certainly the point of having a real relationship is that a woman or any other person who really values relationships shouldnt feel like they have to owe anything or be obligated. even between friends, they should just respect their partners wants or needs.
if they are waiting for the obligation then they are not really the better half, and should not be kept as if they will ever start feeling obligated.
we dont need or want somebody who needs to feel obligated to function properly in a relationship. what else will they not do unless they have to? thats how they end a relationship and irritate people who honestly want or value one.
Respect a partners wants and needs...but not actually meet those needs right? How is that going to be a lasting relationship when one doesn't meet the other's needs? Do men mean so little to women that they can't put in an actual effort to make a lasting relationship, do men mean so little to them that we are trash that can simple be tossed aside because of minor communication issues and then not want to talk or work the issue out?
Every women I've ever been with, as well as ever known, have NEVER actually tried to be open, honest, or communicate...when things go wrong in a relationship women just move on without a care in the word, three years later has 5 kids by 3 different daddies, living on EBT and welfare, kids never get to college or have a terrible adulthood living in poverty, all because they chose not to talk and work whatever the problem was out.
If someone can't or won't meet the others's needs, then they should just say the didn't want a relationship and just wanted sex from the beginning.
I never asked anything from any woman I've been with. I've expressed my interests and needs, but I never forced or pushed anything...I've never had a woman tell me what she wanted or what her needs or interests are. Communication is definitely the key, and I'm not so sure men are lacking in it...
This last girl I was with was the assistant manager of a BK, and I maybe knew her less than a week before she kept coming onto me. I explicitly told her I didn't fornicate with women, and I only wanted a relationship with one woman that did that mean and animals. She kept coming onto me trying to get a fuck, until she asked me out on a date, then tried turning a casual date into a fuckdate before I could even get to know her, so I called my dog over to meet her sexual needs and zoophile interests, and then she breaks my heart next day. In this situation, this woman completely disregarded our established communication, disrespected me as a person, didn't even want to take the time to get to know me as a person, and apparently I mean so little to her she can't talk out whatever the issue was, which to this day I still have no clue.
If I could wish one thing, as a man, for my future relationships with women, is for them to be open, honest and tell me what they want from the beginning. Women come onto me, and I have no idea what they want, and in instances they say something they want, their actions later contradict what they previously told me.
I am very easy to get along with. I'm slow to anger, easy going. I have a wonderful personality, I make almost six times il min wage, I have great looks, but always the bad guy when I try and talk relationship problems, no want wants to work it out, they just want to be left alone. Most of my breakups have been because my mates weren't zoos, but this last one is the worst yet.
Nothing I did or tried to do would keep her with me...and when I tried it just made it worse. I can imagine how much more messed up it would be if I did fuck her like she wanted, she be keeping my child frome right now, all because she wanted to rush things, not respect me as a person on wanting a real date instead of a fuckdate and then skipping tail on me and closing communication down when I tried talking things out.
Couldn't really blab without outing yourself