I really don't like being into this

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Giant Hogweed

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Not trying to shit on anyone's pride or whatever. My experience is my own.

I have a great girlfriend. We're so compatible in so many ways. I just love them so much.

They know I'm into zoo stuff, and they're accepting of it, for which I'm very thankful. However, she's not really. She was kind entertaining the idea of trying it for me for a bit, but it was always for me. In the end, after a lot of failed efforts to find a dog, she comes up and says "hey, this just seems really risky, I don't think I wanna do it."

Of course I don't pressure her. That's that. End of discussion.

For me, zoophilia/bestiality/whatever is a true fetish. It's the most erotic thing to me, and that makes my partner feel inadequate. She's okay with me watching porn, but I know it makes her feel bad because she thinks she can never be as hot to me as watching someone get railed by a dog, and honestly she's right, so I'm trying to wind it down.

I feel like all I get for being a zoo is damage to an otherwise amazing relationship, and the prospect that I will never know "peak sexual fulfilment". I'll always be leaving a significant portion of my sexual self behind in order to make everything else work.

It sucks, I hate this. I wish I could change.
 
Exactly what I’m in… I told my wife about this years ago. She tried to be open minded but just couldn’t get over the legality portion of it. I’ve been hiding ZV for years, and still watch porn but she doesn’t know … I’m always open minded with her kinks and fetishes, but don’t think I’ll ever get the true satisfaction of what I want to do. It sucks… I love her, and I want to stay with her more than anything, but I don’t think I’ll ever shake the desire of this
 
Same i have a hard enough holding a relationship with a female I can't even bring this up I thought a house a truck and a 6 figure income would change anything but it doesn't and the girls actually into animals don't care about men dick or its just my brain agiann so it's a lose lose at least u can talk to her about it!
 
Not sure if non-monogamy is an option, but even zoo aside, most people will find -something- lacking in an otherwise good and healthy relationship. Disney sells us the idea of "perfect matches" but the reality is that most folks are wired to find more than their current partner attractive.

If your partner is open-minded enough to stay with you while you're into zoo, they might be OK with you finding a person willing to indulge in that with you. Of course, finding -that- person might be difficult... But presented the right way, your current partner might be able to appreciate the mindset that you get most/all of your other needs met with them, and allow you to get this one thing you like out of your system elsewhere.
 
I’m seeing a few ppl agreeing but I don’t understand the angles do you guys mean you want to convert your gf or wife to beasts to watch them get pounded? Or wishing you could be a chick to get fucked yourself? But either way I understand, it’s extremely difficult to fight. Especially the naturalness of it.
 
She's right. It is really risky, "trying to find a dog", and it's not really zoophile behavior either.

It sorta sounds like you have bestiality as a fetish, not zoophilia. That might be good for you, since zoophilia as a sexuality will always gnaw at you if you try to avoid it, but a bestiality fetish won't. Stop consuming beast porn and the urges will probably die down over time.
 
ashy said:
She's right. It is really risky, "trying to find a dog", and it's not really zoophile behavior either.

It sorta sounds like you have bestiality as a fetish, not zoophilia. That might be good for you, since zoophilia as a sexuality will always gnaw at you if you try to avoid it, but a bestiality fetish won't. Stop consuming beast porn and the urges will probably die down over time.
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That hasn't been my experience. When I was in my early 20s I stopped for almost 2 years and it became an all consuming need that I had to fight on a daily basis. It didn't help at all.
 
I think a lot of people struggle with something similar, where your kink is not shared with your significant other it would be nice of course but it just isn't how things are with taboos such as this. Given you are happy in your relation otherwise, the best thing that comes to mind is to just deal with this life-challenge as best as you can. Maybe your s.o can give you more space to explore that side as long as you are open and honest about it?
 
I'm in a similar situation, what has been able to satiate my fetish for this kind of stuff are bad dragon dildos during sex. Not that we get the chance to play with these things on a regular basis but the few times I get to do her in the ass while riding a medium chance makes for some very satisfying experiences.
 
For the true zoo, once you try it, you cant go back. I will forever be "single" cause i finally tried dog pussy and now im addicted.
 
Hawk Moth said:
Not sure if non-monogamy is an option, but even zoo aside, most people will find -something- lacking in an otherwise good and healthy relationship. Disney sells us the idea of "perfect matches" but the reality is that most folks are wired to find more than their current partner attractive.

If your partner is open-minded enough to stay with you while you're into zoo, they might be OK with you finding a person willing to indulge in that with you. Of course, finding -that- person might be difficult... But presented the right way, your current partner might be able to appreciate the mindset that you get most/all of your other needs met with them, and allow you to get this one thing you like out of your system elsewhere.
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Non monogamy is an option. It's something we've expolored actually (partner likes pegging, I do not like to be pegged, they have seen people for pegging) but I don't see it as a realistic option.

I'm one of a zillion guys on a forum like Zooville, competing for the attention of a small number of extremely in demand women. I can offer neither fabulous wealth nor an Adonis like body. What chance would I actually have?
 
Giant Hogweed said:
Non monogamy is an option. It's something we've expolored actually (partner likes pegging, I do not like to be pegged, they have seen people for pegging) but I don't see it as a realistic option.

I'm one of a zillion guys on a forum like Zooville, competing for the attention of a small number of extremely in demand women. I can offer neither fabulous wealth nor an Adonis like body. What chance would I actually have?
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This implies that you're finding the woman here. Not every woman into zoo is on this forum, I myself have been into zoo for over well over a decade before coming here myself. There's a chance you might be able to find one out in the wild.

It won't be an easy search of course, but I'm sure somewhere someone near you likes her some dog dick and would love knowing she's got a guy she can explore that with.
 
Hawk Moth said:
This implies that you're finding the woman here. Not every woman into zoo is on this forum, I myself have been into zoo for over well over a decade before coming here myself. There's a chance you might be able to find one out in the wild.

It won't be an easy search of course, but I'm sure somewhere someone near you likes her some dog dick and would love knowing she's got a guy she can explore that with.
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I appreciate the effort but uh, I don't hold out a lot of hope here.
 
I wonder what percentage of females would actually let a dog or horse fuck them. Whatever that percentage is, it would be a percentage of the percentage of females who want a male. So, whatever chance a male has to match with a bestiality female should be those two percentages multiplied. For example, if 50% of females want me and 50% of females will fuck dogs and horses, then possibly I will have to choose from 25% of females around me if nothing else is considered, right? The question is, how does one locate or determine which females will fuck dogs and horses?
 
Of all my girlfriends over the years, only two were interested in bestiality, and those relationships unfortunately didn't last long. I've had a few near misses other than that. So finding someone compatible has turned out to be a real pain in the ass. If I could choose what turns me on, I'd be done with it.
 
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