Well, not trying to kill the vibe here but until recently I was getting turned on by pretty concerning stuff, most of it violence and degradation directed at myself. Most extreme was the thought of being essentially raped to death, partially eaten, and then having my remains raped. So you know, a light-hearted roll around in the sheets essentially.
Taking that as an extreme end, pretty much anything leading up to that would get me going too.
I've backed way, way, way off of that since, thank god. Like, way back to OG, vanilla sexual fantasies. Feels good man, but no judgements from me, let your collective freak flags fly son.