kinkykream77
Tourist
You are assuming things that weren’t even remotely said, mentioned or implied…..And what's to stop a sock puppet account or bad actor from completely BSing a "vouching"?
This isn't a meetup/dating site. Hell, even actual meetup/dating sites are plagied by more fake accounts than real with no way to verify.
Do uour own verification by spending months getting to know the person behind the account before even THINKING proposing a meet. This IS NOT something you can leap into because a "good offer" comes around. This is illegal and dangerous.
I’m not clueless or born yesterday in any way shape or form btw. Nor is deciding to meet someone from anywhere online illegal. Could it be dangerous without taking the proper precautions, obviously. But this group of people share common interests…..hence why we are on here…..and the interests aren’t exactly ‘common’ so it can be fun to make connections and even friendships with like minded people that may enjoy actually meeting in person instead of only having interactions in front of a screen.
Had I asked for advice or input on how to do my own personal verification or the length of time to get to know someone or build trust etc, then your response would make sense…..but none of that has anything to do with what I was inquiring about because I’m already more than aware of the other things, as I have plenty of experience!!
It baffles me why some feel the need to speak/respond to others rudely or defensively when it’s so not necessary. I was simply asking some questions while being respectful.
I guess I’ll have to think twice about posting or asking a question since it doesn’t seem to be very welcomed to some which is unfortunate
