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How do I feel okay about myself again

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justadude2

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Hello everyone, I’m unsure of how exactly to move forward with my current situation. as I’ve recently found out, I am in fact a zoosexual and I am roughly equal parts attracted to humans and animals alike. I used to love it about myself, I embraced it fully, I love the spirits of animals and humans fully and view both as their own autonomous beings. Sometimes I fall madly in love with people and want to be their lovers, sometimes I fall madly in love with animals and wish to be their companions and for them to see me as their equal. Sometimes I’ve fallen in love with other zoos like myself and we share our viewpoints. When I’m dating people I find my sexuality shifts over to them and I don’t really think about my other side, the same thing happens when I fall for animals. I’ve recently gotten out of a long time relationship and during then I had pretty much forgotten about my zoosexuality altogether until now. I’m incredibly depressed and can’t stop having mixed fantasies about people, animals, or both. Am I alone in my sexual orientation? I feel helpless, like a weirdo, like my feelings are all wrong, and I want that to be different, I feel like I can make it because at the very least I’m not zoo exclusive, but I really don’t want to move forward with internal hate and shame motivating me to love a human because that would be disingenuous and would eat me away on the inside.
 
Hard to give a good advice on that. Because I hussled with the same issue. For me it's too late I can't forget the zoosexuality anymore no matter what. I hide it so far.

What I recognized by myself is ... with time past through ... I began to accept it and feeling not kinda guilty anymore. Like "ey I can't do anything against it ... it's me & what I like" So one "solution" is time and to accept it fully.

The other solution COULD BE to visit a good therapists. Who tells you how to deal better with the situation and be mindful of yourself.
 
justadude2 said:
Hello everyone, I’m unsure of how exactly to move forward with my current situation. as I’ve recently found out, I am in fact a zoosexual and I am roughly equal parts attracted to humans and animals alike. I used to love it about myself, I embraced it fully, I love the spirits of animals and humans fully and view both as their own autonomous beings. Sometimes I fall madly in love with people and want to be their lovers, sometimes I fall madly in love with animals and wish to be their companions and for them to see me as their equal. Sometimes I’ve fallen in love with other zoos like myself and we share our viewpoints. When I’m dating people I find my sexuality shifts over to them and I don’t really think about my other side, the same thing happens when I fall for animals. I’ve recently gotten out of a long time relationship and during then I had pretty much forgotten about my zoosexuality altogether until now. I’m incredibly depressed and can’t stop having mixed fantasies about people, animals, or both. Am I alone in my sexual orientation? I feel helpless, like a weirdo, like my feelings are all wrong, and I want that to be different, I feel like I can make it because at the very least I’m not zoo exclusive, but I really don’t want to move forward with internal hate and shame motivating me to love a human because that would be disingenuous and would eat me away on the inside.
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Hello, just came across this post and wanted to respond. I've identified personally as zoosexual since my early 20's. I am equally attracted to men and male dogs. I am now in my late 30's and still happily identify this way. I even have a small tight group of friends in real life who know about me and I am always exploring the zoo community to make more zoo friends. I am sorry you are experiencing shame over this. you shouldnt. there are many of us out here just like you. I hope you be kind to yourself and just keep engaging here with community members. It may help relieve those feelings.
 
Foxgoblin85 said:
Hello, just came across this post and wanted to respond. I've identified personally as zoosexual since my early 20's. I am equally attracted to men and male dogs. I am now in my late 30's and still happily identify this way. I even have a small tight group of friends in real life who know about me and I am always exploring the zoo community to make more zoo friends. I am sorry you are experiencing shame over this. you shouldnt. there are many of us out here just like you. I hope you be kind to yourself and just keep engaging here with community members. It may help relieve those feelings.
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Well thank god I’m not alone, I’ve always flip flopped between finding animals extremely attractive and being grossed out by people to being exclusively attracted to people and thinking animals were gross. I don’t know why this happens, but it does, so I suppose I’d just say that yeah I am attracted to both equally.

If you don’t mind I do have a few questions for you, romantically do you feel the need to have animals to be fulfilled? Because I never felt one way or the other, so long as I’m sexually satisfied and there’s actual love and trust between us. And compared to your attraction to animals how strong is your attraction to humans, how do you know you’re attracted to them? Do you get the same spark from them as animals? (I ask not because I doubt you but because these are all questions I’m asking myself)
 
When I accepted my zoosexuality, I became zoo-exclusive, mostly because that realization led me to question, and eventually realize that humans were me trying to be normal. Nothing I felt for them was real.

Many zoo's are attracted to both. There is a line you'll walk, for your own safety, unless you get lucky with a zoo partner, but then they must also align with your zoo-morals.

For me a zoo partner would be more of a RM that can deal with and tolerate my nudist nature, and be able to handle walking in to me balls deep in my girl, or with my boy filling my throat. But that person must also have their own mates, separate from mine, as I don't believe in sharing.

It sounds to me like you walk the line, and you need to come to a realization of which makes you, ultimately, happier. Then go from there
 
I recently replied to another thread like this. It'll be alright. It'll take time, and some feelings come and go, but pay attention to the ones that stay. I've struggled with my zoo feelings most of my life, and me being attracted to stallions never went away. Once I realized that my zoo feelings weren't going away, I knew that I'd eventually have to accept it.

If you're struggling with your feelings, you're not the only one and there are plenty of people who are kind and want to talk to you about it here. Give it some time, talk with people, hear stories, and the more you interact with the community, the easier it'll be to sort those feelings out.
 
justadude2 said:
Am I alone in my sexual orientation? I feel helpless, like a weirdo, like my feelings are all wrong, and I want that to be different, I feel like I can make it because at the very least I’m not zoo exclusive
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Hey what's wrong with being exclusive? Ive went decades having only animal partners! You shouldn't feel helpless. Your not weird! Your feelings are valid! It's not wrong that you have an attraction to both. you cant help who your attracted to, when the feelings happen! Depression after a break up is completely normal as well. I hope your feeling better now :gsd_happysmile:
 
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