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PrimaryAtom8

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A year ago I postested thos and got some pretty negative responses. I'm not sure why, I expected more opennes and understanding here, but I wanted to hive it another shot and see it goes this time around:

I have a lot of fetishes that run pretty deep. Zoo is one of the big ones, along with a few others that are not typically accepted. I don't know what drives these feeling, but it's so difficult not being able to share with anyone. My wife and family have no idea what is going through my mind most of the time, and I live in fear that they will find put someday and it will change the way they see me even though I am the same person. It's so hard living like this knowing that I can never reveal my true self. Is there anyone out there that can sympathize or understand what I am feeling?
 
Don’t we all have something to hide? Things we’ve done, thought, imagined… when someone else would know about it, it would change their beliefs about us. If those things are not accepted by society, you have to be careful not to express them. Nobody wants to be canceled, right?

I think life is much harder to bear when your secret is out in public and people move away from you. You become isolated, and don’t feel part of a group unless you move and start over. But then you do have those secrets again with that group, right?

Try to live with your fetishes and handle your desires so you don’t fuck up on life. The alternative is not worth it and being fully accepted by the people near you with all your fetishes is a utopia.
 
PrimaryAtom8 said:
A year ago I postested thos and got some pretty negative responses. I'm not sure why, I expected more opennes and understanding here, but I wanted to hive it another shot and see it goes this time around:

I have a lot of fetishes that run pretty deep. Zoo is one of the big ones, along with a few others that are not typically accepted. I don't know what drives these feeling, but it's so difficult not being able to share with anyone. My wife and family have no idea what is going through my mind most of the time, and I live in fear that they will find put someday and it will change the way they see me even though I am the same person. It's so hard living like this knowing that I can never reveal my true self. Is there anyone out there that can sympathize or understand what I am feeling?
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Many people live with private thoughts and desires that don't fit into conventional boxes, and they also struggle with the fear of being misunderstood. The fact that you are the same person, a loving husband and family member, is the most important thing. Your worth isn't defined by your deepest thoughts.
 
PrimaryAtom8 said:
A year ago I postested thos and got some pretty negative responses. I'm not sure why, I expected more opennes and understanding here, but I wanted to hive it another shot and see it goes this time around:

I have a lot of fetishes that run pretty deep. Zoo is one of the big ones, along with a few others that are not typically accepted. I don't know what drives these feeling, but it's so difficult not being able to share with anyone. My wife and family have no idea what is going through my mind most of the time, and I live in fear that they will find put someday and it will change the way they see me even though I am the same person. It's so hard living like this knowing that I can never reveal my true self. Is there anyone out there that can sympathize or understand what I am feeling?
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Perhaps the negativity is due to calling ZOO a fetish, get fucking help then all ready if you have such problems.

This isn't a fetish site it is in the fucking name for the sake of fuck, keep that shit to where it is meant to be FetLife is a site tailored for that.
 
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