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A better introduction - and a trust question

dadbodbear

dadbodbear

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Hey folks,

Been lurking about for a bit, and I figured it was time for a better intro. I'm a gay man in the Vegas valley area, average in just about every aspect. I discovered my love of animal sex watching his uncles fuck their favorite cow and mare when they didn't know I was hiding in the hay loft. I have yet to have my own first experience, but i'm not in a rush.

My biggest question for you lovely humans... How do you trust? How do you know that the person you're about to meet isn't there to be... nefarious? Are they a cop? will they try and blackmail me? Soooo many ways opening up to someone could end up badly, it makes me not want to do so....

How do y'all approach making friends in this community?

Hope y'all have a brilliant week!
 
It’s very hard. Takes time and multiple meetings and non sexual activity first. And even then, I’ve been burned by manipulators years after we became intimate.
 
dadbodbear said:
My biggest question for you lovely humans... How do you trust? How do you know that the person you're about to meet isn't there to be... nefarious? Are they a cop? will they try and blackmail me? Soooo many ways opening up to someone could end up badly, it makes me not want to do so....
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You talk online for long enough to be reasonably sure.
 
dadbodbear said:
Hey folks,

Been lurking about for a bit, and I figured it was time for a better intro. I'm a gay man in the Vegas valley area, average in just about every aspect. I discovered my love of animal sex watching his uncles fuck their favorite cow and mare when they didn't know I was hiding in the hay loft. I have yet to have my own first experience, but i'm not in a rush.

My biggest question for you lovely humans... How do you trust? How do you know that the person you're about to meet isn't there to be... nefarious? Are they a cop? will they try and blackmail me? Soooo many ways opening up to someone could end up badly, it makes me not want to do so....

How do y'all approach making friends in this community?. In other words, it's not a prerequisite

Hope y'all have a brilliant week!
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Welcome. To begin with, you don't need human friends to have a relationship with an animal. I don't know why you assume that you have to include humans in the knowledge of your attraction, at least in the first instance. In other words, it's not a prerequisite
 
dadbodbear said:
Hey folks,

Been lurking about for a bit, and I figured it was time for a better intro. I'm a gay man in the Vegas valley area, average in just about every aspect. I discovered my love of animal sex watching his uncles fuck their favorite cow and mare when they didn't know I was hiding in the hay loft. I have yet to have my own first experience, but i'm not in a rush.

My biggest question for you lovely humans... How do you trust? How do you know that the person you're about to meet isn't there to be... nefarious? Are they a cop? will they try and blackmail me? Soooo many ways opening up to someone could end up badly, it makes me not want to do so....

How do y'all approach making friends in this community?

Hope y'all have a brilliant week!
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Hi, welcome to the zooville community
Your question in very interesting and important.
:)

Some tips:
1- A true zoo lover is not easy to find. So the real zoo lover will be just as afraid of meeting you as you are. He will need a long time to be able to trust you. He will never send personal information, he will never send photos and he will never send location. He won't demand thus data from you, because he loves secrecy and knows that secrecy is fundamental. He will never give his animals away easily, as if they were an object. A true zoo lover, dedicated to ZV, has an evolved profile. He participates in the community forums.


2-a fake person will give away your data easily. He will give away your animals easily. He won't worry about secrecy. A fake person will ask for information about you, he will be in a hurry to meet you. A fake person is quick to accept the rules you set, they'll do anything to find you, as long as it is quick. A fake person doesn't do ZV, they don't send messages.


These are some tips ;)
 
I think you mean an educated, experienced zoo will act like that lol many new zoos are quick to meet up because they’ve never been burned and are excited to find themselves in a group where they feel they belong. That has powerful motivation to skimp and rush. Only after they’ve learned that’s bad, will they act like you describe :)
 
Welcome here. I would also like to echo what already has been said: never rush into anything because if it sounds too good to be true, it probably is.

I lost count of how many zoos I have been chatting with over the last decade, but the ones I have met in real life can be counted on less than one hand. It took years of chatting online, then a non-sexual meeting, and then - since the gut feeling was right - indeed the zoo meeting. This never would have happened without the online chatting. If the person is genuine, then you get a consistent story. If the person is a faker or a catfish, you can identify them by either their inconsistency or their urgency (something you see a lot in the dating section of this forum).

So yes, be genuine. Chat a lot online, be patient, and trust your gut.
 
dadbodbear said:
Hey folks,

Been lurking about for a bit, and I figured it was time for a better intro. I'm a gay man in the Vegas valley area, average in just about every aspect. I discovered my love of animal sex watching his uncles fuck their favorite cow and mare when they didn't know I was hiding in the hay loft. I have yet to have my own first experience, but i'm not in a rush.

My biggest question for you lovely humans... How do you trust? How do you know that the person you're about to meet isn't there to be... nefarious? Are they a cop? will they try and blackmail me? Soooo many ways opening up to someone could end up badly, it makes me not want to do so....

How do y'all approach making friends in this community?

Hope y'all have a brilliant week!
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Spend some time reading in the fact based areas. Understand that taking your time before deciding to meet is vital. No law enforcement people have unlimited budgets, unless you're already a known target. Overtime doesn't stretch.

As to the non-official Predators, time helps there too....wait them out. Unless you're highly desirable for some reason unknown, they lose interest if they dont get what they want quickly. Never give up personal info. That can wait, if a meet becomes a reality. Never, ever, assume someone means no harm, until proven.

Sounds like it will take awhile? Good. It should.
 
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