Gay men who are in relationships?

[daltonjack]

Question for gay men, are you in a relationship with a human male but also still having sex with male k9? And if so have to hide it?

 

[pes]

You would do it the same way a hetero does.
You do it when you are alone and know your partner is not coming back soon.

 

[daltonjack]

Thanks. Yes for sure. Just wanted to see if there was anyone one on here with the same experience, I feel like I never see any gay men in the same boat. I know Im not the only one, just was curious from others same experiences.

 

[HorsePounder]

i wonder if that would be considered cheating or not?

 

[daltonjack]

i wonder if that would be considered cheating or not?

Also a question I was wondering about. I have had mixed feelings at certain times about it

 

[t4tkins]

Also a question I was wondering about. I have had mixed feelings at certain times about it

Definitely depends, your partner would be the one to define cheating in this case. Also: are you starving your partner sexually in preference for the animal? Or are you dividing your attention to them both equally?

 

[daltonjack]

Definitely depends, your partner would be the one to define cheating in this case. Also: are you starving your partner sexually in preference for the animal? Or are you dividing your attention to them both equally?

I would say its divided in a way. Without going into too much detail, overall yes.

 

[Cliff_W_Lab]

i wonder if that would be considered cheating or not?

Cheating is what you and your partner think is ok and acceptable between you two not what others might think. But animal sex is a hard subject to bring up let alone talk about. So I can see why someone has to hide it and hope for the best.

 

[HorsePounder]

Cheating is what you and your partner think is ok and acceptable between you two not what others might think. But animal sex is a hard subject to bring up let alone talk about. So I can see why someone has to hide it and hope for the best.

i see, i just figured since animals can be our partners that it would be on the same level as cheating on your other partner lol

 

[Farsightdog]

Question for gay men, are you in a relationship with a human male but also still having sex with male k9? And if so have to hide it?

10 years and going strong. We are both zoo. Im more zoo exclusive and he has always understood. So we have boundaries in our relationship and communicate if he wants to play with someone else.

 

[Cliff_W_Lab]

i see, i just figured since animals can be our partners that it would be on the same level as cheating on your other partner lol

I got what you thought just saying everyone is different and some people have open relationships. And yes, I do not consider sex with animals to be cheating but I understand if you do. I do consider sex with other people to be cheating though.