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[marestare]

I’m in deep with a girl and I’m not sure how things are gonna go. I want to have a serious relationship with her and maybe get married, and she’s pretty open minded about sex and if we live together in the future, the possibility of having farm.
I want her to be as into horses as I am, but I don’t know how to put her onto it without actually owning one, but I’m desperate to stop hiding. It’s exhausting.
Should I leave her and find someone into it already? Or should I be risky and try to ease her into it somehow? If so, how?
I’ve been thinking about going on famersonly or tinder and looking for some horse girls that I could fall in love with and would be less of a risk of exposing myself, but I love her and don’t want to ruin something so good if I don’t have to.

 

[Mare Lover 1975]

I am likely one of the few that was lucky enough to marry and then find out my wife was zoo as well, it could have gone so badly for me and my herd it's not funny. Wish I could tell you a safe way to ask her without risking losing her or worse but if she flips her shit there is no telling how far she may take it against you, so please be careful ? ❤

PS we are no longer together and please do not ask about it.

 

[marestare]

I am likely one of the few that was lucky enough to marry and then find out my wife was zoo as well, it could have gone so badly for me and my herd it's not funny. Wish I could tell you a safe way to ask her without risking losing her or worse but if she flips her shit there is no telling how far she may take it against you, so please be careful ? ❤

PS we are no longer together and please do not ask about it.

wow, it’s an honor. I love all the stuff you post and I’ve been following it pretty regularly. I wish I could be in your situation.

 

[Mare Lover 1975]

wow, it’s an honor. I love all the stuff you post and I’ve been following it pretty regularly. I wish I could be in your situation.

Thank you, I will say the years after my wife and I came out were some of the best we had together. But people change and we each went our own way again, me staying with my herd and her just going away

If your GF loves horses and riding you may have a small chance, if she does not like them already I doubt she would be the one you want anyway.

 

[marestare]

I am likely one of the few that was lucky enough to marry and then find out my wife was zoo as well, it could have gone so badly for me and my herd it's not funny. Wish I could tell you a safe way to ask her without risking losing her or worse but if she flips her shit there is no telling how far she may take it against you, so please be careful ? ❤

PS we are no longer together and please do not ask about it.

I’m pretty sure my girl doesn’t have any secret fetish for zoo though...she only likes small dogs and is kind of in culture shock here in the country, only just starting to open up to the idea of owning large animals. She wants a daschund, I want a clydesdale.
She is pretty kinky though, and we’re exploring selling porn and new fetishes, so one can only hope she’ll eventually be curious or even into it.

 

[marestare]

Thank you, I will say the years after my wife and I came out were some of the best we had together. But people change and we each went our own way again, me staying with my herd and her just going away

If your GF loves horses and riding you may have a small chance, if she does not like them already I doubt she would be the one you want anyway.

Maybe if I take her horseback riding and get her into my way of life things could change... who knows. At least she thinks they’re cute.

 

[Mare Lover 1975]

Maybe if I take her horseback riding and get her into my way of life things could change... who knows. At least she thinks they’re cute.

It's a start for sure, and not having to hide your love for them is great believe me.

I did not marry until my late twenties though, my mare was all I wanted before and after and I am happy with it.

 

[marestare]

It's a start for sure, and not having to hide you love for them is great believe me.

I did not marry until my late twenties though, my mare was all I wanted before and after and I am happy with it.

A mare and a wife are all I’ve ever wanted, I just haven’t been able to figure out how to combine them and not have to live a life of watching my back.
Late twenties isn’t so bad, that’s only a few years from now for me.
If I may, what was it that had your ex so into horses? Do you think that’s part of why she was attracted to you, knowing you had horses? I feel like being in the saddle was one of the first things that turned me on as a little kid, having the feeling of having a horse between my legs and the saddle rubbing against me. I wonder if that’s something girls think about too and would potentially catalyze a zoo fetish.

 

[Mare Lover 1975]

My ex wife saw me and my late stallion at a local show years before (she was ten years younger than me) we later met through a long time friend of mine.

She had been through a bad breakup and her parents had sold her mare a month or so before we met, we married three months later and were married for nearly 15 years.

She was into mares, and had been fooling around with her mare before we met, that was something I am sure 99% of male mare lovers would die for, and her talking dirty about what my mare and I were doing while she filmed it was something else.

I hope you can find what I once had, a zoo wife and mares like mine are to die for, at least I still have my mares.