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Knotty1919

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I think I have been zoo for a really long time, my earliest memories of zoo related thoughts and fantasies are from around 5-6 years old, and it has carried out well into my adult life. I have never expressed these thought to anyone, and my wife has been asking about my desires and fantasies.

Has anyone been in a similar situation? I have considered therapy or something similar, but I cant bring myself to tell others about it. Any inout would be appreciated.
 
I am interested in this too, being married with a partner who I think would definitely disagree wondering what it's like for others
 
I've been married for ten years to a woman who knew from the start about my being a zoophile. While she has never been interested in participating, she has been supportive and accepting. She was the only one who understood why I was in so much pain when I had to rehome my mares. I cannot imagine how gut wrenching it must be to have to hide that part of myself from my wife.
 
Knotty1919 said:
I think I have been zoo for a really long time, my earliest memories of zoo related thoughts and fantasies are from around 5-6 years old, and it has carried out well into my adult life. I have never expressed these thought to anyone, and my wife has been asking about my desires and fantasies.

Has anyone been in a similar situation? I have considered therapy or something similar, but I cant bring myself to tell others about it. Any inout would be appreciated.
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I’m very much the same. But knowing my wife that it would very much piss her off! lol. She already thinks I’m a pervert. No need to prove her right!
 
Not sure I can help as I'm coming from the other direction as I was playing with my dogs before I met my husband. So when we started getting serious I introduced him to my real sexual life. Our sexual dynamic is unique as I wear the pants sexually so I drove the conversation and told him he was going to accept it ;). I'm guessing you don't have that type of relationship with your wife. You know your wife better then any of us, so I would recommend you trust your gut on how she would react. Because let be honest this does freak some people out. There isn't a magic thing that will get a person to accept this type of dynamic and you can't force it. So people are open and some aren't especially when sex is involved. Good Luck
 
Coming clean about zoophilia is always extremely risky. I was fortunate in that my ex was accepting of it, but it's never a sure fire thing.
 
I told my wife before we even started dating, and I always recommend people tell their significant other as early as possible in the relationship. Either you can work through it or you can't, but in my opinion it's best to figure that out early on. That being said, especially since you're already married, is it worth possibly losing your relationship over? The answer will be different for everyone. If that part of you is really important to you then it's going to come up one way or another. And as Werewolf said: you know your wife better than anyone. Everyone's situation is different, you have to weigh the dangers of telling her with the anguish of not telling her.
If you do decide to tell her you might start small. Furry stuff, pet play, that kind of thing. You can see how comfortable she is with zoo adjacent stuff and ramp it up from there.
 
Knotty1919 said:
I think I have been zoo for a really long time, my earliest memories of zoo related thoughts and fantasies are from around 5-6 years old, and it has carried out well into my adult life. I have never expressed these thought to anyone, and my wife has been asking about my desires and fantasies.

Has anyone been in a similar situation? I have considered therapy or something similar, but I cant bring myself to tell others about it. Any inout would be appreciated.
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Give me all the advice!!!!!
 
I’m in the same boat I got married, I’ve been into this since I was at least 10-12 years old. Unfortunately my spouse is not into anything zoo related at all. It’s something I have to respect though and now it’s strictly just porn and fantasy for me. It’s common to be afraid but my wife was my bestfriend so I finally summoned the courage to talk to her and got it done and over with. Best of luck to you as it is a very personal and scary thing to mention to others.
 
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