This is a deep psychological question. If you found Michelle Pfeifer as cat woman hot then you are half way there. If you want to be her, you are there. Perhaps we’re all there and dont realize it?
Greets not currently Therian but I explored it in the past. Technically I still am but I don't take it very seriously, though it still brings me comfort and it's cool to see what new people are doing with the community <3
(Also I'm transmasc)