Hey All! Thedman aka “Jay” from North Seattle Wa

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TheDMan

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Hey everyone! So glad I found this community of people into the same thing as I am. Been looking for a place like this for over 15years! I’m 35 years old and have been into watching Females being mounted and knotted since I was 15yo. I’ve always fantasized about watching in person but have never had the chance. I’ve been happily married to my wife of 16years, and we have always been open about trying new things in the bedroom. Our intimate bedroom life has never dwindled. Over the last week, I mustered up the courage after 15years to tell my wife about this fantasy. She was very great full that I was able to trust her enough to tell her something so private and personal. I have always trusted my wife, but it’s not something you just tell someone when you meet them or your buddies. So after I had told her this, she is still supportive of what I’m into but she has told me that it’s a no from her as far as trying. This really bummed me out, because she’s always been pretty open to things in the bedroom, and I plan on spending the rest of my life with her and knowing I will never be able to experience this really kind of breaks my heart. Has anyone ever been in a similar situation before? I’m wondering if there may be a way to convince her. Maybe watching some videos that aren’t to crazy to maybe get her turned on to the idea. Honestly I believe she may be afraid that she’s going to like it, but I may be speculating. Is it easier to be a man and convince or tell a wife/girlfriend or easier to be a woman and convince or tell a husband/boyfriend? Any advise or tips would be much appreciated, sorry this introduction was so long. Thanks for being here!
 
Welcome to the site. You should post your question in the general discussion area and not the introductions. Good luck with it.
 
If you get resistance to the idea, male OR female, and its someone you care that much about...drop it. This particular taboo is way farther out there than it appears if you wander around this joint. In the Mundane World, vanilla sex is still the reality most of them want. A little porn on the tube to feed fantasies, like Girl, Girl, Boy, or vv, Anal sex is often as far as that crowd will go. If you, personally, are simply a watcher, you can continue to feed that as you always have. Asking her to do this just to fulfill your fantasy isnt really fair. Why risk your relationship over it?
 
saddlebum66 said:
If you get resistance to the idea, male OR female, and its someone you care that much about...drop it. This particular taboo is way farther out there than it appears if you wander around this joint. In the Mundane World, vanilla sex is still the reality most of them want. A little porn on the tube to feed fantasies, like Girl, Girl, Boy, or vv, Anal sex is often as far as that crowd will go. If you, personally, are simply a watcher, you can continue to feed that as you always have. Asking her to do this just to fulfill your fantasy isnt really fair. Why risk your relationship over it?
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Thank you for the advice! I appreciate it.
 
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