Being Zoo but Having a Human Partner

[z_ottidoggy_z]

I love my human husband very much but there's a form of physical attraction that I have toward non-human animals that I can't seem to have toward him.
I'm very happy with him but I wish I could have the attraction I have toward dogs and birds toward him as well. He deserves that love but I don't know if I can ever give it to him and I'm scared. I love him very deeply and he's the person who made me feel comfortable with accepting this part of myself. He's the most amazing human I've ever met​

I apologize. I didn't explain what I was looking for with this. I was wondering if you all had any advice on how I can share this type of love with him. This love feels so pure and I want him to be able to experience it

 

[Zekra]

I love my human husband very much but there's a form of physical attraction that I have toward non-human animals that I can't seem to have toward him.
I'm very happy with him but I wish I could have the attraction I have toward dogs and birds toward him as well. He deserves that love but I don't know if I can ever give it to him and I'm scared. I love him very deeply and he's the person who made me feel comfortable with accepting this part of myself. He's the most amazing human I've ever met​

I apologize. I didn't explain what I was looking for with this. I was wondering if you all had any advice on how I can share this type of love with him. This love feels so pure and I want him to be able to experience it

This is why I really want someone to share zoophilia with, a Zooey human partner

 

[Miss Bambi]

i mean i'm lucky enough to be with a partner who's zoo-positive, but i don't think you'll ever be able to give the "same" love to your human partner as you do with your animal.

maybe you're a more zoo exclusive person and so people take a backseat for you? idk, for me it's two different kinds of intimacy and i couldn't imagine them being the same

 

[z_ottidoggy_z]

i mean i'm lucky enough to be with a partner who's zoo-positive, but i don't think you'll ever be able to give the "same" love to your human partner as you do with your animal.

maybe you're a more zoo exclusive person and so people take a backseat for you? idk, for me it's two different kinds of intimacy and i couldn't imagine them being the same

I think I may be demisexual for humans but pretty allosexual for nonhumans. If it was just a different type of love and attraction I'd be much more comfortable about them being different but it feels like a stronger/deeper attraction when it's toward nonhumans and I dislike that I can't get that level of attraction with my human partner. He deserves to be loved that deeply, if not more. He's the most loving and accepting human I have ever met.

I'm feeling a lot of guilt about not feeling that way toward him.

 

[Miss Bambi]

I think I may be demisexual for humans but pretty allosexual for nonhumans. If it was just a different type of love and attraction I'd be much more comfortable about them being different but it feels like a stronger/deeper attraction when it's toward nonhumans and I dislike that I can't get that level of attraction with my human partner. He deserves to be loved that deeply, if not more. He's the most loving and accepting human I have ever met.

I'm feeling a lot of guilt about not feeling that way toward him.

i know it's almost never a good idea to out yourself as a zoo but i think it might be a good idea to at least talk to your partner about how you feel. maybe he'll understand and just tell you he's content as things are, or maybe some things need to change. either way i don't think it's good for things to continue with you holding back all these emotions and it definitely needs a talk :3

 

[OttoFritz44]

Well it's part of the sexual nature of humans. We're all quite different on a person to person level and sometimes these things happen to us. There's nothing wrong with how this user feels, but it's important to also consider the boundaries to better balance the activities with our human loved ones and our non humans too.

Both can be done as long as you feel okay with doing it, but if they are against your zooey ways, then be careful. Otherwise, if you're lucky enough to have a partner who shares these passions with you, then you can safely include them or discuss these issues with them more confidently.