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lemonloo

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has anyone else had problems with other users being rude and impatient? I suppose I wasn’t responding fast enough to someone and they lashed out at me for it. I only get online for a few minutes every few hours. I respond to all my messages, but I can’t be constantly online. There was a 4 hour gap between our last response and the dude got mad at me. Sorry? I thought our conversation was pleasant until then. I’ve only been on this site for two days, and I’m still figuring it out. I also have work and I live other people so I can’t be online often. I’d like to talk to other people but I’m a slow replier. And it’s not because I am ignoring you. I am doing my best.

If you feel frustrated that you’re not having a good conversation, please don’t lash out. There might be a reason why someone isn’t responding at your pace.

So far I’ve my experience has been poor. Some people are not very friendly.
 
dogluver101 said:
Sounds similar when it happened to someone else. They just want their porn and just mad you're not giving them what your experience was fast enough in the middle of their jack off.
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I have no experience and they know that! They said I was just another horny weirdo looking for someone to pimp out their dog so I can have a warm sex toy. And I was like “woah dude.” Because we didn’t even talk about anything yet. We hardly got past the “how do you dos” 🙄
 
lemonloo said:
I have no experience and they know that! They said I was just another horny weirdo looking for someone to pimp out their dog so I can have a warm sex toy. And I was like “woah dude.” Because we didn’t even talk about anything yet. We hardly got past the “how do you dos” 🙄
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I feel like those types can fall under the fake person thread, feel free to give him a standing ovation in here https://www.zoovilleforum.net/threads/fake-user-awareness-thread.25246/
 
lemonloo said:
has anyone else had problems with other users being rude and impatient? I suppose I wasn’t responding fast enough to someone and they lashed out at me for it. I only get online for a few minutes every few hours. I respond to all my messages, but I can’t be constantly online. There was a 4 hour gap between our last response and the dude got mad at me. Sorry? I thought our conversation was pleasant until then. I’ve only been on this site for two days, and I’m still figuring it out. I also have work and I live other people so I can’t be online often. I’d like to talk to other people but I’m a slow replier. And it’s not because I am ignoring you. I am doing my best.

If you feel frustrated that you’re not having a good conversation, please don’t lash out. There might be a reason why someone isn’t responding at your pace.

So far I’ve my experience has been poor. Some people are not very friendly.
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that is a horny net troll, you will find a endless mass of them here, beat with a lead pipe till you are satisfied then block them, don't waste time with pud slappers.
 
People really do need to understand that folks have lives outside of this place! Sure dopamine spikes happen and you can feel the “oh that sucks” moment if a chat goes cold. But with that said 99.8% of the people I’ve had a convo with here were all decent in both directions of chatting. Hope your luck changes and like the other posters have said, sometimes you just can’t fix stupid!!!
 
lemonloo said:
has anyone else had problems with other users being rude and impatient?
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Little bit, yeah but I came into this with that expectation.

There's no shortage of impatient or self-serving types of people here. People who think even a few messages somehow magically entitle them to intimacy. Or access. I get asked for knowledge of other zoos in my area (know any females? any couples? got a GF?)

If people are trying that hard to meet others, I feel like they're missing the fucking point of being here entirely. I don't know much about those people but it doesn't take much brain power to figure out I probably wouldn't agree with a lot of what they'd have to say anyway.

There's more to this than appetite. Depth, identity, struggle, connection. If someone doesn't have the patience to hear you out, even with just a few messages, they are not worth your time. Their presence is a filter and only serves to tell you they don't belong in your world.

That leads me to my next point:

lemonloo said:
So far I’ve my experience has been poor. Some people are not very friendly.
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What's your purpose here? I'm here to socialize and connect with others. It's cool to have personal experiences with people. Hell, it's cool to see the bad apples rolling in. It's frustrating at times, but I'm not really here for them. I'm here to find people who think, who feel, who know. That understand this is a part of who they are and not just something they do in the dark.

I love reading the forums - and people sharing the stories, their struggles, their little victories. The lived experience. I'm not in a rush to find any of that.

I can relate to feeling bummed out about some of the shitheads on the site, but I challenge you to be thankful for them. Let me be blunt -- these are people putting themselves in the category of people who don't need to be in your fucking life, dude. That's time saved in my opinion.

Iron sharpens iron. If you're iron, and they're not iron, what the fuck are they doing other than making you dull?
 
Yes. Have had similar happen. Was somewhat my fault because I was on leave from work and extremely active on here so I was giving tons of engagement but I'm back in the "real world" now and have been exceptionally busy. Have barely posted. Some people got pissed or faded away. It is what it is, like others have said some folks are here for a dopamine hit. That can come from wanking or chatting, and some folks get pissy if they don't get their fix. Their problem, move on.
 
lemonloo said:
has anyone else had problems with other users being rude and impatient? I suppose I wasn’t responding fast enough to someone and they lashed out at me for it. I only get online for a few minutes every few hours. I respond to all my messages, but I can’t be constantly online. There was a 4 hour gap between our last response and the dude got mad at me. Sorry? I thought our conversation was pleasant until then. I’ve only been on this site for two days, and I’m still figuring it out. I also have work and I live other people so I can’t be online often. I’d like to talk to other people but I’m a slow replier. And it’s not because I am ignoring you. I am doing my best.

If you feel frustrated that you’re not having a good conversation, please don’t lash out. There might be a reason why someone isn’t responding at your pace.

So far I’ve my experience has been poor. Some people are not very friendly.
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There are a few people on here I think could be more patient understanding. That is for sure! But there are a lot of truly wonderful people here, too! 🥰
 
lemonloo said:
has anyone else had problems with other users being rude and impatient? I suppose I wasn’t responding fast enough to someone and they lashed out at me for it. I only get online for a few minutes every few hours. I respond to all my messages, but I can’t be constantly online. There was a 4 hour gap between our last response and the dude got mad at me. Sorry? I thought our conversation was pleasant until then. I’ve only been on this site for two days, and I’m still figuring it out. I also have work and I live other people so I can’t be online often. I’d like to talk to other people but I’m a slow replier. And it’s not because I am ignoring you. I am doing my best.

If you feel frustrated that you’re not having a good conversation, please don’t lash out. There might be a reason why someone isn’t responding at your pace.

So far I’ve my experience has been poor. Some people are not very friendly.
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ANY asshole who pulls ANY bullshit even remotely similar to that, just save yourself the stress of it all and stop reading as soon as that kind of bullshit starts, set the piece of shit to ignore and immediately end all contact with the asshole.

IF you feel the prick violated a rule or something of that nature, hit the report button on that chat message and report their ass, a report is the ONLY way anyone except you and the said clown can SEE that private message.

NO ONE here owes ANYONE else here a single thing. Fuck these kinds of assholes. If MORE people refused to tolerate shit like that, slit like that wouldn't be so common. It would still happen because assholes are everywhere, but it would be less common.

Honestly, I think people should report EVERY instance, the worst that could happen is the mod says being a fucking asshole isn't against the rules. And, just maybe, more of these clown assholes would just get banned like they deserve.
 
lemonloo said:
has anyone else had problems with other users being rude and impatient? I suppose I wasn’t responding fast enough to someone and they lashed out at me for it. I only get online for a few minutes every few hours. I respond to all my messages, but I can’t be constantly online. There was a 4 hour gap between our last response and the dude got mad at me. Sorry? I thought our conversation was pleasant until then. I’ve only been on this site for two days, and I’m still figuring it out. I also have work and I live other people so I can’t be online often. I’d like to talk to other people but I’m a slow replier. And it’s not because I am ignoring you. I am doing my best.

If you feel frustrated that you’re not having a good conversation, please don’t lash out. There might be a reason why someone isn’t responding at your pace.

So far I’ve my experience has been poor. Some people are not very friendly.
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Hi LL . . .yes we get that sometimes as an owner, usually from the male of a couple, who wants to make a meeting with his GF/wife almost immediately. At that point we block them for a period to see if they cool down, and circle back to see if they are still interested, but on a very structured timeline getting to know them. . . . If not they get blocked permanently.
 
Um... I see the basensnt dweller type there.

People living online with no real life.

Normally people go online, socialize butcalso talk irl with friends, neighbors, go for a walk.... work, even.
So when your online interaction goes low, one shrugs and does something else. Tends the gardes, walks the dog and at some point, you come back to the site. And you'd asume other will do the same.

But, if your life is just online, losing an ongoing communication is like freezing your life, feeling a void....

Sorry people. Online pals are people, but not your closeby neighbor who is there if needed.
Go out more, smell your neighbors coffee greet him good morning... and check the site as you are waiting for the bus to visit some "phisical" friends to watch a movie.

The site and the conversations are safely stored and will be there to check another day (if the site is not acting up, of course 🤣)
 
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