Hello all, 28M newbie here

[observadorK]

I have been watching videos from like 10 years ago, and I did let my dog get a lick once, almost came instantly lol but I felt too guilty at the time.

Now I'm in a relationship and my gf doesn't know, I've seen some of the posts about how to drop hints but not tried anything yet.
She did mention to get a dog a few years ago but it was impossible for us back then.

I also have a bad dragon sheath and she tried it once but those things are awful to properly hold in the dick, I'm too thick and it gets pulled out.
Since then I bought a harness to help hold it in place but she hasn't showed any interest, not sure if it means anything tho since I feel like she has a hard time sharing kinks, took her years of relationship for her to tell me she likes to get her ass licked.

It's gonna be hard for me to tell her because even tho she has asked if I have any kinks I would like to try, one of her exes was into CP, needless to say she dumped him immediately. I know it's not remotely the same thing, but for her it may feel similar enough if I open up and reveal such a taboo, you know, might trigger trauma...

Anyways, this is my first time in a forum, so it's a pleasure to meet you all!

 

[knotadeer14]

Hello and welcome to the forum!

If it's already been years of the relationship and it hasn't come up, then just tread carefully. My partner has very strongly negative reaction to the topic if it comes up in tangential discussions brought about by different forms of media. With this in mind, I know that it's never going to be an admission that I make to her. It's something that I'm comfortable keeping to myself and living without; not everyone feels the way though.

What works for me(or anyone else) isn't going to necessarily going to work for you. Common suggestions I've seen to open the discussion are: animal themed sex toys, watching porn with both normal het and zoo content available, furry/feral art stuff, and watching or reading something that contains zoo content and discussing it. It's all going to come down to who you both are as people and how it's approached.

Good luck! ?

 

[catmandevauc]

Hey welcome, I hope something here ends up helping you but yeah broaching the topic of zoo with partners that are pretty "vanilla" can sometimes be really delicate..