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Thoughts on cats as partners?

thatweirdcatz

thatweirdcatz

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I have two cats i consider to be partners, even though I don't engage with them, I love them dearly but is there any thoughts or advice from other cat lovers? Thank you!
 
Well, I guess I have some thoughts for you... I'm not sure what you want advice about exactly. I also don't know what you mean by 'I don't engage with them'. I am assuming you mean sexually.

I don't think the concept of 'partners' has to include sex by any means. It can, sure, but I think the 'partners' is broad enough to encompass other kinds of deep intimacy that isn't sexual. Emotional, and other kinds of (nonsexual) physical or cohabitational intimacy. When I think of partners, I think of mutual support and equity of some kind. This is why I don't think the term 'pet' in the kinds of deep relationships we sometimes have with nonhuman animals always hits the mark for me.

I suppose I personally would apply the word 'pet' to a fish kept for visual interest and general amusement. There isn't any intimacy there for me, and the fish isn't contributing its emotions to the relationship I have with it. Or maybe a classroom hamster. But animals like cats and dogs seem to bond deeply with us emotionally. The emotional bonds I have had with cats in the past transcend the more one-sided 'pet' dynamic for me. I think we as human beings can choose to treat animals as pets or partners.

You have brought an interesting question to contemplate. Zoosex has made me rethink intimacy with animals, and that in turn has made me rethink what it means for a nonhuman to be 'pet' versus a 'partner'. Perhaps there's overlap between the two as well. What do you think? I'd say if you view your cats as partners, then that is completey valid. I think the simple act of asking for some insight about how you see your loved ones speaks in support of your view considering them partners in your life.
 
my cat and I are quite close in a partner adjacent way, I also don’t engage sexually unless he’s being a little freaky and cums on my leg/arm. I think the bond between a cat and person can be just as strong as a dogs, I would compare my closeness and bond with my kitty alike to the dog owners who consider their pups their partners, even if I don’t use the term partner in reference to him. Cat owners/lovers seem to be sparse on this site sadly
 
I had a male cat who loved being jacked off and the female really enjoyed being fingered. It worked for us. I still want to let a male cat cum in my dick slit though.
 
thatweirdcatz said:
I have two cats i consider to be partners, even though I don't engage with them, I love them dearly but is there any thoughts or advice from other cat lovers? Thank you!
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As romantic partners? Go ahead and try, although animals don't share romantic bonds, as this is a strictly human thing, but some people like to read into animal behavior and as long as this relationship doesn't unhealthy side-effects for either of you, feel free to engage in it.

As sexual partners they're an unlikely match. If you're a guy, a cat would be no sexual partner at all, at least where penetrative sex is considered, as you're way to big for a cat's anus or vulva. If you're a girl, a cat could penetrate you, but you should consider getting up to date on your tetanus shots first. Tomcats have barbs on their penis to stimulate a female to ovulate, as they don't do that on their own. Those barbs hurt though, which is why a Tomcat bites down on a cat during mating to distract her from the potential pain he's causing back there... Which is also why a female cat might smack the living daylight out of a tomcat during dismounting, especially if he's been extra rough. I heard that after castration those barbs become less prominent, but then again, a castrated animal might also have a severely reduced sex drive at all.

So, the best you could hope for, regardless of your sex would be non-penetrative action. A cat may lick you, but their tongue also has barbs, it's a bit like wet sandpaper, so I guess you'd have to be into this feeling, I guess. You can also masturbate a tomcat or let him hump your hand/arm while he's biting down into the sleeve of whatever you're wearing. I've seen that performed the most when sexual activity with cats were documented. As for female cats, I'm not sure if they can properly be masturbated. Most human pinky fingers seem to be the right size and shape and could probably be inserted, but when in doubt, better not do it at all. I also have never heard about anyone trying to masturbate female cats before, so I'm unaware how well that would work.

So, don't expect to get much (if any) sexual gratification out of a cat as a sexual partner, but at least you may be able to give a tomcat a good time, if he's in the right mood, that is.

If neither a romantic nor a sexual partnership is what you're looking for and you're totally fine with a platonic relationship with your pet, go for it, that's what most loving pet owners do anyway. There's nobody who'd tell you to stop loving your cats, so love them all you want, but don't expect them to love you back with the same intensity. Cats are far more picky and solitary than dogs, so they might show you less affection than a dog would. If that's fine for you, go all for it!

wesdogger said:
I had a male cat who loved being jacked off and the female really enjoyed being fingered. It worked for us. I still want to let a male cat cum in my dick slit though.
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I know some people are into sounding and stuffing some things down their pee-hole, even if that's an unpleasant thought for me. But I guess you slightly underestimate the girth and length of a cat's penis though. Take a look at your pinky finger. Now imagine it being covered in small prickly needles that are bent backwards towards your hands. Those would represent the barbs on a cats penis. Now imagine pushing that thing down your urethra. Good luck getting it out again without getting internal injuries and a nasty urethral infection to boot. Fantasize about it all you want, that's fine, but for your own sake, don't try that at home. It just wouldn't work the way you imagine and would probably not end well, despite it would certainly be impossible to convince a tomcat to try to penetrate your dick. You may as well more easily try to insert a tiny cactus to get the same sensation, but I certainly wouldn't recommend that.

wesdogger said:
I can’t imagine wh

You never see or hear of anybody doing that. I’d try rabbits, hamster and birds too.
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Based on your previous post, I assume this is still about the urethral penetration. Rabbits would be too large for it either, also they're deceptively long. The girth may be almost on par with the girth of a cat penis, but the penis, despite lacking a cat's barbs, would be even longer than that of a cat when fully erected. So, again, no good match for urethral penetration.

Your best shot would be a hamster penis, or that of pretty much any rodent (which rabbits are not, by the way). They're short and tiny in length and diameter and may snuggly fit, but good luck convincing them to penetrate your glans without forcing them (which is something nobody should ever do, sadly that still has to be spelled out in most zoo communities).

For birds, you're again out of luck. Those birds that have a phallus-like organ have one that wouldn't fit inside your urethra. But most birds don't have that. They just got a cloaca, a multi-purpose hole for waste-removal and reproduction. So a bird cuming "inside" your dick wouldn't be a thing, if anything you'd just touch their cloaca with your glans and they may squirt something white onto it and if you're lucky it wouldn't be excrement. To some people who might actually have access to birds and experiment with them, it might feel tempting at this point to penetrate the bird instead of trying to find anatomical features in the bird that may be able to penetrate them, but once again, this is something that nobody should ever attempt to do (and sadly, this is also something that has to be spelled out often enough). Male birds aren't built to be penetrated, the same goes for female birds of species that don't have a phallus and in species that do have one, the females still aren't compatible to a human penis, unless you are into ostriches or emus. Also the argument that "if an egg can come out, a cock can fit in" is flawed. That's like saying "If a woman can give birth to a child, then an elephants penis can fit in!", it's something that shouldn't even be considered.

Valkiria said:
That's not a topic, that's a diagnosis.👩‍⚕️🚑💊
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The diagnosis is a paraphilia with the name "zoophilia". It's terminal. People at least never getting rid of it during their lifetime, it seems.

Sadly even the more "out there" fetishes on this forum might fall under the same umbrella term of "zoophilia" (as sexual attraction towards animals), although I really wish we may be able to differentiate it further, because I personally am already sick for quite a couple of years *cough* decades *cough* of being associated with some things that strictly fall under the same umbrella that exist out here and there...

Blacksoul said:
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The barbs are certainly no laughing matter...
With a barb-covered penis in the rear every day is a monday...
 
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