Is zoophilia good for me?
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BrotatoChip
Citizen of Zooville
Impossible to say if it's "good" for you. I mean, sexual attraction to humans can be gravely negative if taken to a place where it diminishes the quality of life (Sexual addiction, pornography addiction, sexual self-harm or violence, skewing views of persons of sexual attraction in a negative way, "thinking with your dick", stuff like that). Do you think it's negatively impacted your life in a quantifiable way, or do you see your downfall on the horizon because of it? Also understand there's shades of everything, it's not necessarily going to be black and white good and bad for you, you just have to be looking to chalk more in the win column than losses, ultimately.
BrotatoChip
Citizen of Zooville
Well, don't beat yourself up too badly then, just be careful. Also, don't ignore your negative inklings.
If you feel doubt, work through it and address it early while it's manageable. Ignoring the feelings, even small ones, is not dealing with it, to be clear. Work to reconcile. It is extremely healthy to reach out and express your doubts.
Extremely rich coming from me, but I say this because I know, not because I've done a great job of it.
BrotatoChip
Citizen of Zooville
Extremely loaded question, but uh, I'm not practicing but I think I would like to be. Had the feeling my whole life, never felt sexual attraction to humans. Because I'm not practicing I think I'm almost tempted to say "I'm not a """"""real"""""" zoophile," but I think that's a cop out for myself as the feeling seems EXTREMELY deep rooted within myself.
If you want to read an absolutely psychotic post that goes into excruciating detail, check dis.
Also, I'm very very much dealing with this myself and my perspective is totally different than a bunch of people here. I mean everyone's perspective is unique. I'd strongly recommend reading and listening to as many folks as possible to build your own conclusion.
offgridk9lover2
Citizen of Zooville
Well it isn't bad for you, if you're smart about it any ways!
Other wise you can not fight what you are, best to learn to make peace with it and express in a way that is ethical and tolerable to society.
Worked for me my entire life.
offgridk9lover2
Citizen of Zooville
Albeit not directed at me, I will point out that you are not a zoo if you are "Into zoophilia" it is a state of being.
Being I am zoo, I prefer a life with animals, I have dedicated every thing to make that my natural state of existing.
Either I was very fortunate with the people around me or I am gifted with very strong self reflection skills (Most likely both), but I've known since I was in the single digit age range that I preferred animals, that desire simply got expanded on after a certain life stage and it clicked in what way I was interested, there was never any question or confusion on that.
The life style has its prose and cons like any thing, you just have to learn to find a good balance for what you want and that is serviceable by your living state and work.
BrotatoChip
Citizen of Zooville
This is all really good stuff, and while I can only glean what this person is saying from their inherently biased presentation of themselves (No offense meant, self bias is inescapable and assumed of everyone) I think they come across as someone who's figured it out.
I think the ultimate goal should be to come to terms with yourself in a way where you don't think of yourself as being a thing or being a member of a group, but you think if yourself as yourself first. Put yourself above externally defined identities, even if it's comforting to put yourself inside of one. Doing otherwise may feel like it absolves you of some responsibility or guilt, but it also sacrifices your self-determination to some extent.
So, I am me, and I have zoophilic tendencies or desires. Not I am a zoophile, because then you may unintentionally bring baggage associated with that identity with you.
Zarky
Zooville Settler
I mean you know your true self far better than any of us ever could, but that dose certainly sound promising.
I fought with myself for a long time. I grew up in a hard-core Christian home, and I remember reading in the Bible as a child, that people who lay with animal shall be put to death. I was a kid so I thought that meant that if my family or church congregation found out, they would kill me. I grew up alone and terrified.
Eventually I just accepted it. But it took years of wading through shame and guilt. The more I tried to deny it, the stronger it seemed to get. Honestly what helped a lot was when my childhood friends pitbull grabbed my arm and tried to hump me, and I ended up masturbating him. I wasn't hurt. He wasn't hurt. He was happy. And it just kinda clicked; how could this be an evil thing? Nothing evil just happened, we both had fun and were content. How could this be a bad thing? He loved me just the same as before. He wasn't suddenly scared of me or trying to run away from me. This wasn't any kind of abuse. And so much of that shame just washed away.