Could just do it with your partner. I used to take a few pics and videos of my exes for us to watch later (normal stuff) and made them feel sexy posing or performing. I hope if I ever meet someone into this, I can make memories with her too we can watch later. But it would just be for us. No one to this day has seen the stuff with my exes, even though some of them are from years ago now. It's no one's business what we did in trust back then. I'm one of those weird few I guess that still holds that trust after breakups. lol