I'm zoo exclusive and simply asexual/aromantic when It comes to people. There has never been that spark. Never will be. It doesn't stem from "avoidance" because there was a time I attempted to be 'normal' and well that's like trying to be gay if your straight. Not gonna work. I know myself, I may say better than anyone else, and im content in that because I am who I am. With animals it's there absolutely; both sexual and romantic attraction to either gender. I have no 'emotional trauma' over romantic relationships with humans because well the lack of attraction means I've never had a "partner". Simply put. This is a unfounded assumption directed at an entire subcategory of individuals. Typical "one shoe fits all" logic. That is not how reality works Budd.