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Anyone have hyper sexuality?

I've always liked women who like to interact with dogs. I wouldn't mind meeting a woman here on this platform for a serious live relationship. Or even if it is to be a confidant friend. But since contacts are not exchanged here. So I won't know how to do this?
 
For me who has hypersexuality.
It ends up being a problem, because I live my life thinking about sex. And my wife can't accompany me because she's not hypersexual. And when my stress increases because of work, I need sex even more. As my wife is bisexual, we are looking for another woman so that I can live more comfortably on a sexual level.
 
Allright, I wikipedia'd it... wondering at first if it was just someone who fucks really quickly or aggressively... but no.
Got it.
.. probably from 10-16 ... but, that may very well be just normal male puberty in my generation.
Got into 'sex' sex after that, and the sensation went away.
Wish I could relate. To be honest, at my age, that would be kinda / maybe / sorta wonderful to happen more often.
 
NorCalBeastBoy87 said:
rBecause I have a high sex drive myself and having a partner who needs it as much as me would make me feel complete. I like the idea of wanting and being wanted. Two people being connected and feeling whole through sexual release and bonding.
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I get this.
And -not- speaking for myself, but as someone tangential to 'the scene' .. my perception is that there's a lot of poly people who feel this way.
When it works, I think it's groovy.. but ... WOW do humans make a lot of drama.
I think sex is great. I think it's one of the most fun things that two... or potentially more... entities (intentionally broad) can do.

That said, people are difficult... so bless 'ya for trying.
There are those that can make the whole thing worth it, but they are rare.
Treasure them.
 
MuttMounter said:
Yeah unfortunately. from what I understand about the effect autism has on your sexuality, autistic people have a heightened libido and it increases their susceptibility to developing hypersexuality. It's genuinely annoying sometimes
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Hold up, autism affects your sexuality? that's the first time i've heard about that, i'm gonna do some more digging on this, is there a source you can provide me with?
 
MuttMounter said:
I wouldn't happen to have the sources, The majority of my knowledge on that subject comes from long talks with my therapist many years ago. He had sources back then but I wouldn't even begin to remember what they were or where to find them wish you luck in your journey of discovery tho
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No worries, i did found that it is indeed true, here's a link of it (hopefully sharing links is allowed, if not sorry no malicious intentions here)
I'll give it a good read later through the day, but thank you for bringing it to my attention!

Sexuality in autism: hypersexual and paraphilic behavior in women and men with high-functioning autism spectrum disorder - PMC

Like nonaffected adults, individuals with autism spectrum disorders (ASDs) show the entire range of sexual behaviors. However, due to the core symptoms of the disorder spectrum, including deficits in social skills, sensory hypo- and ...
pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov
 
Yep.

For me sex/porn/masturbation were one of the few parts of my childhood I experienced any form of pleasure or joy from.
I think that hard wired things for me a bit and has gotten in the way of my life/growth a lot when I was young.

Now after many years of growth it feels nice to let the horny feelings do their thing and use it to my advantage without feeling like I have no control.
 
I do and sometimes I think it can make things a bit complicated. I think it makes finding the right partner a bit more challenging.
 
This has always been a problem for me. It makes everything else so much more difficult when sex is always on your mind. It's not easy when you need to focus on something for work, but your mind keeps wandering off to sex. To people that don't experience this, it may seem exciting, but it makes the rest of your life that is nonsexual so much harder when you are horney litterally 24/7. No matter what you do in your life, sex is always lurking in the background of your mind not allowing you to focus fully on anything else. I can't imagine what it would be like living a normal life where I could just turn that part of my brain off while I focus on other things.
 
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