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Would you leave your current "Non-Zoo" accepting relationship for a new one allowing zoo lifestyl?

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RD69

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If by chance I met a woman here or elsewhere who is into the zoo lifestyle and maybe swinging...there's a strong possibilty with the right match that I would. Life sucks to keep a secret of something you want but kept from it by a close minded person while years pass you by and never realize your fantasies.
 
If you want to leave someone so you can fuck not only that person but also an animal, then your relation probably has probably bigger issues than just this. Don't tell me that you would leave someone you truly love just because you can have more sexual partners in other relationship, that's pretty sad ?
 
MishaCZ said:
If you want to leave someone so you can fuck not only that person but also an animal, then your relation probably has probably bigger issues than just this. Don't tell me that you would leave someone you truly love just because you can have more sexual partners in other relationship, that's pretty sad ?
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Yep, all too many people are pigs. The first guy I dated broke up with me cause I wouldn't put out after 3 months "everything else is great but 3 months is just soooo long to wait". Like a year later I saw him on the same dating app we met through with a new profile "seeing someone but 'I love penis' looking for more on the side". Yep, glad I never put out for him and that I was about to break it off with him anyway.
 
Sex is an important part of a relationship. Even more important is trust. Being able to trust your partner with your fantasies and desires is huge. If you don't have that things seem uncertain or seem to crumble. I surely need a partner that can except all of me. I totally get it. I'm lucky and fortunate enough that I do have a partner that I trust and can share my fantasies about and we both get off to it. I don't think it's shitty you feel the way you do. I think it's incredibly honest. I can't be with someone that won't accept me being poly and having other relationships. It's just the way it is. So with that said I hope people are a little kinder to you in this thread.
 
RD69 said:
thanks for the negativity, nice start to the day. I had hoped people in this community would be kinder.
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it's always the same with this type of posters... you ask a shitty thing (leaving someone for "better" sex is a shit thing to do) and get negative responses. what did you expect? praise? you even used the same "thought this community would be kinder" literally every single one of you "people" use... like what? another case of "we fuck animals so anything goes"?
 
Not if I actually loved them and our relationship was solid. If someone is good to me and makes life sweeter, I see no reason to break it off with them just so I could have sexual relations with animals. I’m still a zoo with or without their acceptance, and I’ll always keep it to myself because I’m a reserved person. What they don’t know doesn’t harm them. Not like I want my partner to watch me or intrude on my relationship with animals. I’d rather it just be my personal little thing. Some might say keeping secrets from your partner is bad, but I think it’s worse to ruin something great just because you wanted some acceptance.

If we already had a pretty bad relationship, that would be a whole other story.
 
nekdoneco123 said:
it's always the same with this type of posters... you ask a shitty thing (leaving someone for "better" sex is a shit thing to do) and get negative responses. what did you expect? praise?
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Well obviously the internet is only supposed to respond in support of whatever, the non-support aren't supposed to reply. How else is validation seeking supposed to work?
 
Well I am single so I don't need to leave anyone to find that relationship. (Hint Hint) lol
But if someone I truly loved and cared for were not into this, then I would stay with her... just sneak off from time to time to watch a video.
 
If by chance I met a woman here or elsewhere who is into the zoo lifestyle and maybe swinging...there's a strong possibilty with the right match that I would. Life sucks to keep a secret of something you want but kept from it by a close minded person while years pass you by and never realize your fantasies.
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I think we just need to put a quote of the OP here in case he decides to scurry off and delete it, he's already tried to have his account deleted by putting a profile post on a mod instead of a PM to an admin. Seriously, why's it so hard to understand the difference between a PM and a profile post?
 
RD69 said:
If by chance I met a woman here or elsewhere who is into the zoo lifestyle and maybe swinging...there's a strong possibilty with the right match that I would. Life sucks to keep a secret of something you want but kept from it by a close minded person while years pass you by and never realize your fantasies.
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Why do you think that your partner is not accepting, if you've kept it a secret?
 
Its not about sex for me. I'm really not interested in physical love. Hugs are fine though. I'd much rather keep my zoo affinity a secret and be with a person who adores me for me rather than someone in it for sex and fetishes. Once the appeal of the sex is gone, which is does, the only thing in common may be zoo and thats not enough. If the person is an exact replica of the person I was with, just the added bonus of being zoo positive, maybe I'd consider it but there is a lot of thought that would need to go into it first for it to be worth it but i'm fully content with a non sex, non zoo lifestyle so long as I can have a continued ownership of pets. I would not date anyone who barely tolerates animals or pets.
 
Maybe, it really depends on more than just if they’re into zoo (though it would earn them some bonus points lol). It honestly all comes down to who I had the better chemistry and connection with
 
RD69 said:
If by chance I met a woman here or elsewhere who is into the zoo lifestyle and maybe swinging...there's a strong possibilty with the right match that I would. Life sucks to keep a secret of something you want but kept from it by a close minded person while years pass you by and never realize your fantasies.
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Yes, 100% yes. I would just drop her though we could still be friends and stuff.
 
I think all of not most should. I think it's completely stupid that two people get involved without being open and honest with each other. It's a crash course for disaster later down the road. They made it that way, now they have to sleep in the bed they made.
 
RD69 said:
If by chance I met a woman here or elsewhere who is into the zoo lifestyle and maybe swinging...there's a strong possibilty with the right match that I would. Life sucks to keep a secret of something you want but kept from it by a close minded person while years pass you by and never realize your fantasies.
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Agreed.
But firstly i would ask a person for a fwb.
 
JUST because the other person was zoo? No. But if there seemed to be true chemistry, alignment of life goals, and the potential for a strong relationship... it's possible.

I say this not because of the sex aspect, but more because keeping this desire secret takes its toll. Esp if my current partner was completely grossed out by it. Last year I dated someone who was zoo and it was just wonderful being able to talk about it, share intimacies, feel TRULY accepted. There wasn't a constant worry of being found out. It was very liberating. I'd love to find that again.

(ETA: this is said through the lens of a completely single gal. If I was truly in love my answer might be very differnt... lol)
 
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K91904 said:
JUST because the other person was zoo? No. But if there seemed to be true chemistry, alignment of life goals, and the potential for a strong relationship... it's possible.

I say this not because of the sex aspect, but more because keeping this desire secret takes its toll. Esp if my current partner was completely grossed out by it. Last year I dated someone who was zoo and it was just wonderful being able to talk about it, share intimacies, feel TRULY accepted. There wasn't a constant worry of being found out. It was very liberating. I'd love to find that again.

(ETA: this is said through the lens of a completely single gal. If I was truly in love my answer might be very differnt... lol)
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What resulted in the zoo relation to end, may I ask?
 
RD69 said:
If by chance I met a woman here or elsewhere who is into the zoo lifestyle and maybe swinging...there's a strong possibilty with the right match that I would. Life sucks to keep a secret of something you want but kept from it by a close minded person while years pass you by and never realize your fantasies.
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I agree! Life is too short to hide what makes you passionate!
 
I for one am married (unhappily) but I stay because I love my son more than anything. There have been a few issues along tge way, she reported me for material found on a laptop. I know the trust is stretched, I know it will most likely be over when my son is old enough to move on in his life. I am seeking to make contacts in this area of my life, not just for sex but for comfort. Yes knowing a lady whom I can trust with this would be great, but its not just the sex.

Its the safety.
 
I absolutely would, in a heartbeat. Most human beings are so deceptive that they can't even be honest with themselves, why should I stick around? For a fake idea of love? No thank you, keep your Disney dreams to yourself.
 
As I'm knot in a relationship I can't say. I like to think I wouldn't leave someone I loved purely because another shared my love of dogs, but having my partner enjoying dogs as well or at least accepting I enjoy male dogs would be a dream coming true
 
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