How do I come out as a zoo?
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Protogenzoo
Tourist
I don’t plan on doing it for a while need to know what she thinks first
Protogenzoo
Tourist
I made this post for advice and ideas on how to go about it if I even should not for someone to be rude to me
Protogenzoo
Tourist
I might not even tell her but I’d rather have the advice than not
Uma Oshichi
Zooville Settler
although just because you are sober dose that mean she has to be too…? just stay safe, and maybe emphasise that zoo isn't just about sex as she might get the wrong idea since she knows you are into feral which tends to be more about the bestiality aspect.
Protogenzoo
Tourist
I’ve told her how my interest in ferals came about so she understands that it comes from affection and not sexual desire
although just because you are sober dose that mean she has to be too…? just stay safe, and maybe emphasise that zoo isn't just about sex as she might get the wrong idea since she knows you are into feral which tends to be more about the bestiality aspect.
Bloit
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
You're asking for advice on how to do something that's OBJECTIVELY DANGEROUS, and you're unwilling to listen to people who tell you it's DANGEROUS.
DO NOT ASK HER. DO NOT TELL HER. It's not worth it.
Bloit
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
although just because you are sober dose that mean she has to be too…? just stay safe, and maybe emphasise that zoo isn't just about sex as she might get the wrong idea since she knows you are into feral which tends to be more about the bestiality aspect.
Don't encourage him -.-
Protogenzoo
Tourist
Well I took the gamble with telling my bf and it worked out so who knows I’d rather not risk the coin toss but if I even decide to I’d rather know the best way of going about it
Uma Oshichi
Zooville Settler
if you could casually find some way to watch that SouthPark episode where they play with a dog, (I think its called Red Rocked) that might elisit conversation
Bloit
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
DON'T.
There is no "Best" way.
There is no "Safe" option.
It's not that difficult.
It's like asking if you should tell your buddy, who happens to be a cop, that you enjoy the occasional assault or robbery.
Sure, they may be your friend, they may act indifferent, but it's a STUPID idea to tell them.
Why are you encouraging this dude who clearly doesn't have the experience to deal with that?!
Goattobeloved
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
What have I done?!
Me and partner... 14 years and a family. Always hid myself I told her in early hours. My lifes gone! Oh fuck why did I say anything!!! What do i do now :( Someone turn the lights out
www.zoovilleforum.net
Sit down, read it, let it settle.
...everyone saying "go for it" too
Uma Oshichi
Zooville Settler
Don't shut the stable one the colt has bolt. If anything I was leading a horse to water not making him sink
Bloit
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
And make sure to read ALL of OP's posts there, @Protogenzoo.What have I done?!
Me and partner... 14 years and a family. Always hid myself I told her in early hours. My lifes gone! Oh fuck why did I say anything!!! What do i do now :( Someone turn the lights out
Sit down, read it, let it settle.
...everyone saying "go for it" too
Page 2 is extremely significant.
Bloit
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
You're encouraging someone to out himself. The water you're leading the horse to is infested with crocodiles, sharks, piranhas, and laced with cyanide.
Falltrash
Tourist
As others have already told you, it's not recommended to out yourself like that. I have few very close friends and we've promised to always have our backs but I wouldn't tell them about these things. They probably wouldn't report me or anything like that, and at least one wouldn't probably abandon me, but still. I don't want to lose everything we have because things would become very awkward between us if I told them.
It's better to keep quiet. And maybe try and become friends with someone from here, then you'd have a friend who you can be open with (though it's a slow process to make friends, you have to be cautious and patient)
It's better to keep quiet. And maybe try and become friends with someone from here, then you'd have a friend who you can be open with (though it's a slow process to make friends, you have to be cautious and patient)
Uma Oshichi
Zooville Settler
fair, maybe its just because I am lucky and it worked out for me that I am too willing to believe that others are willing to see love and whats in his heart.
@Protogenzoo Stay safe, whatever you decide to do make sure you first figure out how she feels about zoo before
Protogenzoo
Tourist
Why are you so concerned about me telling a friend I’m a zoo you seem like you don’t even like me
Bloit
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
There's no secure, safe way to do so.
Unless you actually see her getting railed by a dog.
Bloit
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
How does that;
Lead to this conclusion?!
I'm telling you not to do something INCREDIBLY STUPID, because it's INCREDIBLY STUPID.
That has nothing to do with me liking or disliking you.
That's me trying to protect you from yourself.
Goattobeloved
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
Problem is people change.
EVEN if you are sure someone is open to it, and all looks good, then if they repent, change their mind or, just simply fight each other for whatever reason and want to hurt you... They got you grabbed by the balls.
So basically. ONLY if what you expect to gain in return is worth the risk to your life and future PLUS the possible damage you can bestow on the other person as he/she learns about that.
EVEN if you are sure someone is open to it, and all looks good, then if they repent, change their mind or, just simply fight each other for whatever reason and want to hurt you... They got you grabbed by the balls.
So basically. ONLY if what you expect to gain in return is worth the risk to your life and future PLUS the possible damage you can bestow on the other person as he/she learns about that.
Protogenzoo
Tourist
Again why do you care what I do?
Bloit
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
Basic human empathy?
You're asking for advice on this forum. I'm giving you advice.
You may not like my advice, that's up to you.
I don't get why you're so insulted?
I'm telling you not to stick your hand in the fire.
I'm telling you not to step into traffic.
I'm telling you not to eat those poisonous berries, just to see what happens.
What you're asking for advice on, is on the same level of stupidity/danger.
If you're gonna do it anyway, don't come back here crying about how it all went wrong.
OutFarming
Citizen of Zooville
Not even liking someone doesn't mean you want them to have their life turned inside out.
The only reason to even consider trying to figure out if someone is into zoo or at least tolerant is if you are intimate with them. Outside of that it's all downside with no upside. Even if you are intimate it's still probably not worth the risk.
You may get the impression that because there are a lot of people on this forum zoophilia is common, it's not, or not that socially reviled, it is. To most people wanting to fuck or be fucked by an animal is at the same level as pedophilia.
Do not fuck up your life.
nekdoneco123
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
>asks for safe ways of doing something dumb. (there are no safe ways).
>doesn't listen at all.
>somehow pulls the victim card too.
i think it's not just social cues you have troubles with.
>doesn't listen at all.
>somehow pulls the victim card too.
i think it's not just social cues you have troubles with.
Operationhusky
Lurker
Validation, however unimportant in life, Never worth the risk of losing it, Even if someone tells someone trusted, they can use that as control in future conflicts, Remaining in the shadows is for all reasons the best choice, Secrecy holds true power.