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Do you like Crossdressers or no?

I actually think it's cool when people break gender norms (Clothes, profession, hobbies, home...) as long as they don't mislead people e.g. crossdressing man saying they are a cisgender woman. I like the fancy accessories and the delicate shade of blue in your outfit. 👍What do you think about women who cross-dress as men? (I know it's rarer but not nonexistent.)
 
Ugly-Bitch-Outi said:
I actually think it's cool when people break gender norms (Clothes, profession, hobbies, home...) as long as they don't mislead people e.g. crossdressing man saying they are a cisgender woman. I like the fancy accessories and the delicate shade of blue in your outfit. 👍What do you think about women who cross-dress as men? (I know it's rarer but not nonexistent.)
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I agree with that as I would never mislead anyone, I’m upfront with what I want lol. Thank you and a woman who does that is awesome, do your own thing!
 
UR20Z said:
Not just no, but HELL NO. Mental illness should be kept to oneself.
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Why is crossdressing a sign of mental illness? Clothes (and many other things) don't have gender biologically speaking. What's considered feminine/masculine clothing is based on societal norms/expectations and I think it would be better if stereotypes like these were demolished instead of strengthened so people would not feel the pressure to be a "real" woman/man but they could simply just be themselves. Men can be "feminine" and still be men and women can be "masculine" and still be women. Did you know that men used to wear high heels, makeup, wigs, jewelry and tights to showcase their wealth? Red was described as highly masculine color as you can see many royalties and fighters in old paintings dressed in bright red. Women were not supposed to stand out and this is still the norm in cultures where women are expected to cover themselves. What's considered masculine/feminine depends on time and place. Notice that the general public believes zoos are crazy. All types of fetishes were listed among mental illnesses not too long time ago. In other words, what's considered a mental illness also depends on time and place. Get to know people first before diagnosing them. People have different reasonings behind their lifestyles and tastes. AND even if crossdressing was unhealthy(, which I don't think it is as long as it's not an obsession or insecurity), it should be discussed openly instead of "kept to oneself". Just like discussions about zoos and other controversial topics should not be silenced.
 
Thank you for this, very well stated!
Ugly-Bitch-Outi said:
Why is crossdressing a sign of mental illness? Clothes (and many other things) don't have gender biologically speaking. What's considered feminine/masculine clothing is based on societal norms/expectations and I think it would be better if stereotypes like these were demolished instead of strengthened so people would not feel the pressure to be a "real" woman/man but they could simply just be themselves. Men can be "feminine" and still be men and women can be "masculine" and still be women. Did you know that men used to wear high heels, makeup, wigs, jewelry and tights to showcase their wealth? Red was described as highly masculine color as you can see many royalties and fighters in old paintings dressed in bright red. Women were not supposed to stand out and this is still the norm in cultures where women are expected to cover themselves. What's considered masculine/feminine depends on time and place. Notice that the general public believes zoos are crazy. All types of fetishes were listed among mental illnesses not too long time ago. In other words, what's considered a mental illness also depends on time and place. Get to know people first before diagnosing them. People have different reasonings behind their lifestyles and tastes. AND even if crossdressing was unhealthy(, which I don't think it is as long as it's not an obsession or insecurity), it should be discussed openly instead of "kept to oneself". Just like discussions about zoos and other controversial topics should not be silenced.
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Ugly-Bitch-Outi said:
Why is crossdressing a sign of mental illness? Clothes (and many other things) don't have gender biologically speaking. What's considered feminine/masculine clothing is based on societal norms/expectations and I think it would be better if stereotypes like these were demolished instead of strengthened so people would not feel the pressure to be a "real" woman/man but they could simply just be themselves. Men can be "feminine" and still be men and women can be "masculine" and still be women. Did you know that men used to wear high heels, makeup, wigs, jewelry and tights to showcase their wealth? Red was described as highly masculine color as you can see many royalties and fighters in old paintings dressed in bright red. Women were not supposed to stand out and this is still the norm in cultures where women are expected to cover themselves. What's considered masculine/feminine depends on time and place. Notice that the general public believes zoos are crazy. All types of fetishes were listed among mental illnesses not too long time ago. In other words, what's considered a mental illness also depends on time and place. Get to know people first before diagnosing them. People have different reasonings behind their lifestyles and tastes. AND even if crossdressing was unhealthy(, which I don't think it is as long as it's not an obsession or insecurity), it should be discussed openly instead of "kept to oneself". Just like discussions about zoos and other controversial topics should not be silenced.
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That's a nice pile of spew to defend your mental illness...
 
UR20Z said:
Not just no, but HELL NO. Mental illness should be kept to oneself.
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Many many people would claim you are mentally ill simply by being on this forum and interested in this. I think you're just a sad little man spewing out vitriol to make himself seem bigger - and failing miserably.

To the OP: had some great experiences with trans and x-dressers, many of whom seem more in touch with their sexuality and willing to experiment.
 
AsianHouseWife said:
Many many people would claim you are mentally ill simply by being on this forum and interested in this. I think you're just a sad little man spewing out vitriol to make himself seem bigger - and failing miserably.

To the OP: had some great experiences with trans and x-dressers, many of whom seem more in touch with their sexuality and willing to experiment.
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Thank you so much and very well said! I love experimenting lol!
 
AsianHouseWife said:
Many many people would claim you are mentally ill simply by being on this forum and interested in this.
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And this is relevant to the thread how?

AsianHouseWife said:
I think you're just a sad little man spewing out vitriol to make himself seem bigger - and failing miserably.
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Ah, so you're one of those froot-loops, eh? Good to know.

AsianHouseWife said:
To the OP: had some great experiences with trans and x-dressers, many of whom seem more in touch with their sexuality and willing to experiment.
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