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How to deal with dry spell

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Need some advice on how to deal with a dry spell. I lost my virginity to a male blood hound mutt and he’s been gone now for about a month and a half and it looks like he won’t be coming back maybe at all. (He’s a friends who I watched from time to time). The sex was amazing we did it over 15 times. I think I developed more than just a sexual attraction to him because I can still remember the first time he took me.Also when my friend hints at coming back I always secretly sneak in a question if they’re bringing their dog with them.

so I get really horny thinking about past experiences with him. I also have started to notice my mood has changed where I am frustrated and mad at little things more often. I’m also checking out other male dogs in public or if I’ve been around other male dogs I crave their attention in more ways than just saying hi and I think they know it. It might be that I just want to get railed like before and they sense I’m an easy meal. Do dogs pick up on that?

human sex really hasn’t done it for me either. I barely have a good orgasm. But boy oh boy if I close my eyes or if I watch some good videos of zoo content I have a massive release for about a day then it’s the same thing again.

I’m guessing this is something we all struggle with. But how do you get past the frustration and urges.
 
You sound like me after my first love passed away. She belonged to a friend of mine but I had lots of contact with her. After she passed away I felt as though part of my soul had left, and thats when I made my decision.

My whole life was a dry spell, always interested but never able to be really active. Once i had my taste I was hooked, not just on the physical but the emotional of being close to a dog in that way. I got a little girl of my own and commited to the lifestyle, best choice ever.

Best way to deal with a dry spell? Get wet.
 
Fire Metal said:
You sound like me after my first love passed away. She belonged to a friend of mine but I had lots of contact with her. After she passed away I felt as though part of my soul had left, and thats when I made my decision.

My whole life was a dry spell, always interested but never able to be really active. Once i had my taste I was hooked, not just on the physical but the emotional of being close to a dog in that way. I got a little girl of my own and commited to the lifestyle, best choice ever.

Best way to deal with a dry spell? Get wet.
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Yeah I definitely relate to this.

I probably should’ve mentioned that it took 13 years to finally get under a dog haha. The problem too is the last time we had sex it was some of the best sex I’ve ever had. It felt so good after he dismounted I laid on the ground for a good 5 minutes and couldn’t move.

and there’s no other prospects to get wet with either in my living situation :( I can’t just go down the road and ask to take their rotty out back and let him get some ass even though he definitely would lol. (ive actually gotten weak at the knees seeing him walk around I always end up biting my lip at the thought. Idk what it is about powerful dogs but they get me going good.)
 
Sorry to hear that about your living situation. I have roommates and I make it secretly work, but everyone is in a different position. I wish I had better advice about what to do but all you can do is either accept where youre at with the dry spell or find a way to get wet. Since you cant do anything about your living situation, maybe get another gig pet sitting? If that cant be, maybe get some lifelike toys and engage in porn a lot? Sorry again to hear about your dry spell and loss.
 
Duuude, my whole life's been an endless dryspell since I was born.

Count yourself lucky you've had as much as you have.
 
I think there's no way to get rid of the spell, it's just a matter of time until the next time you'll feel it. I've read that many from here are zoo-exclusive, which i respect, i mean, we humans many times are really bad or just meh.

pd: i'm not zoo-exclusive still, but i understand when someone is since it's like that's the only way they feel, and most of them have their reasons or it's just a taste.
 
I am going to tell you what I tell everybody: work your ass off, get a puppy, and raise that puppy as well and as compassionately as you can. You will not die if you do not ejaculate during the intervening time. You will be fine.
 
SigmatoZeta said:
I am going to tell you what I tell everybody: work your ass off, get a puppy, and raise that puppy as well and as compassionately as you can. You will not die if you do not ejaculate during the intervening time. You will be fine.
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Most people here think getting an animals kiss easy work they tell me I'm so lucky cuz I have horses and donkeys and goats and sheep and all that other stuff and dogs they don't realize how much I actually put into this place.
always bothers me when somebody goes I can't have a dog because of my living situation they can go out and change it if they really wanted to
 
i'm unable to have my own companion, so i rely on meeting people and partners. the result is that it can be a VERY long time between encounters. so i maximize the time i have with someone and don't mess around or waste time. i also accept that there are times when i will not have a k9 partner. that's what places like this are for.
 
As someone who is currently undergoing a dry spell, I'm the worst person to ask for advice on how to deal with it. In all honestly, I don't deal with it; I merely survive it.
 
MareButtUddrrLovrr said:
As someone who is currently undergoing a dry spell, I'm the worst person to ask for advice on how to deal with it. In all honestly, I don't deal with it; I merely survive it.
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Same. I'm also disabled and attracted to horses, so this dry spell may never come to an end. It's just the cold, hard truth.
 
Animallover said:
Most people here think getting an animals kiss easy work they tell me I'm so lucky cuz I have horses and donkeys and goats and sheep and all that other stuff and dogs they don't realize how much I actually put into this place.
always bothers me when somebody goes I can't have a dog because of my living situation they can go out and change it if they really wanted to
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It can be hard to dig youself out from all the defeatist thinking however. Sometimes change is impossible not because money is a problem, but because you're mentally in a bad spot. Growing up a zoo and having to hear all of your life how awful you are for loving what you love is just fertile ground for anxiety. If you never experienced this, then perhaps you're just a really strong individual.
 
canecorso said:
It can be hard to dig youself out from all the defeatist thinking however. Sometimes change is impossible not because money is a problem, but because you're mentally in a bad spot. Growing up a zoo and having to hear all of your life how awful you are for loving what you love is just fertile ground for anxiety. If you never experienced this, then perhaps you're just a really strong individual.
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oh trust me I lived a horrible life I know how it is I suffer from major depression disorder but I did let it beat me. If you want something bad enough you will make it happen
 
Animallover said:
oh trust me I lived a horrible life I know how it is I suffer from major depression disorder but I did let it beat me. If you want something bad enough you will make it happen
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True and I do feel sorry hearing about your past, but closing your eyes and taking the plunge is still something most don't have the mental fortitude for yet. Me for example, I have no proper experience with farm life, I wouldn't even know where to start if I were to build one. Reading up on it, accepting it within myself, all while trying to balance it with my regular life and trying to keep it a secret from everyone is all really taxing on my psyche and it's not something that's possible to rush. Knowing zoo people in real life to give me a bit of initial direction and emotional support would make it all that much easier...
 
canecorso said:
True and I do feel sorry hearing about your past, but closing your eyes and taking the plunge is still something most don't have the mental fortitude for yet. Me for example, I have no proper experience with farm life, I wouldn't even know where to start if I were to build one. Reading up on it, accepting it within myself, all while trying to balance it with my regular life and trying to keep it a secret from everyone is all really taxing on my psyche and it's not something that's possible to rush. Knowing zoo people in real life to give me a bit of initial direction and emotional support would make it all that much easier...
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it's possible. I own a 16 acre farm, I hold a regular job, and have a life too.
One thing I will say, if your NOT willing to work everyday, you really do not want to own a farm.
 
Bigpaws_Bear said:
it's possible. I own a 16 acre farm, I hold a regular job, and have a life too.
One thing I will say, if your NOT willing to work everyday, you really do not want to own a farm.
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Agreed a 365 day never a day off but the rewards are well worth it.
 
Even if I had millions of dollars, I still couldn't own a farm, or any property. It would be too much for my back.

So I'm basically screwed.
 
Bigpaws_Bear said:
it's possible. I own a 16 acre farm, I hold a regular job, and have a life too.
One thing I will say, if your NOT willing to work everyday, you really do not want to own a farm.
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You say wise words. It's a very intimidating idea for me, that much is certain. I think I'd be much wiser knowing whether it's suitable for me to pull the trigger if I had already undertaken a proper zoo relationship and knew what exactly I was getting myself into.
 
My dry spell is going on for 2 and a half years now and honestly, it's best to just focus on other things.
Like, i doubt not currently getting laid is the biggest problem you're having as it sure as hell isnt my biggest one. Bills to pay, mouths to feed, cars to repair, I divert my energy and mind towards those things and it makes me forget quite well about the cobwebs between my cheeks :D
 
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