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When you masturbate, what is your favorite and most often used object? Do you need that deep feeling of a dildo, or does the hum of a vibrator hit the spot, or are your fingers the only object you use, or will a warm bath with the constant pressure of water hitting your pussy get you there, or...

Hi, I wanted to ask for some advice about taking in a huge dildo in my ass. I know the basics, a lot of lube, enema, etc but something is not working. I have a 13 inch dildo. It's not too wide around but I can only take in 8-9 inches before I hit "a wall" inside me. So how do I get passed this...