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I dont know what I'm doing help!

nomore117

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I wish I could write as organized and detailed as some of the wonderful users here but i can’t so if youre reading this just bear with me (is it bear or bare?) …anyway

a very simple long story short

About Me:

23yr Christian Female
I haven’t had a pet dog in many many MANY years.
I have been struggling with this attraction for some time I have another posts about it. I have been trying to avoid this like the plague
What brings me here today!

Background to Leading Questions :

A random man with a truck was giving away a shit fuck ton of puppies at a local grocery store.
Naturally being the impulsive girl I am i took one that he handed me and it was a boy. In my head im thinking okay… if i get a dog it will make me less attracted to them because its now my fur “baby”.
After some expensive vet bills and deworming. It was working he was in kinda bad shape and his siblings were sucking his privates, so he was just not doing the best. But Recently ive been doing what the vet said neosporin on the privates and belly , special diet etc. & i thought i was healed LOL , until the third time I had to apply the ointment and he was healing up and that though came across my mind and i realized just HOW LONG i was lubricating his area. Other than that i think we are starting to have great rapport and I have only had him a week. He follows me wherever i go. He comes when i make kissing noises. & for inly being like 10wks old he lets me know when he has to potty. He sleeps through the night as well unless he wakes up and has to potty. Hes a really good boy. The dog is a Pit-bull Mix.


Why I Need Help :
I wonder if I’m hurting him the way im applying the ointment?.. he doesn’t whine he kinda just lets me…
Should i give him away to someone who probably wont molest him in the future?
( im just really struggling with this i love him to death but i wonder if its healthy)
Zoo Netizens What do we think?
 
Well, considering the situation, it's the best thing you could do for him. And I wouldn't use the term "molestation" to describe the thing going on
LMAO , thats what i feels like to me sometimes but he doesn’t seem to mind , what else should i call it?

… yeah I am doing what the vet said she never really specified how long.. 😕
 
Honey, it sounds as though you are doing everything the vet told you to do. Ten weeks old is far too young for him, or you, to consider anything more than just teaching him to walk to heel, fetch, run with you, pee outdoors, etc. He is nowhere near sexually mature enough for anything else. Bond with him, be his friend. Just do what you're doing.
 
Honey, it sounds as though you are doing everything the vet told you to do. Ten weeks old is far too young for him, or you, to consider anything more than just teaching him to walk to heel, fetch, run with you, pee outdoors, etc. He is nowhere near sexually mature enough for anything else. Bond with him, be his friend. Just do what you're doing.
Yes i dont plan on doing anything its more so the feelings i get while doing what im supposed too do for his health 😭 i feel like something is wrong with me i get aroused from him just licking my hand, but i really just want to care for him and have a best friend
 
Yes i dont plan on doing anything its more so the feelings i get while doing what im supposed too do for his health 😭 i feel like something is wrong with me i get aroused from him just licking my hand, but i really just want to care for him and have a best friend
The only problem I see is that you think there is something wrong with you for feeling the way you feel. Having those feelings doesn't mean you are doing something wrong or are going to do or have to do something.
 
Bordercollie69 is right. Just love him, train him and let him grow up to be a good strong boy. There is plenty of time to have fun with him.
Both he and you will know when.
 
I wish I could write as organized and detailed as some of the wonderful users here but i can’t so if youre reading this just bear with me (is it bear or bare?) …anyway

a very simple long story short

About Me:

23yr Christian Female
I haven’t had a pet dog in many many MANY years.
I have been struggling with this attraction for some time I have another posts about it. I have been trying to avoid this like the plague
What brings me here today!

Background to Leading Questions :

A random man with a truck was giving away a shit fuck ton of puppies at a local grocery store.
Naturally being the impulsive girl I am i took one that he handed me and it was a boy. In my head im thinking okay… if i get a dog it will make me less attracted to them because its now my fur “baby”.
After some expensive vet bills and deworming. It was working he was in kinda bad shape and his siblings were sucking his privates, so he was just not doing the best. But Recently ive been doing what the vet said neosporin on the privates and belly , special diet etc. & i thought i was healed LOL , until the third time I had to apply the ointment and he was healing up and that though came across my mind and i realized just HOW LONG i was lubricating his area. Other than that i think we are starting to have great rapport and I have only had him a week. He follows me wherever i go. He comes when i make kissing noises. & for inly being like 10wks old he lets me know when he has to potty. He sleeps through the night as well unless he wakes up and has to potty. Hes a really good boy. The dog is a Pit-bull Mix.


Why I Need Help :
I wonder if I’m hurting him the way im applying the ointment?.. he doesn’t whine he kinda just lets me…
Should i give him away to someone who probably wont molest him in the future?
( im just really struggling with this i love him to death but i wonder if its healthy)
Zoo Netizens What do we think?
You're not alone in this, and your honesty here is a big step towards managing your feelings responsibly. Keep reaching out, and take one step at a time.
 
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