Help with new male!
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pompompompom
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He's young, just start by letting him lick you to see if he's already interested in sex or not. As he's shy, try to cuddle and play with him first
SigmaTheZeta
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
@knottie69
Lots of play. I am going to level with you: the primary enjoyment that you ever get out of your dog will be squeaky-clean play. He might eventually fuck you, and you will inevitably enjoy it. Focus on play, though. Challenge him mentally. Prove to him that he can learn new tricks, even as an adult. Keep him feeling refreshed and young. In my experience, the more you challenge their minds, the more diverse their facial expressions are going to be.
Get him lots of exercise. Walk or jog at his pace. Prove to him that you can keep up, or if you cannot, then this is a great opportunity to get fit. To dogs, going out on a walk together is a really good date that sometimes ends in some really good sex. You probably don't kiss on the first date, and neither do all dogs. What I think really distinguishes us zoos from non-zoos is that we are not afraid to let our dogs sometimes set the pace. Good pet-parenting is not really about "being alpha," but it's about trust and respect. Your dog should respect your property, but so should a roommate. This does not mean that you become your roommate's owner when you tell her that flushing her tampons is going to clog the pipes. You tell her that because the pipes are old cast iron pieces of crap. It's not her fault, but somebody has to tell her. That does not make you her master. It makes you a good companion for having the spine to point out common sense to her. You will not lose the dog's respect by letting him set the pace or letting him decide sometimes where to go, and you are not being his master by letting him know he has gone too far. Running with him when he wants to run is good for him, and it's good for you, just not across eight lanes of heavy traffic.
Frankly, I enjoy dancing with dogs, and they enjoy dancing with me. I honestly like bass-heavy Colombian club music best when dancing with dogs. Trust me: I love some good spiritually deep and lyrically sophisticated folk music, but it's not as good for getting dogs to dance as music that is designed for getting people to dance. Even if you don't always like club music, it is expertly designed for getting people to get up and shake their butts, and my opinion is that the Colombian scene is the aural equivalent of cocaine. That is what works for me. You pick what works for you. The way that really good club music can make a dog's ass move is simply amazing. Make it a challenge to entice him to dance with you. It is amazing to see how a dog can move when he gets into it.
I encourage you to not focus on the actual sex act as the goal. Make sex the inevitable and inescapable consequence of being adorable enough to impress a dog. When you do impress him enough, he'll want sex for his own satisfaction because he is a horny male, but that is the real victory. Getting boned is just the clean-up. If you make it about the sex, it really turns out to be empty and tepid, and you will feel like someone off a badly made porn video of the kind where tacky misogynistic men whine about its perceived defects in the comments. If you put love first, it's more like the love scene off Titanic: it wasn't the entree or even the dessert, but it constitutes a serviceable after-dinner mint. You might get a little head-rush as the menthol hits your sinuses, but you wouldn't really want it that much without the concomitant meal.
Lots of play. I am going to level with you: the primary enjoyment that you ever get out of your dog will be squeaky-clean play. He might eventually fuck you, and you will inevitably enjoy it. Focus on play, though. Challenge him mentally. Prove to him that he can learn new tricks, even as an adult. Keep him feeling refreshed and young. In my experience, the more you challenge their minds, the more diverse their facial expressions are going to be.
Get him lots of exercise. Walk or jog at his pace. Prove to him that you can keep up, or if you cannot, then this is a great opportunity to get fit. To dogs, going out on a walk together is a really good date that sometimes ends in some really good sex. You probably don't kiss on the first date, and neither do all dogs. What I think really distinguishes us zoos from non-zoos is that we are not afraid to let our dogs sometimes set the pace. Good pet-parenting is not really about "being alpha," but it's about trust and respect. Your dog should respect your property, but so should a roommate. This does not mean that you become your roommate's owner when you tell her that flushing her tampons is going to clog the pipes. You tell her that because the pipes are old cast iron pieces of crap. It's not her fault, but somebody has to tell her. That does not make you her master. It makes you a good companion for having the spine to point out common sense to her. You will not lose the dog's respect by letting him set the pace or letting him decide sometimes where to go, and you are not being his master by letting him know he has gone too far. Running with him when he wants to run is good for him, and it's good for you, just not across eight lanes of heavy traffic.
Frankly, I enjoy dancing with dogs, and they enjoy dancing with me. I honestly like bass-heavy Colombian club music best when dancing with dogs. Trust me: I love some good spiritually deep and lyrically sophisticated folk music, but it's not as good for getting dogs to dance as music that is designed for getting people to dance. Even if you don't always like club music, it is expertly designed for getting people to get up and shake their butts, and my opinion is that the Colombian scene is the aural equivalent of cocaine. That is what works for me. You pick what works for you. The way that really good club music can make a dog's ass move is simply amazing. Make it a challenge to entice him to dance with you. It is amazing to see how a dog can move when he gets into it.
I encourage you to not focus on the actual sex act as the goal. Make sex the inevitable and inescapable consequence of being adorable enough to impress a dog. When you do impress him enough, he'll want sex for his own satisfaction because he is a horny male, but that is the real victory. Getting boned is just the clean-up. If you make it about the sex, it really turns out to be empty and tepid, and you will feel like someone off a badly made porn video of the kind where tacky misogynistic men whine about its perceived defects in the comments. If you put love first, it's more like the love scene off Titanic: it wasn't the entree or even the dessert, but it constitutes a serviceable after-dinner mint. You might get a little head-rush as the menthol hits your sinuses, but you wouldn't really want it that much without the concomitant meal.
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knottie69
Tourist
Thank you so much for the advice!
Bluephoenyx
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
Patience, start by gaining his trust, this way he'll show less shyness, the shyness can work bad with sex, making him to not being in the mood or sometimes feeling low. You gotta keep him active, make him a happy dog first, make him to enjoy being close to you, to love snuggling, your petting, also he must be used to both of you being able to access the other's body without a shame. Dogs are pretty much respectful at first if they don't know that it's okay to do certain stuff or if they feel shy/don't get enough trust. You must "break" that wall of shyness so the dog will be your companion, he'll respect you and also love you lots.
Once you get this, and you see him wagging his tail happy, and that he enjoys spending time with you, and mostly, that he doesn't show any signs of feeling uncomfortable with you touching his whole body (with no sexual attempts). Once you get all of this, plus his health is nice and his mood is proper, you could do it. Even if he isn't two years old, he'd be interested in sex, but you gotta show him 4 vital points:
1- That you'll not hurt you if you touch his genitals or whole body
2- That he'll enjoy your company and you'll always try to make him feel happy and nice
3- That he'll feel nice if you touch down there (i'd suggest doing this first before licking as he's actually shy, which maybe would lead to an awkward situation to him), you should try to get this by playing with him normally as everyone play with a dog, and ocassionally touch him down there and jerk him a bit (once he's used to play with you), he'll move his hips ocassionally, but do not rush, after playing this some more times (stroking a bit and leaving, stroking and leaving and that) he'll figure out that he can feel good. You can then relate that feeling with your own scent, you can rub yourself a bit then giving your hand to him to sniff/lick if he feels comfortable, and start slow from that
4- That you're a member of his pack, which can take the role as a "bitch", this means he'll see you as a member he can have sex with actively
(These points also apply to female dogs, but think reversal)
I guess after all this, you'll have a good way ahead of pretty much sex, knottings, and licks.
Good luck and i hope to read more from you !
pd: you can pm me if you want more advice or well just chat, i'm here mostly chilling and making friends.
one4u2knot
Tourist
You've received some very good advice so not going to repeat it again...lol Ive got 2 boxers and have had 5 Ive trained so far. Love to chat feel free to pm me if have questions
LondonDomK9
Zooville Settler
As per this statement excellent advice given here and nothing more to add that has not already been said above....just hope you have a great time together and you both get so much enjoyment from each other
