I get pounded out by say a German shepherd, or mastiff I'd be fine with that but I'd love if he would partake.
 
Rocthorne said:
Tbh if he is just willing to watch as I get pounded out by say a German shepherd, or mastiff I'd be fine with that but I'd love if he would partake.
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If we all had that problem! I can't imagine any experience being better than two men in love sharing their unbridled passion for a beautiful male pup, but even him watching would be so sexy and intimate
 
Luvdogs said:
If we all had that problem! I can't imagine any experience being better than two men in love sharing their unbridled passion for a beautiful male pup, but even him watching would be so sexy and intimate
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Agreed, be even better if he also picked the breed that was to plow me
 
Well it was very nerve racking for me but heres context ive been married to my husband for 5 years weve been dating for 7 and known eachother for 9 years ive had an attraction to dogs since i was in my teens i told my husband revently like maybe a month or two ago i was scared and very stressed about telling him but i couldnt hide that side of me any longer it was like a dog scratching at the door wanting to be let in i wanted that side of me to be let in so i planned a date night with my hubby and waited till we got home i asked him to sit with me on the couch i snuggled up to him and rested my head on his shoulder i asked him if hed ever judge me if i was into strange stuff he said no hed never judge me and he jokingly said babe i accepted everything about you like your need to sleep to crime documentaries and he laughed very heartedly i told him babe listen to me we need to have a serious discussion right now he said sorry and asked me whats wrong whats on your mind i asked him if he would judge me if i was into so weird stuff sexually he told me hes open minded but he draws the line at scat and pain related kinks at this point i was so scared i almost backed out i guess he sensed my stress so he told me to relax and talk to me so i took a deep breath and started crying he held me tightly running his finger over my head and through my hair til i calmed down i then told him that ive always been attracted to dogs and i would like if we could explore that part of me together he got quite i started to cry again and he took a deep breath and began asking me questions about like in what way was i attracted to dogs i told like bf and gf he asked if i was sexually attracted to them i said yes he asked me if i truly loved him or is he just a placeholder i held him closely and told him hes the love of my life i cant see my life without him i married him for a reason and thats because i love him with every fiber of my bieng he kissed the top of my head he then said that he is open to the idea and hes willing to explore this lifestyle with me i spent alot of time crying and thanking him for accepting me for not leaving me and for joining me and that he is willing to explore this side of me

Sorry everyone for the running sentence and the long read
 
Amandatoosweet said:
Well it was very nerve racking for me but heres context ive been married to my husband for 5 years weve been dating for 7 and known eachother for 9 years ive had an attraction to dogs since i was in my teens i told my husband revently like maybe a month or two ago i was scared and very stressed about telling him but i couldnt hide that side of me any longer it was like a dog scratching at the door wanting to be let in i wanted that side of me to be let in so i planned a date night with my hubby and waited till we got home i asked him to sit with me on the couch i snuggled up to him and rested my head on his shoulder i asked him if hed ever judge me if i was into strange stuff he said no hed never judge me and he jokingly said babe i accepted everything about you like your need to sleep to crime documentaries and he laughed very heartedly i told him babe listen to me we need to have a serious discussion right now he said sorry and asked me whats wrong whats on your mind i asked him if he would judge me if i was into so weird stuff sexually he told me hes open minded but he draws the line at scat and pain related kinks at this point i was so scared i almost backed out i guess he sensed my stress so he told me to relax and talk to me so i took a deep breath and started crying he held me tightly running his finger over my head and through my hair til i calmed down i then told him that ive always been attracted to dogs and i would like if we could explore that part of me together he got quite i started to cry again and he took a deep breath and began asking me questions about like in what way was i attracted to dogs i told like bf and gf he asked if i was sexually attracted to them i said yes he asked me if i truly loved him or is he just a placeholder i held him closely and told him hes the love of my life i cant see my life without him i married him for a reason and thats because i love him with every fiber of my bieng he kissed the top of my head he then said that he is open to the idea and hes willing to explore this lifestyle with me i spent alot of time crying and thanking him for accepting me for not leaving me and for joining me and that he is willing to explore this side of me

Sorry everyone for the running sentence and the long read
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Ah it's nice to read tho
 
So got drunk they told me drunk once they interested and suspected me then I admired and was accepted and then they literally forgot it all , I don't mean pretended to forget they literally forgot it all they where so drunk.
Got drunk again and did it ok text and even though we happy with it and I'm accepted, I can't help but worry I might have ruined or made things weird ,what advice do you have ?
 
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