Does knotting change him?

[wyldstallyn696]

Hi guys, I’m very new here and this will likely have been answered before, apologies!

From your experiences, after the first wonderful time a dog knots with you, do you find his attitude towards you changes?

Does he more clearly start exerting dominance and treating you more like a bitch? Both in general and also while fucking you?

 

[pes]

do you find his attitude towards you changes?

Yes.

Does he more clearly start exerting dominance and treating you more like a bitch?

No.
Not every dog does that and whether any dog does that is questionable.
Technically possible since animals have different personalities.

 

[wyldstallyn696]

Yes.

No.
Not every dog does that and whether any dog does that is questionable.
Technically possible since animals have different personalities.

Thank you pes!

In what ways did you find their attitude change? Were they more sexual and demanding for attention?

 

[pes]

If the sex feels nice, every animal will find some sort of a way to ask for it.
My dog can be pretty demanding if I refuse.

 

[wyldstallyn696]

If the sex feels nice, every animal will find some sort of a way to ask for it.
My dog can be pretty demanding if I refuse.

I love the thought of that!
The feeling of almost being under their control.
They want it when they want it and it’s my place to obey without refusal. That’s something I really hope to experience on this journey!
Thank you x

 

[pes]

They want it when they want it and it’s my place to obey without refusal. That’s something I really hope to experience on this journey!

It is generally not a good idea to do that because your dog will not know when the time is appropriate.
You simply will have to refuse the dog at times.

 

[wyldstallyn696]

It is generally not a good idea to do that because your dog will not know when the time is appropriate.
You simply will have to refuse the dog at times.

That’s a very good point, yes thank you. There will still need to be some boundaries to try to instill when the time is right.

 

[HappyDoggyLover]

Didnt get knotted but had sex with one. It changed his behaviour slighty. When the other dogs would come near me he would get sort of jealous or territorial and push them away a bit. He didnt like me petting them. Only him

 

[wyldstallyn696]

Didnt get knotted but had sex with one. It changed his behaviour slighty. When the other dogs would come near me he would get sort of jealous or territorial and push them away a bit. He didnt like me petting them. Only him

That makes a lot of sense that he would become more territorial over you. Especially if he considered the other dogs as potential partners for you as well. Did that get better over time?

 

[HappyDoggyLover]

unfortunately i didnt get to have sex with him often. He was very playful and loving...he wasnt aggressive or violent would just sort of nudge them away/small push. But thats about it

 

[wyldstallyn696]

unfortunately i didnt get to have sex with him often. He was very playful and loving...he wasnt aggressive or violent would just sort of nudge them away/small push. But thats about it

I’m glad to hear it!

 

[noasknotel]

If the sex feels nice, every animal will find some sort of a way to ask for it.
My dog can be pretty demanding if I refuse.

demanding how?

 

[pes]

demanding how?

He keeps asking, mounting, or even verbally complaining.

 

[Jmmp2803]

Yes, he might get more affectionate and especially hornier

 

[Red_Neptune]

I'd imagine once He sees you as his "bitch" that things change for him even if it's not much

 

[wyldstallyn696]

Yes, he might get more affectionate and especially hornier

That’s what I had thought. That he’d likely be hornier a lot more and start to become almost demanding for sex!

 

[wyldstallyn696]

I'd imagine once He sees you as his "bitch" that things change for him even if it's not much

This was definitely what I was wondering. Do you think he consciously starts viewing you as his bitch? If the dynamic changes in his mind that you’re less of his owner now, and instead he owns you? (To an extent anyway)

 

[Red_Neptune]

This was definitely what I was wondering. Do you think he consciously starts viewing you as his bitch? If the dynamic changes in his mind that you’re less of his owner now, and instead he owns you? (To an extent anyway)

I suppose it depends on how much you let Him "dominate" you afterwards. If you put boundaries then maybe He'll still see you as master that likes to have fun but if you mostly surrender to His needs then maybe He sees you more as a bitch.

 

[bayareacpl]

Ours are highly trained outside the sexual realm, so they didn’t change any behavior that I can easily discern.

The only “dominance” they do isn’t really dominance. My husband has a “breeding collar” with a rope on it. They know to pull him down if they want to use him and they aren’t allowed any sexual behavior if he isn’t wearing it. I’d say that presents more like carrying around a food bowl than real dominance. It’s like scratching at the door. Like he could just stand up if I allowed him to. Does that make sense?

 

[Red_Neptune]

Ours are highly trained outside the sexual realm, so they didn’t change any behavior that I can easily discern.

The only “dominance” they do isn’t really dominance. My husband has a “breeding collar” with a rope on it. They know to pull him down if they want to use him and they aren’t allowed any sexual behavior if he isn’t wearing it. I’d say that presents more like carrying around a food bowl than real dominance. It’s like scratching at the door. Like he could just stand up if I allowed him to. Does that make sense?

I've read before about that, having a leash and collar they can use. May I ask how you trained the for that specifically?
If it's too much to explain I understand!

Having something they can use to pull and control is kind of my ideal scenario for my partner!

 

[bayareacpl]

I've read before about that, having a leash and collar they can use. May I ask how you trained the for that specifically?
If it's too much to explain I understand!

They’re pretty smart and are used to training since puppyhood. Once they showed interest on their own, we introduced the “go ahead” item and did normal reinforcement. The goal was to teach them not to do anything without it, so when they tried without it they were prevented and corrected.

Eventually they made the connection, and now they never act out. We have to place it out of view when not in use because if they can access it they will bring it to us.

 

[wyldstallyn696]

Ours are highly trained outside the sexual realm, so they didn’t change any behavior that I can easily discern.

The only “dominance” they do isn’t really dominance. My husband has a “breeding collar” with a rope on it. They know to pull him down if they want to use him and they aren’t allowed any sexual behavior if he isn’t wearing it. I’d say that presents more like carrying around a food bowl than real dominance. It’s like scratching at the door. Like he could just stand up if I allowed him to. Does that make sense?

This makes so much sense! The breeding collar is such an excellent idea. As long as your husband wears the collar they have the ability to exert themselves pulling when they desire, giving them that level of dominance. Then as soon as it is put away, it’s clear sex is no longer on the cards.
Thank you so much for this!

 

[Jmmp2803]

That’s what I had thought. That he’d likely be hornier a lot more and start to become almost demanding for sex!

Correct

 

[Jmmp2803]

They’re pretty smart and are used to training since puppyhood. Once they showed interest on their own, we introduced the “go ahead” item and did normal reinforcement. The goal was to teach them not to do anything without it, so when they tried without it they were prevented and corrected.

Eventually they made the connection, and now they never act out. We have to place it out of view when not in use because if they can access it they will bring it to us.

It’s a funny image the dogs finding the collar and bringing it to him because they want to fuck

 

[bayareacpl]

It’s a funny image the dogs finding the collar and bringing it to him because they want to fuck

They bring it to me, 80% of the time. It’s kinda like when the animal knows to ask one partner for food from the plate because the other doesn’t supply it.

He isn’t allowed to offer himself. That’s my job.

 

[wyldstallyn696]

They bring it to me, 80% of the time. It’s kinda like when the animal knows to ask one partner for food from the plate because the other doesn’t supply it.

He isn’t allowed to offer himself. That’s my job.

I love that there is that implicitly understood hierarchy and they know to bring it to you!

 

[bayareacpl]

I love that there is that implicitly understood hierarchy and they know to bring it to you!

That may be, but I’m pretty sure it is more likely only “she will give me human food and he won’t. I’ll ask her.”

 

[Red_Neptune]

They’re pretty smart and are used to training since puppyhood. Once they showed interest on their own, we introduced the “go ahead” item and did normal reinforcement. The goal was to teach them not to do anything without it, so when they tried without it they were prevented and corrected.

Eventually they made the connection, and now they never act out. We have to place it out of view when not in use because if they can access it they will bring it to us.

Any good reads or sources for training like this to help newbies?

 

[Jmmp2803]

They bring it to me, 80% of the time. It’s kinda like when the animal knows to ask one partner for food from the plate because the other doesn’t supply it.

He isn’t allowed to offer himself. That’s my job.

So he’s just getting whored out to them? Sounds fun! Lol

 

[Citizenphaid]

I used to suck my dogs cock so much that he would roll over and spread his legs if I went near him