What is your reason for keeping your zoo lifestyle a secret?

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qzon4559

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I know similar threads have been posted before, ex: who knows/who caught you etc…

I’m wondering more about why we keep it a secret? Is it family, shame, job, or a combination of it all? For me it’s a combination of it all. I am one particular person that everyone knows, but this (and other kinks) are not known to anyone except one person. In fact, this is the only place I have been able to talk about this side of me and some of my past experiences. This woman and I shared an amazing encounter, but that was years ago…and I haven’t seen her since. But that night and the taboo nature of it are still a part of me as much as zoo is. And the only reason she knows about that kink is because she was a part of it! Lol In any case, I just wanted to share/ask how others felt. Thanks for listening!
 
it's as simple as preferring my partners with me and alive... well, and my house and car non-vandalized. i had the displeasure of seeing the old-timers of my village react to someone being "just" gay. it was some years ago, another gay couple moved in since then and so far isn't harassed so i don't know, maybe something changed....

i never felt any shame related to my sexuality and i see what i like in bed as "my business" (it's also illegal) so i don't have the urge to try to share it with my family and close friends, i can share literally everything with them besides "we also fuck".
 
Well, first and foremost; i live in a country where it's considered illegal, and the public's disdain for people with our kind interests - and their vocal and sometimes physical disapproval of it - comes a close darn second.
A.k.a. i don't want to go to jail, or be infamous for 'that animal slut' for the rest of my life.

Even the people that i'm involved with when it comes to bestiality don't know my real name, just like i'm not sure if their names are their real ones or not (not if they're smart like me ;) ).
As you (qzon) yourself said: the only reason they know about it is because they are part of it.
 
I think it’s a combination of all.. Society drives it to be a shamefull thing and dignity is being lost if someone caughts. In my case I come from a religious family where it would be considered as an actual sin and I can’t even imagine what they would do if they get to know.
 
It's not accepted in society so why let them know.

Would be lovely to just see a dog walker and ask if you could date their dog. Or just pop to the zoo/farm and ask if you can just pop in to a pen and have some fun. But alas its not an accepted sexual preference so we must keep quiet.
 
My companion demanding a shag and me giving her what she wants 😉, is a crime in many countries. Yet wrecking an entire planet isn't a crime..... Until people can think objectively, I'll keep my little secret safe.
 
Bretthart said:
Or just pop to the zoo/farm and ask if you can just pop in to a pen and have some fun. But alas its not an accepted sexual preference so we must keep quiet.
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this is not really a thing among hetero/homosexuals either (besides actual prostitution), why would that ever be a thing among "us"?
 
The number one reason I keep it a secret is for the safety of my partner. If I were to be outed she would most likely be taken from me, which would cause her great emotional and mental stress, and she would most likely be unrightfully spayed, if not put down. Sure I would be hated by many, and it would put me in danger too, but I could live with that. I could not live with knowing I caused my love pain and suffering. So that is why I keep it to myself.
 
It basically boils down to personal preference. Right now, I'm perfectly content to keep it to myself and live a seemingly normal life. If that changes, and if I feel that I'd prefer to spend some time getting raped and beaten in prison, then I'll be more open about my orientation.
 
Social Stigma and The Law. That's really about it. I mean, 99% of people don't, or want to, understand why I need to do it; and that's fine but I don't need people pointing at me going " She's a Dog and Pig fucker!!" and more than likely losing my job and reputation..... not to mention that it's against the law and I would go to jail.
 
Even if there was no social stigma or jail time for bestiality I still wouldn't tell anyone. Why? Because it's nobody's business that I fuck my bitch.
 
Although some of my family knows, I keep it also discreet and don't discuss it with them, what happens in my yard stays in my yard, and discreet from anyone else because I don't socialise with anyone...🤷‍♂️
 
The number 1 reason is that fact it's not legal in my country. But other than that, I don't want to lose the few friends I have, or my job...
 
Zooflyer said:
The number 1 reason is that fact it's not legal in my country. But other than that, I don't want to lose the few friends I have, or my job...
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I remembered working for a lady boss years back , well she figured it out, she and close family knew my zoo life, which made things between us working well, they knew how to handle things how my mind was at ,the zoo life made me a honest , reliable and functional person,which they respected cause I looked after their business, personal cards, vehicles etc . But I persued a better life working on the family farm .
 
Too risky for many reasons, and I'm too entwined in the reasons to be ok risking anything. But I'd like to be able to share it with someone one day, I can hope
 
I know that there are many who are interested in this and also who are active but unfortunately there are far too many who believe that we torment our animals rape them these meniscus with this image of us want to do everything to make a hell for us therefore I am a little more careful who I meet and get to know today.
 
I'm not sure I technically qualify as a zoo, but my penchant for turning my female partners (human) into zoos would certainly subject me to persecution, public humiliation and imprisonment.
 
I hide it because around me there is always a culture to denigrate zoophilia. Even my parents and people I can trust, because for them it should be treated as a crime or mental disease as many say. I just do not feel safe right now, not even living in my own apartment.
 
Legalities are one reason, but mostly not loosing my family. They would not approve. I'd be divorced and loose my dogs and life. .01% chance my spouse secretly shares the feelings I have aren't good betting odds.
 
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