It's difficult for me to be here

[Justhere54762]

I read the rules, and I'm trying to take care of my two dogs while not putting them in danger. I'm losing my home in a couple of weeks, and while I can get out of that eventually, I wouldn't be able to properly care for my dogs, or get a job while I'm homeless with my dogs.

I'm not asking for someone to take in me or my dogs to be clear. Firstly, while I've lived with zoophiles and don't have anything against them per say, my dogs are like my kids to me and I've never done anything with them myself. I'm not really comfortable with the thought of the possibility that someone might have sex with them either. Any requests to take in my dogs will be responded to with a firm NO. And to top it off that'd be against the rules of course so, yeah.

That said, I want to make sure I do what's right for my dogs and I'm here out of concern for them. I can seem to find a pet friendly situation, and I've already exhausted all my known resources including with the city, and shelters, and the ASPCA and humane society and all of them groups.

My dogs are aggressive to other dogs and other dogs only. Even so, as long as there's a barrier (like a door or kennel) between my dogs and any other dogs, they show no aggression and cause no trouble.

Unfortunately they're still considered aggressive towards other dogs. Because of this I have yet to get a yes from ANY no kill shelter or organization to take them in. I haven't been able to find any person or group that has credentials to take them in either.

At this time, and I hope this isn't breaking any rules, I'm trying to ask for help finding resources in the North Western quarter of the United states(think every state west of Montana and north of Arizona) that I could use to find temporary housing for myself and my dogs, similar to a homeless shelter but pet friendly, or a certified group with a good track record that could take and rehome my dogs.

I've had them for 4 years and they mean the world to me. I would die for my dogs and I've gone as far as using Grindr of all places to try to set up some sort of temporary housing because I don't want to put my dogs in a position where I can't care for them and the only options are a shelter where they'll likely be euthanized or with me not being able to work to feed them after a few months.


Sorry for bringing drama into this, but I hope it's at least understandable why I'm looking for resources. Thanks in advance.

 

[saddlebum66]

I read the rules, and I'm trying to take care of my two dogs while not putting them in danger. I'm losing my home in a couple of weeks, and while I can get out of that eventually, I wouldn't be able to properly care for my dogs, or get a job while I'm homeless with my dogs.

I'm not asking for someone to take in me or my dogs to be clear. Firstly, while I've lived with zoophiles and don't have anything against them per say, my dogs are like my kids to me and I've never done anything with them myself. I'm not really comfortable with the thought of the possibility that someone might have sex with them either. Any requests to take in my dogs will be responded to with a firm NO. And to top it off that'd be against the rules of course so, yeah.

That said, I want to make sure I do what's right for my dogs and I'm here out of concern for them. I can seem to find a pet friendly situation, and I've already exhausted all my known resources including with the city, and shelters, and the ASPCA and humane society and all of them groups.

My dogs are aggressive to other dogs and other dogs only. Even so, as long as there's a barrier (like a door or kennel) between my dogs and any other dogs, they show no aggression and cause no trouble.

Unfortunately they're still considered aggressive towards other dogs. Because of this I have yet to get a yes from ANY no kill shelter or organization to take them in. I haven't been able to find any person or group that has credentials to take them in either.

At this time, and I hope this isn't breaking any rules, I'm trying to ask for help finding resources in the North Western quarter of the United states(think every state west of Montana and north of Arizona) that I could use to find temporary housing for myself and my dogs, similar to a homeless shelter but pet friendly, or a certified group with a good track record that could take and rehome my dogs.

I've had them for 4 years and they mean the world to me. I would die for my dogs and I've gone as far as using Grindr of all places to try to set up some sort of temporary housing because I don't want to put my dogs in a position where I can't care for them and the only options are a shelter where they'll likely be euthanized or with me not being able to work to feed them after a few months.


Sorry for bringing drama into this, but I hope it's at least understandable why I'm looking for resources. Thanks in advance.

Be very wary asking for help here. 'Out of the frying pan' is NOT going to get you out of the fire.

You could try facebook marketplace, tho I'd stay away from Craigs list. Here, you're dangling minnows over a hungry Bass. I'm sure thats going to get people screeching, but a fact is a fact.

The instant you mention aggression, you're eliminating most of the adoptive types here who have dogs or cats, and probably the horse crowd too. You also might try the physical Bulletin Boards in your local grocerias and Feed Stores, if youre in a farmish area. But again....be wary here. Buena Fortuna.

Late edit. If you are a resident of a State, Resources in that State are your best bet. Most States have their own issues with their own residents. You could get lucky out of your own State, but Its not real likely.

 

[shortleash]

hello and welcome....sorry things go badly for you...

 

[Justhere54762]

Be very wary asking for help here. 'Out of the frying pan' is NOT going to get you out of the fire.

You could try facebook marketplace, tho I'd stay away from Craigs list. Here, you're dangling minnows over a hungry Bass. I'm sure thats going to get people screeching, but a fact is a fact.

The instant you mention aggression, you're eliminating most of the adoptive types here who have dogs or cats, and probably the horse crowd too. You also might try the physical Bulletin Boards in your local grocerias and Feed Stores, if youre in a farmish area. But again....be wary here. Buena Fortuna.

Late edit. If you are a resident of a State, Resources in that State are your best bet. Most States have their own issues with their own residents. You could get lucky out of your own State, but Its not real likely.

I understand. I've lived with people with dogs before and had no issues, but I can't just say there won't be any issues when my dogs are just assholes to other animals for no reason. They don't just go up and attack other animals but they are very domineering and seem to see any other dogs as a threat for some reason. I mean it's something that can be trained out of them on an individual basis after a couple months but of course that would involve living with someone that long.

I've tried asking local residents and checking state resources but since my dogs are considered aggressive towards other animals due to them not getting along well with other dogs, anything that's no kill is disqualified. That's including the humane society and ASPCA resources. I trust Facebook marketplace as much as Craigslist myself honestly, it's turned into an equally rotten cesspool. And of course I'm here as a last resort since, like I said, I don't want to leave my dogs with anyone I'm worried will sexually assault them. They were abused abused a lot when I got them. I'm a furry myself, knots are hot and all that, and I do believe smarter animals like dogs and dolphins and the like can consent. But I was trying to stay away from here because I know there's always people who will forcefully have sex with animals and I wouldn't ever risk putting mine through that.


That said I appreciate the suggestions, I came here to find resources for them more than myself so I appreciate it.