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How do I come out as a zoo?

Protogenzoo

Protogenzoo

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I have a friend who I trust and I wanna come out as a zoo to her she’s a very understanding person but I’m worried she won’t understand this and I don’t want to lose her as a friend but I also want her to know I’m a zoo she knows I’m really into ferals but not that I’m a zoo
 
lell said:
I really really really don't recommend telling anyone. It is not worth the risk.
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It’s a closed off friend circle so there’s not many people she can tell but she’s also a pretty open minded person so I’ve been weighing the odds for a few days now
 
There are some things you don't gamble, no matter the odds. Like the lives of children, or the chances of blowing up the entire earth, and of course outing yourself as a dog fucker.

And if you're on the Internet she can tell more people than just your circle. Open minded or not, zoophilia is a line for most people.
 
She understands my interest in ferals comes from trauma and I was hoping she would be understanding of this but that’s just wishful thinking
 
I remember being that age and thinking it was something I needed to do. You already came out to your boyfriend so it's not just your own life you'd be messing with. She doesn't need to have that on her mind. We often forget how our issues can effect others. You really never know how someone if going to feel about the morality of it. To us zoo's it's second nature. But a normie... she has her own friends she might feel compelled to talk to about it.

Plus you just never really know if you're even going to know this person forever. What happens when you guys drift apart 4,5,6 years from now. Or she picks up drinking.

As you get older you'll understand the less people know the better for not just you , but everyone else with you , including whatever animals are in your life. People can always wonder on their own about the two gays at the end of the street with a pack of horny dogs , but don't advertise it.
 
Protogenzoo said:
It’s a closed off friend circle so there’s not many people she can tell but she’s also a pretty open minded person so I’ve been weighing the odds for a few days now
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if it's actually what you truly wish. Say you have this other friend online , who's really into dogs... like actually , and it made you kinda question it. Don't admit anything, put some distance between you and this . That's how you gauge a reaction without blowing your cover. Honestly even if she says yay or nay , I'd still never admit it to her for the previous mentioned concerns.
 
Protogenzoo said:
It’s a closed off friend circle so there’s not many people she can tell but she’s also a pretty open minded person so I’ve been weighing the odds for a few days now
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That's a dangerous way of thinking. She could tell anybody that takes the time to listen.

Besides, it may be a small group of friends, but those friends have other friends/family they talk to, and it just keeps going through connected groups until everyone knows about it.

Rumors/secrets spread like illnesses. Don't risk it.
 
Protogenzoo said:
I have a friend who I trust and I wanna come out as a zoo to her she’s a very understanding person but I’m worried she won’t understand this and I don’t want to lose her as a friend but I also want her to know I’m a zoo she knows I’m really into ferals but not that I’m a zoo
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Only come out to a person after you know they’re into it
 
Protogenzoo said:
Yeah it was a stupid idea just wanted to know other zoos thoughts on it
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If you do it, give us an update! Stay safe! I've also been thinking of the safest way to meet zoo's irl and I've come to the conclusion that Furry meetups with alcohol involved are probably the best bet. You kinda get some anonymity with the mask and people may be more willing to be open if they also get to hide behind the mask.
 
VEnjine said:
If you do it, give us an update! Stay safe! I've also been thinking of the safest way to meet zoo's irl and I've come to the conclusion that Furry meetups with alcohol involved are probably the best bet. You kinda get some anonymity with the mask and people may be more willing to be open if they also get to hide behind the mask.
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I’m sober now so alcohol is unfortunately out of the question
 
Sumpup said:
if it's actually what you truly wish. Say you have this other friend online , who's really into dogs... like actually , and it made you kinda question it. Don't admit anything, put some distance between you and this . That's how you gauge a reaction without blowing your cover. Honestly even if she says yay or nay , I'd still never admit it to her for the previous mentioned concerns.
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That’s actually a really good idea
 
Protogenzoo said:
I have a friend who I trust and I wanna come out as a zoo to her she’s a very understanding person but I’m worried she won’t understand this and I don’t want to lose her as a friend but I also want her to know I’m a zoo she knows I’m really into ferals but not that I’m a zoo
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Keep it a secret 🤫
 
Outing can be like smoldering fire. You may not control it or put it out and if theres oxygen it can burst into an open flame. It is a huge difference if a person just assumes something versus knowing it for sure. Do not expect that people will make the connection to zoo by themself, the only thing that might protect you is the bonding to that person and if they don't share the feelings they can only accept but never understand. It took me over two decades to tell it to one of my buddies when I was sure he wont scold me for that AND it was a benefit for him in a way finally understanding my behaviour over the years since I'm exclusive. He really valuated the trust but didn't ask any further, so I didn't tell him any details.
 
VEnjine said:
Furry meetups with alcohol involved are probably the best bet.
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That’s an incredibly stupid idea!

Furries will RUIN you if the wrong person gets a hint you might be zoo. Anonimity behind a mask? Those bespoke, one-of-a-kind heads that are unique and very identifyable? Lol no.

Don’t be a fucking idiot and DON’T TELL ANYONE.
 
Protogenzoo said:
That’s actually a really good idea
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No, it’s not.
“Asking for a friend” is the oldest lie on the internet, and looking at your activity on here, you certainly don’t have the communicative subtlety required to come close to pulling that off.
 
Bloit said:
No, it’s not.
“Asking for a friend” is the oldest lie on the internet, and looking at your activity on here, you certainly don’t have the communicative subtlety required to come close to pulling that off.
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I’m autistic I have trouble putting my thoughts into words she knows this
 
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