If not, will you ever tell them?
Does your partner know you’re into beastiality?
- Thread starter rowdiggity
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I respect that and wish you the best of luck if you ever decide to share!
I don't know if you have a partner but if you did... How would you do it? Or would you?
I don’t have a partner currently, but speaking for myself, I wouldn’t share that unless I knew they were also into it before the relationship started. It’s just too much to risk imo
Cooper22z
Tourist
No, ive been with my partner for 8 years now. It is so conflicting. I am tempted to bring it up and just hope for the best. My partner is okay with me being a furry and is the least judgmental person, but this is a whole new extreme.... it is terrifying and i love him so very much. I would hate to destroy something beautiful that we have built and ruin our plans for marriage.. but i cant marry him without telling him.. just hard to find a time when.. He also has said some SUS stuff where he has shown certain curiosities so it gives me a bit of hope. My biggest fear is him never looking at me the same again or worrying when im around any of his animals ...
That sounds incredibly hard and stressful. I’m so sorry you have to deal with holding that in!! I wish you all the best and hope one day you can live as your true authentic self
Cooper22z
Tourist
It really is. Such a conflicting feeling, especially because i suppressed this part of my all of my life as it is. I appreciate your kind words!! <3 Fingers crossed that all works out when the time comes. What's meant to be, will be
thil28
Citizen of Zooville
Yes. In fact he brought it into my life and helped me accept my deeply hidden desires. But if I wasn’t with him, I don’t think I would’ve told anyone else like my exes, (none of them ever hinted at any interest in bestiality with me), about my zoo feelings, especially when I was denying them myself due to the taboo and illegal aspects of it that society frowns down on in my community and country. Like most other countries too.
K9kaye
Tourist
It's just such a difficult subject to bring up
Activedogcouple
Citizen of Zooville
Yes he knows.
thil28
Citizen of Zooville
Exactly… my partner danced around the subject for a while before he found the courage to say something about it. Later he told me he was so afraid I would stop talking to him and disappear from his life. Though he claims he sussed out that I might have an interest in it from my conversations with him.
K9kaye
Tourist
you are so lucky to be able to talk about itExactly… my partner danced around the subject for a while before he found the courage to say something about it. Later he told me he was so afraid I would stop talking to him and disappear from his life. Though he claims he sussed out that I might have an interest in it from my conversations with him.
thil28
Citizen of Zooville
Yes, I know
and I’m so very grateful for that… I’m so blessed…especially after I found this site and met the community here… and realised how many people have to hide their true desires from their partners. Which is so sad… because I know I can’t hide anything from my partner. I can’t imagine having to hide all of this from him for our lives together if he doesn’t accept it. 
Maybe all the shit I had to go through before earlier in my life, led me to him….
I am very open and honest about my feelings and desires with my partner and he is so accepting of me and vice versa too.
JayUK
Tourist
Wish it could have a happy face
thil28
Citizen of Zooville
I’m so sorry… I thought it was a good thing.
thil28
Citizen of Zooville
Why did you tell her? What made you do it? I’m so sorry, I didn’t mean to pry, if you aren’t comfortable with sharing that here.
K9kaye
Tourist
i wish you so much love in this journeyYes, I know
I am very open and honest about my feelings and desires with my partner and he is so accepting of me and vice versa too.
thil28
Citizen of Zooville
toorch
Tourist
Is there a way to bring it up more skillfully (i.e. not blunt)? At the end of the day we have to communicate our feelings.
I feel like I've mentioned, "I knew someone that had one of those beast dildos with knots at the end" and gauging their reaction is interesting. You can take it further and ask if they think it's attractive.
I feel like I've mentioned, "I knew someone that had one of those beast dildos with knots at the end" and gauging their reaction is interesting. You can take it further and ask if they think it's attractive.
Jim_kirk86
Tourist
Um he does not and I can imagine telling him lol I wouldn’t even know where to start
Zetatwink
Tourist
My ex was, I told him about a month or two into us dating. Started by asking if he was into furry porn, yeah, then sending him a ton of yiff with some feral porn mixed in over the next however long it was. He was about 8”, so I’d send a feral pic of a horsecock getting sucked with a caption, “eating your cock be like”. I think I threw in a real horse once or twice and said they were part of the collection and I just downloaded the whole thing from Tumblr, oops. We got drunk a couple weeks into it, and I was like “yeah I wanna try the real thing“ and he said that was kinda hot. A couple weeks later, same thing got drunk and he was like “yeah I’ve wanted to get knotted for years”, and then I showed him how to jerk off the dog
You gave him great instruction and demonstration.
Johnny-Stardust
Tourist
most cases it wouldn't be received as positive soo most keep it a secret for life
Rascalides
Tourist
No.... things have happened that lead me to believe that she shares the fetish....
Let me ask her…….. Yep she knows and loves it too!!
TwistedOctober
Lurker
He knows somewhat. He found animal porn on my web search years ago, but we haven't ever talked about it. He might just think I was just curious. I was ashamed at first. Now I think I want to be more open about it. He is pretty open minded about things. I think he isn't going to be too shocked. I just don't know how to bring it up.