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Adrenalin

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Hi i have been trying to get my wife for some time to share my interest inthis lifestyle. Finaly making progress. She is thinking of it and still bit unsure and scared of taking the plunge. She doesnt want to create a profile here but willing to get some advice from ladies. So please ladies is there someone that can assits us? Will greatly appreciat send us a pm
 
Adrenalin said:
Hi i have been trying to get my wife for some time to share my interest inthis lifestyle. Finaly making progress. She is thinking of it and still bit unsure and scared of taking the plunge. She doesnt want to create a profile here but willing to get some advice from ladies. So please ladies is there someone that can assits us? Will greatly appreciat send us a pm
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A PM you say? Sounds like phishing to me.

And I wonder, there's been a ton of threads on this topic lately... 🤔
 
I generally dislike the idea of "making zoos" out of people who are not and have never been zoos just because you really really like watching it. How about not being selfish and accepting your partner's choice not to do zoo.
 
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I generally dislike the idea of "making zoos" out of people who are not and have never been zoos just because you really really like watching it. How about not being selfish and accepting your partner's choice not to do zoo.
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yeah, i remember the times when it was one of the rules for "proper" zoos... i'd call the times "before kinksters"
 
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Adrenalin said:
Hi i have been trying to get my wife for some time to share my interest inthis lifestyle. Finaly making progress. She is thinking of it and still bit unsure and scared of taking the plunge. She doesnt want to create a profile here but willing to get some advice from ladies. So please ladies is there someone that can assits us? Will greatly appreciat send us a pm
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Adrenalin said:
Can someone please remove this post or tell me how !!!
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Why do you want it removed? It adds valuable information to the forum. Like the fact that making "zoos" out of people who do not want that is not exactly the brightest idea. :D
 
nekdoneco123 said:
yeah, i remember the times when it was one of the rules for "proper" zoos... i'd call the times "before kinksters"
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With out all the info its not really fair to judge. He could be like myself were his wife is interested but she has zero interest in talking to people on this subject but is unsure of how to proceed.

To throw all ppl looking for information on this subject under the bus is kinda like us outsiders looking in and judging all "proper zoos" as animal abusers which there is more than enough content on this forum to build that opinion.
 
It isnt the request....its the approach. Theres a ton of material here in the way of "how-to"....and quite a bit of similar resistance to " How do I make HER see how hot I think this is".... reality check: ever seen a woman make such a post? Either a person is into this and wants to proceed or they aren't and don't. It doesn't even seem like it should be a legit question....the answer is self-evident.
 
saddlebum66 said:
It isnt the request....its the approach. Theres a ton of material here in the way of "how-to"....and quite a bit of similar resistance to " How do I make HER see how hot I think this is".... reality check: ever seen a woman make such a post? Either a person is into this and wants to proceed or they aren't and don't. It doesn't even seem like it should be a legit question....the answer is self-evident.
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this should be pinned somewhere under "why is making threads about "guiding" someone else to do zoo stuff dumb"
 
nekdoneco123 said:
this should be pinned somewhere under "why is making threads about "guiding" someone else to do zoo stuff dumb"
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Unfortunately you can be absolutely sure that no matter how many times you say it is wrong, it is not by any means going to change the author's opinion or behavior.
Generally unless you ask a question already in doubt and prepared to accept either answer, your opinion will not be changed by negative answers because you have already decided what you want to do.
 
FenrisXiii said:
Yeah, I totally don't approve of convincing someone to engage in bestiality. That's called grooming. It's a really bad thing to be doing. If you like watching people fuck dogs, there's porn of that.
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What's the difference between exposure/experimenting and grooming? I know that grooming applies undue pressure and emotional blackmail.
 
Adrenalin said:
Hi i have been trying to get my wife for some time to share my interest inthis lifestyle. Finaly making progress. She is thinking of it and still bit unsure and scared of taking the plunge. She doesnt want to create a profile here but willing to get some advice from ladies. So please ladies is there someone that can assits us? Will greatly appreciat send us a pm
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I’m happy to chat.
 
Ain't the first time I've said it. If your partner is resistant to the idea, drop it. This isn't a sport... It isn't a game. I use the word "hobby" only because I refuse to call it a fetish. But even bringing the idea up is enough to get yourself jammed, with literally no legal defense. IF it's really an interest she's expressed, proceed, but with caution. Once a person takes the step, it cannot be taken back. For some people, that could even be fatal. Let it be.
 
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